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Interracial dating: An EvilBore discussion
« on: August 08, 2006, 07:17:45 PM »
This has been done on GAF before, but I want to get my fellow Evilborian's thoughts on this touchy subject. I am especially interested in interracial dating in the gay community. Is it a big issue?

Personally, I like all women. Of course I'm most used to black women since I'm black, but I would love to date someone of a different race (latinas especially). Although, I will say that I'd think before dating a white person. Not because I'm racist, just because of the world we live in. That would take a serious committment, no stupid infatuations and crap. On more than one occassion my grandparents have pulled me aside and nervously asked me if I was dating a white chick lol. I understand where their prejudices are coming from, and I'm sure they aren't the only elderly people who feel like that -_-
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« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2006, 07:18:17 PM »
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« Reply #2 on: August 08, 2006, 07:20:01 PM »
Were there any problems with parents or anything like that?

"Mom, I met this asian chick..."
"Ok..."
"On the internet"
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« Reply #3 on: August 08, 2006, 07:21:34 PM »
My parents love CrystalGemini.  They think she makes me dress better, I'm less wild than I used to be and a lot calmer.  She got me to voluntarily go to a wedding and put on a suit, something my mom had to almost knock me out to do when I was even in the party.  My sister thinks she's funny.

... her folks don't know exist.  And how!
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« Reply #4 on: August 08, 2006, 07:22:38 PM »
Hey Wilco, tell us about how you're dating a board member, again. What's it like?  ::)
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« Reply #5 on: August 08, 2006, 07:22:57 PM »
Aw, so her parents don't know? :(

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« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2006, 07:24:07 PM »
Hey Wilco, tell us about how you're dating a board member, again. What's it like?  ::)

He asked me about it, Shake.  Quit being bitter because the only thing to keep you warm on those cold Sunday nights are new ATHF episodes.

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Aw, so her parents don't know?

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« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2006, 07:24:36 PM »
WHAT NEW ATHF EPISODES?!  :'( :'( :'(
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« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2006, 07:25:03 PM »
WHAT NEW ATHF EPISODES?!  :'( :'( :'(

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« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2006, 07:27:47 PM »
My boyfriend is full blooded Italian, though that's still considered white, right?

I guess I'm not as exotic as willco ; ;

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« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2006, 07:27:48 PM »
Well that would certainly suck. Have you met them? :(

That's one of the problems I'd be really concerned about. If the parents are accepting, it can possibly lead to some complications. I know a guy who tried that. His parents (both of whom are from Africa) didn't know he was dating a white girl, but when they found out...BAM. Grounded for two freaking months.

He's 17 :lol
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« Reply #11 on: August 08, 2006, 07:29:42 PM »
My dad's not a racist or anything, but I think he'd be a little taken aback if I dated a black guy or a middle eastern guy.

My mom probably wouldn't care at all.

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« Reply #12 on: August 08, 2006, 07:31:02 PM »
We can never be together.
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« Reply #13 on: August 08, 2006, 07:34:50 PM »
My folks wouldn't care if I dated White Man :o...

... I have not met CrystalGemini's folks, but even if they knew about me, they'd have absolutely no desire to meet me.  In fact, I am pretty sure they'd tell her that I can't come over.
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« Reply #14 on: August 08, 2006, 07:34:59 PM »
I'm (mostly) white and my girlfriend is asian.  The racial difference isn't worth a second thought, and if anyone I knew objected to it I'd drop them like a rock.  When you let other people's ignorant stigmas govern your life you are just as bad as they are.

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« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2006, 07:39:19 PM »
So.....


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« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2006, 07:39:57 PM »
Love is love.

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« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2006, 07:40:48 PM »
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« Reply #18 on: August 08, 2006, 07:45:20 PM »
No, they'd freak out if they knew.

It could be worse. You could be a black guy.

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« Reply #19 on: August 08, 2006, 07:46:19 PM »
No, they'd freak out if they knew.

It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
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« Reply #20 on: August 08, 2006, 07:47:49 PM »
dating, maybe asian females as I feel attracted to them easily, but on a serious scale, I'd probably only really date a caucasian girl on a long-term... then again you never know what wicked surprises life has in store for you

it's not that some people are necessarily racist or fearful of their peers' reactions even if the latter is often sadly a huge factor --  it's that in some cases they've grown in an environment with their only peers being people of their own racial origin, so they can't really be attracted as purely to most other races that look too different from their own as they breed specific standards of beauty

things I guess are different for people growing up in cosmopolitan towns/states

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« Reply #21 on: August 08, 2006, 07:49:01 PM »
My folks wouldn't care if I dated White Man :o...

... I have not met CrystalGemini's folks, but even if they knew about me, they'd have absolutely no desire to meet me.  In fact, I am pretty sure they'd tell her that I can't come over.

so does that means you've both accepted that your relation will be ephemeral or do you still hang on hope of some future acceptance?

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« Reply #22 on: August 08, 2006, 07:51:27 PM »
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It could be worse. You could be a black guy.

This is true.  Her folks may hate me, but they'd disown her for dating a black guy.

so does that means you've both accepted that your relation will be ephemeral or do you still hang on hope of some future acceptance?

What do her parent's acceptance of me have to do with us?  Absolutely nothing.
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« Reply #23 on: August 08, 2006, 07:52:17 PM »
No, they'd freak out if they knew.

It could be worse. You could be a black guy.
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And who could blame 'em?  :-*

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« Reply #24 on: August 08, 2006, 07:53:02 PM »
But what about marriage!
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« Reply #25 on: August 08, 2006, 07:53:36 PM »
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« Reply #26 on: August 08, 2006, 07:56:12 PM »
Being from scotland, I've never really had to think about it. I don't think I would care about skin colour..except for unnatural skin colours like blue or something.  :P
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« Reply #27 on: August 08, 2006, 07:57:36 PM »
But what about marriage!

I'm 22.  I'm not thinking about marriage right now.  If it's meant to be, it'll happen.  Who knows.
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« Reply #28 on: August 08, 2006, 08:09:57 PM »
Are you in college? o_O
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« Reply #29 on: August 08, 2006, 08:18:06 PM »
I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...
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« Reply #30 on: August 08, 2006, 08:19:13 PM »
I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...

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« Reply #31 on: August 08, 2006, 08:26:36 PM »
I'm pretty sure the only race my parents (and grandparents) would raise their eyebrows at would be if I dated a black girl. Even then, it wouldn't be a big deal probably. I don't find many black girls attractive anyhow, though. Not too many asians either. Now if I was gay...

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I'm just stating how I feel PD. It's probably due to me seeing basically only white girls as I grew up.
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« Reply #32 on: August 08, 2006, 08:27:39 PM »
I'm joking dude. To tell the truth, I find most blondes to be a major turnoff. So it's all good XD
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« Reply #33 on: August 08, 2006, 08:28:06 PM »
I'm joking dude. To tell the truth, I find most blondes to be a major turnoff. So it's all good XD
I'm more of a brunette man myself as well.
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« Reply #34 on: August 08, 2006, 08:30:07 PM »
That's the truth. Brunettes FTW. Blondes are overrated imho.

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« Reply #35 on: August 08, 2006, 08:41:14 PM »
As I said before, I want a Cost Plus international import sampler of women.  All the fine booty the world has to offer.

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« Reply #36 on: August 08, 2006, 08:44:32 PM »
As I said before, I want a Cost Plus international import sampler of women.  All the fine booty the world has to offer.

That's actually a good idea. All the booties of the world lined up. You only get to stick one. WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE
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« Reply #37 on: August 08, 2006, 08:50:52 PM »
I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all.  Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man.  I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women. 

Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races.  Isn't a color thing, though.
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« Reply #38 on: August 08, 2006, 08:57:28 PM »
I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all.  Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man.  I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women. 

Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races.  Isn't a color thing, though.

I'm 6'3 and I wear a size 13 shoe.

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« Reply #39 on: August 08, 2006, 09:00:19 PM »
5'10"-ish and wear a size 15 shoe.

I'm not in college.  I do graphic design for a housewares company.
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« Reply #40 on: August 08, 2006, 09:00:36 PM »
I'm not opposed to interracial dating at all.  Personally, I wouldn't date a middle eastern man.  I'm not really down with that general area's attitudes towards women. 

Also, I don't really date guys under 6', which counts out the vast majority of a lot of races.  Isn't a color thing, though.

I'm 6'3 and I wear a size 13 shoe.

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I'm 5'7" and wear a size 10.

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« Reply #41 on: August 08, 2006, 09:02:15 PM »
I'm taller than Willco and ...wait, are you whitefu or fancie?    :lol
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« Reply #42 on: August 08, 2006, 09:07:31 PM »
<--- Me?

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« Reply #43 on: August 08, 2006, 09:09:37 PM »
I'm taller than Willco and ...wait, are you whitefu or fancie?    :lol
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« Reply #44 on: August 08, 2006, 09:19:15 PM »
And Willco, you must look like you're wearing clown shoes all the time.
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« Reply #45 on: August 08, 2006, 09:20:48 PM »
NO I DON'T
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« Reply #47 on: August 08, 2006, 09:32:50 PM »
Big feet? We all know what that means AMIRITE
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« Reply #48 on: August 08, 2006, 09:39:12 PM »
I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.

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« Reply #49 on: August 08, 2006, 09:39:58 PM »
I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.

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« Reply #50 on: August 08, 2006, 11:29:22 PM »
I'm 5'7" and wear a size 10.

 :( :( :( :(
Me too, but my shoe's an 11  ;)
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« Reply #51 on: August 09, 2006, 12:34:47 AM »
If it weren't for interracial relationships you wouldn't have as fine a specimen as me posting here.

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« Reply #52 on: August 09, 2006, 12:39:29 AM »
Being from scotland, I've never really had to think about it. I don't think I would care about skin colour..except for unnatural skin colours like blue or something.  :P

I have a lot of Scottish blood in me and I think my surname is pretty common over there.  I want to visit the UK so bad.
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« Reply #53 on: August 21, 2006, 10:17:00 PM »
I've been dating a Japanese girl for six months now, and it's been going great.  I was warned that there might be some problems when I met her family; if they didn't like me or hated non-Japanese, I should consider the relationship to be over.  But when I met them, they received me quite warmly, and I often go to their house and wind up spending the night there (in a separate room from my girlfriend, of course  :'().  I also brought my parents over to meet them when they came to visit me, and that went off incredibly well. 

Her parents even inivited me to come and meet some of their extended family during the Obon holiday, which I did; I spent the entire day with her parents and some of their cousins/siblings, without my girlfriend even being there (she had to work).  They're almost like a second family to me now; it's kind of scary, but considering the way things have been going with both my girl and her family, I think I'm going to end up being married to her within a year or two.   :o  :lol  Quite frankly, I think I'd be all for it; we just get along so damn well together, but obviously, no need to rush. 

Tomorrow we're both going to go on a week-long vacation to the States.  I'm going to show her around Atlanta, and she's going to meet my family and friends.  She's incredibly excited since this will be her first time in the U.S.
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« Reply #54 on: August 21, 2006, 10:20:05 PM »
I'm really small. 5'3, 110 lbs. So it's hard for me to find guys who are smaller than me, but yeah, I probably wouldn't date one that was.

:p

A guy smaller than 5'3 would be hitting that dwarfism look. Though...i'm 5'4...so i'm hitting close...but I don't look like a dwarf!

Oh and I've always wanted to date a black girl but most girls in the area that are black have polar opposite personalities so thats been a no go.
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« Reply #55 on: August 21, 2006, 10:51:33 PM »
I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.

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« Reply #56 on: August 21, 2006, 10:53:21 PM »
I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.

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« Reply #57 on: August 21, 2006, 10:57:30 PM »
Yeah, I'm all about breaking the perception.

A couple of things.  CrystalGemini's ancestry is Chinese, I hate anime (well, I own the Cowboy Bebop movie, but that's about it), I have no fascination with Japanese or Asian culture and I never touched anything with non-English characters on the label until I met CrystalGemini.  So yeah, it really has nothing to do with that.

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« Reply #58 on: August 21, 2006, 11:05:13 PM »
I used to work with this old guy who had all these Asian massage parlor cards, seemed to date exclusively Asian women (not to mention would check every one he ever ran into out excessively with no designs on subtlety) and even tried to marry a Thai women so she could get permanent residency despite having only known her for two weeks. When they went to Town Hall though he found out he actually hadn't been divorced from his ex-wife and by the time the divorce went through it was too late, lol.

I think that's what messed me up. Made for an unpleasant remainder of the month at work. :(

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« Reply #59 on: August 21, 2006, 11:28:17 PM »
I probably wouldn't go Asian as I'd worry that people would percieve me to be one of those anime types. Shallow and bad of me, I know, but I'd have trouble getting past that whichever way I cut it. In my defense though, most (all?) of the white men I have known to date Asian girls have been either anime or seedy old man types, so it's not like the perception is completely removed from reality.

Shallow AND stupid.   :-\

Back home all the anime losers I knew dated other anime losers.  The Asian girls could care less; that's got jack to do with it.  If you're that much of an anime "cultured" loser back home, it's not like you're magically going to become "gaijin stud" and gets loads of chicks here either.  Unless you want to count the girls paid to talk to you at maid cafes, I guess.  Otaku am cry  :'( 

Anime is just typical cartoons here...just like the toons back home.  It's not even so much anime-related goods that people might be obsessed with or buy character goods like clothes, pencil cases, etc.  It's whatever they think is cute.  I see far more Elmo, Stitch, Mickey Mouse, and Snoopy goods that students have at work than I ever do anything anime-related.

BTW, there's many kinds of "Asian girls."  It's not like they're all Japanese or Chinese.  :P
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