Author Topic: I hate it when you're single and u find out your ex is in a new relationship... (Read 1402 times)

tiesto · « **on:** March 31, 2009, 12:16:58 PM »

See the topic... just saw on facebook that the last girl I dated (some of you may remember her as the Jesus freak who wanted me to convert and join her cult) is in a new relationship. It makes me feel kinda bad since, this year, I have been absolutely bombing with women. i.e. I have yet to get a second date and I have been on dates with 8 women. And the girls whose #'s I got at bars haven't even bothered to call me back

Hopefully her new guy is a Christian, for his own sake/sanity.

Anyone also get bummed by this, that their ex's got a new person when they are still single?

tehjaybo · « **Reply #1 on:** March 31, 2009, 12:23:11 PM »

Yeah, I understand completely. 20 dollar nacho chick is batshit insane, but I still care about her a lot. It hurts me to see her talking to new guys, but it's for the best. I try to avoid reading anything about her. I took her and most of her friends off of my facebook so I didn't have to see her posting shit about new guys.

Rman · « **Reply #2 on:** March 31, 2009, 12:33:13 PM »

Yeah, I understand as well. That's why I usually never get in touch with ex's, even on facebook and such. I mean I try to be diplomatic in break up, but there is no need to contact the other person, ever.

tiesto · « **Reply #3 on:** March 31, 2009, 12:51:39 PM »

Quote from: Jinfash on March 31, 2009, 12:40:02 PM

Quote from: Rman on March 31, 2009, 12:33:13 PM
Yeah, I understand as well. That's why I usually never get in touch with ex's, even on facebook and such. I mean I try to be diplomatic in break up, but there is no need to contact the other person, ever.

Seriously, why were you checking her FB tiesto?

It came up on my feed that she was in a new relationship.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #4 on:** March 31, 2009, 12:55:21 PM »

i wouldn't know...

Ganhyun · « **Reply #5 on:** March 31, 2009, 12:59:01 PM »

Quote from: fistfulofmetal on March 31, 2009, 12:55:21 PM

i wouldn't know...

Still haven't talked to the Metro girl, if she's even still there, have you?

tiesto · « **Reply #6 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:04:32 PM »

Quote from: fistfulofmetal on March 31, 2009, 12:55:21 PM

i wouldn't know...

You're from Buffalo, right? I will be up there in May... we'll hit up Chippewa and I'll wing for you...

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #7 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:18:18 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on March 31, 2009, 01:04:32 PM

Quote from: fistfulofmetal on March 31, 2009, 12:55:21 PM
i wouldn't know...

You're from Buffalo, right? I will be up there in May... we'll hit up Chippewa and I'll wing for you...

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #8 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:22:19 PM »

you'll never find me

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #9 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:23:24 PM »

While it does suck, I find that it helps a little bit when you can tell yourself that although you're not with her any more, at least you don't have to put up with [insert crazy shit here] that you used to when you were with her.

Ganhyun · « **Reply #10 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:32:05 PM »

Quote from: The Card Cheat on March 31, 2009, 01:23:24 PM

While it does suck, I find that it helps a little bit when you can tell yourself that although you're not with her any more, at least you don't have to put up with [insert crazy shit here] that you used to when you were with her.

This

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #11 on:** March 31, 2009, 01:40:42 PM »

Yeah. Also I find that after I'm dealing with a new girl's crazy shit, my older exes don't seem NEARLY so bad in comparison. I've made peace with a couple of exes now that I never thought I would at the time. Of course, my last gf really WAS just a bundle of TOO MUCH SHIT GOING ON- dealing with finally getting her divorce, health issues and other shit. And it ended pretty badly, so I don't see us being cordial anytime in the future.

Tauntaun · « **Reply #12 on:** March 31, 2009, 02:12:45 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on March 31, 2009, 01:04:32 PM

Quote from: fistfulofmetal on March 31, 2009, 12:55:21 PM
i wouldn't know...

You're from Buffalo, right? I will be up there in May... we'll hit up Chippewa and I'll wing for you...

aka - his penis in your butt

Buffalo, home of Cannibal Corpse

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Bildi · « **Reply #13 on:** March 31, 2009, 07:13:26 PM »

I thought it would hurt with my last ex as we are friends, but it ended up being OK. We'd been apart for a year or two and when she started going out with someone it was a deadshit druggie (who she thankfully dumped). So it ended up not hurting.

bork · « **Reply #14 on:** March 31, 2009, 08:14:16 PM »

One my friends got dumped by his ex on Valentine's Day last year. $:-\$ He says he's moved on and has dated a few other girls since then, but he's definitely still bitter about it and seems to bring it up all the time over a year later.

The Fake Shemp · « **Reply #15 on:** March 31, 2009, 09:05:09 PM »

Quote from: The Card Cheat on March 31, 2009, 01:23:24 PM

While it does suck, I find that it helps a little bit when you can tell yourself that although you're not with her any more, at least you don't have to put up with [insert crazy shit here] that you used to when you were with her.

Ding ding ding!

Other advice I can give you is: go to Vegas.

Barry Egan · « **Reply #16 on:** March 31, 2009, 09:17:54 PM »

Quote from: Genghis Cohen on March 31, 2009, 08:19:59 PM

One of my ex-girlfriends started dating one of my best friends and I stayed friends with both of them, and she later introduced to me to my wife. We are all still friends.

functional relationships

Rman · « **Reply #17 on:** March 31, 2009, 09:19:28 PM »

Quote from: dcharlie on March 31, 2009, 09:14:29 PM

it's even more fun when you aren't single and you find out your ~~girlfriend~~ ex is in a new relationship!

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #18 on:** March 31, 2009, 09:35:09 PM »

Unless the relationship ended on a real bad note or the "flame" rekindles rather easily, I never understood how one could not become friends with someone when the relationship just fizzles out.

Cormacaroni · « **Reply #19 on:** March 31, 2009, 09:37:22 PM »

Quote from: Genghis Cohen on March 31, 2009, 08:19:59 PM

One of my ex-girlfriends started dating one of my best friends and I stayed friends with both of them, and she later introduced to me to my wife. We are all still friends.

...with benefits? tell us go on, gooo oooooonnnnn tell us

Bloodwake · « **Reply #20 on:** March 31, 2009, 11:05:26 PM »

Just started dating someone. Wish me luck!

The Fake Shemp · « **Reply #21 on:** March 31, 2009, 11:09:20 PM »

Good luck!

spoiler (click to show/hide)

... but I can't wait for the, "my new girlfriend is cheating on me and stole all my money for crystal meth!" thread.

[close]

Eric P · « **Reply #22 on:** April 01, 2009, 12:33:15 AM »

Quote from: Willco on March 31, 2009, 11:09:20 PM

Good luck!

spoiler (click to show/hide)
... but I can't wait for the, "my new girlfriend is cheating on me and stole all my money for crystal meth!" thread.
[close]

kentucky love!

tiesto · « **Reply #23 on:** April 01, 2009, 10:54:53 AM »

Quote from: Genghis Cohen on March 31, 2009, 08:19:59 PM

One of my ex-girlfriends started dating one of my best friends and I stayed friends with both of them, and she later introduced to me to my wife. We are all still friends.

Did she break up with you for your best friend or was there a 'cool off' period?

I actually only managed to stay friends with one of my ex's... it helps that that was the one who was a big gamer/geek/RPG fan. Wish she could hook me up but she doesn't know very many attractive girls. Another one of my ex's turned into a lesbian and an RPG fan (who loves Xenosaga and Kingdom Hearts

) years after we broke up but we lost touch.

Congrats on the date, Bloodwake... I am a bit excited since I got an email from a girl on Match who is short, cute, and a doctor.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #24 on:** April 01, 2009, 10:58:16 AM »

Luckily I have only ever been in one relationship and we are still going strong. But seriously, Life's too short to worry abut that shit.

Bloodwake · « **Reply #25 on:** April 01, 2009, 02:26:26 PM »

I have a feeling that I'm not going to be dating someone by the end of the day.

God, fucking women.

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Author Topic: I hate it when you're single and u find out your ex is in a new relationship... (Read 1402 times)