So here's my Stoney-take of the night when it comes to expectations from praise. I just finished
Lady Bird and as someone who loves quirky hs/college coming of age films like Anderson stuff, Juno, or more recently End of the F***king World, Lady Bird didn't grab me.
It was good, but Ronan's acting as a HS kid felt really awkward to me. It's especially echo'd by the very minor timeskip college era where suddenly she's acting normal. And I'm not talking about the manneurism, as much as the style of speech in her HS-era. It's like she was trying to act young and naive and not always the brightest and she delivers her dialogue in this weird way that for me just felt like bad acting. Like most of the movie felt really cheesy and even a little cringe, which I've never felt in other hs stuff. Her character didn't feel like a HS senior to me in the extreme naivety, it felt like the character was written at a maturity level of a Jr. High kid (along with the other school kids) and not 17 year old seniors. Or maybe it's just that in most movies about HS kids, the kids act more mature than HS kids, so my baseline's been thrown off.
Anyhow, because it felt pretty cheesy to me (felt more like a retro throwback Fast Times in Richmond High kind of film than a Rushmore [again that was college so maybe bad comparison] kind of film), I enjoyed and identified and had more empathy toward the parents and adult characters. The kids were just too...kiddy. I felt like 20 years too old for this movie.
That being said it was pretty well directed, and the story is solid with some good music choices. I think it felt a little too short, you're supposed to have all this growing up experiences stuff happen in the HS-era so the college-era reflection pays off, but it was just a bunch of short snippets. Knowing where the movie is going in the end, I think I'd probably enjoy it more on a re-watch.
But yeah, I liked it, 3/4 style, but don't really get the raving and oscar noms kind of stuff from it. I think it handled the themes of catholic school, small forgotten towns, and low income families well. The mother/daughter, family relations were good. The coming of age stuff was...ok, and I feel I've seen a lot better coming of age teen movies.
Anyhow I thought End of the F**king World was a much better coming of age thing, also helped the characters actually felt their age while Ronan felt like a 20+ year old playing essentially a 15 year old which never felt natural to me.
I didn't know much about the controversy until my viewing and I kinda-sorta-maybe agree with it. Doesn't drag the film down but I just wonder what the point of having a sympathetic super hardcore racist, who never apologizes for it, in the movie is. That said he does get a kind of judgment towards the end of the movie but then he's best buds with Cantankerous Mom and I didn't really buy it.
Film would have been better if Rockwell was a pure mommy's boy archetype.
Dude is a piece of shit, but an interesting one, and even at the end he's shitty and he knows & feels it (almost kills himself), and he's trying to do some good things to be a better person. He has a good character arc. I think the movie highlights how a lot of racism is inherited basically though family brainwashing. His character is so dependent on his mother, whose a horrible racist which has in turn created this character who is a piece of shit and lives an awful life and wonders why everything bad happens to him, only in the end to wake up a bit and grow.
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Also not sure if there's a different thread for oscar talk, but just saw the winners. Pretty ok with everything across the board. I probably would've given Best Picture to Three Billboards or Dunkirk over Shape of Water (haven't seen Call my By my Name yet), but everything else seems like solid choices I can't really complain about.