not like I'm any kind of casanova or anything when it comes to the ladies, but really man, once you get over that initial fear of first impressions, meeting women is easy as piss.
Most of the women in my town are retired, as it's a retirement town. Then there's the many married MILFs. After that, it's kinda slim pickings, because the 20-somethings that i
would be dating did what twentysomethings in any boring-as-shit town do -- they went in school out of town/state, and only visit the area to visit their folks.
i had a short-lived thing with a woman i met at Fresh/MILF Market a month or so back, but she ended up being married, and i really didn't want to deal with that. i've had a profile on a few dating sites for a while, and i just use it as another avenue of meeting women i'd otherwise miss when i go out out of town. It has nothing to do with being pathetic or shy or whatever, and everything to do with increasing my chances of meeting someone. i'm not even looking for sex anymore, if i want that's more or less a given, but just someone to hang out with. i think people looking for a relationship, online or off, are setting themselves up for a lot of disappointment.