I'm not conservative, but the problem I see with the Republican party is a lack of real leadership. The only reason the talking head get so much press is because actual elected officials have not shown any signs of leadership.
For example, we're going through one the biggest financial crises in decades and the Congressional Republican leaderships just wants more tax cuts. I don't mind them clamoring for cuts, but every major economist has mentioned that tax cuts alone are not going to get us out of this mess, even conservative economist. The party has become the party of no. I can understand honestly disagreeing with Obama's policies, but there has been a failure from the Republican leadership to articulate any cogent options, other than screaming for more tax cuts, which Americans aren't buying. Some economist even believe the original stimulus package was too little.
Also the party has to give up their obsession with people's private lives, especially in the bedroom. Interestingly the party that champions lax regulation on industry has been weighed down by a wing that is obsessed with telling women what to do with their bodies and preventing gays from marrying.