I pretty much kick the diet soft drinks out completely. I won't lie, I'll have a Diet Sprite every now and then. I had three last weekend! But I mostly stick to water; when I'm pretty strict with the water consumption, that's when I notice the weight loss. I don't think it's a coincidence, so I'm guessing while the diet soft drinks aren't necessarily bad, they probably retain water weight or something.
I'd recommend cardio initially, just to build your stamina. Cormac might disagree with me, but if I didn't lose some immediate weight and build up any kind of stamina, I wouldn't be able to lift weights. I'd probably
die.I'm usually strict about calories, I prefer to keep them in the vicinity of 1,500 to 1,800 per day. I eat mainly poultry and seafood, all my carbs are whole grains (whole wheat pasta, whole wheat bread, etc.) and even those are monitored. I try to plan out my day, that way I don't go hungry. I'll eat snacks. I eat spinach, asparagus, green beans, etc.
My "diet" is not really restrictive; I eat whatever I want, but
everything is measured and in moderation. Buy one of those scales to measure you food, and it'll be a life saver. I know exactly what goes into my body and how much. For instance, today it'll been:
BREAKFAST: 1/2 CUP EGG WHITES, TSP PAPRIKA, 1/8TH CUP FAT FREE CHEDDAR CHEESE, 3 TURKEY SAUSAGE LINKS (1 SRV), 2 WHOLE WHEAT TOAST SLICES, 1 TBSP MARGARINE SPREAD
SNACK: 1 APPLE
LUNCH: 4 OZ. GRILLED LAMB, 1/4 CUP OF QUINOA, 1 TBSP OF CHOPPED GARLIC, 3 OZ. FROZEN SHRIMP, 2 TBSP OF PARMESAN CHEESE
SNACK: KASHI PROTEIN AND FIBER BAR
*Time to workout on the elliptical for 40 minutes, then do some crunches and push ups!*
DINNER: 4 OZ. TILAPIA, 2 OZ. WHOLE GRAIN PENNE PASTA, 2 TBSP OF PARMESAN CHEESE, 1 TBSP OF LIGHT EXTRA VIRGIN OLIVE OIL, 3 OZ. SPINACH
DESSERT: Either JELL-O or OATMEAL w/ SPLENDA & CINNAMON (sorry, Cormac!)
... That'll put me a little over 1,800 calories for the day (but not much) and I'm okay with that. And you'll fall off the wagon. I know there's some hummus downstairs that's pretty tempting, and I might succumb to it, but the key is not to go crazy. 80 calories of hummus and 35 calories worth of wheat crackers is not going to kill me.
I won't lie, monitoring your portions and everything is tough. The first few weeks were brutal, because my body generated the stomach acid necessary to digest two to three times the amount of food I was eating - and the acid reflux was
epic as a result.
Sunday, I have the benefit of my father coming over and working me out for 70 to 90 minutes. We work with half a dozen dumbbell sets and focus on working almost every muscle I got with weights, restriction bands, medicine balls, etc.
I try to lift once a week at the gym, but sometimes I can't make it. I fill out the remainder of the week with three days of cardio, and always make sure to lift with dumbbells every other day. I'll do push ups, crunches, squats, etc. after my cardio.
And that's how I'm doing it. I've fallen off the wagon thanks to all the holiday meals, but I plan to be pretty strict this week.