Author Topic: Small Talk (Read 2003 times)

Fresh Prince · « **on:** April 05, 2010, 07:23:58 PM »

Nerd Rage building

The Dark Shake 3000 · « **Reply #1 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:25:49 PM »

You should start cutting, and forget to stop.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #2 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:30:19 PM »

People should realise they lead boring ass lives and stop talking about it!

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #3 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:36:30 PM »

Go real talk or go home.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #4 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:39:04 PM »

Facts: http://blogs.wsj.com/juggle/2010/03/24/small-talk-big-hindrance-to-happiness/

Brehvolution · « **Reply #5 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:51:20 PM »

I came expecting this.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #6 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:52:24 PM »

so fresh prince how was your day

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #7 on:** April 05, 2010, 07:57:04 PM »

Hey how's it going? I'm good. Ya the weather is nice. Not much. Probably homework. Anyways, see ya.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #8 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:00:01 PM »

Your posts annoy me more than they should :'(

The Dark Shake 3000 · « **Reply #9 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:00:57 PM »

Father_Mike

Arvie should be fucking president of Evilbore.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #10 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:42:33 PM »

I vaguely remember the reference. I'm not Squall- whenever I talk it doesn't always have to be serious!

Dickie Dee · « **Reply #11 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:43:44 PM »

Quote from: Fresh Prince on April 05, 2010, 07:39:04 PM

Facts: http://blogs.wsj.com/juggle/2010/03/24/small-talk-big-hindrance-to-happiness/

That seems strange, unless the unhappy people were reporting on their conversations, but the article makes in sound like they were independently tracked

EmCeeGrammar · « **Reply #12 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:45:28 PM »

What do you consider small talk? If they're telling you about their day then I dunno crossreference with your own day.

EmCeeGrammar · « **Reply #13 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:46:06 PM »

Quote from: Fresh Prince on April 05, 2010, 08:42:33 PM

I vaguely remember the reference. I'm not Squall- whenever I talk it doesn't always have to be serious!

Do you always go "..."
"..."
"uh huh..."

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #14 on:** April 05, 2010, 08:50:16 PM »

Not really people are happy to talk about what they are interested or vested in. The more deeper the better. They only placate other people with small talk because it is being 'courteous'.

For me it overhearing small talk. Like when people talk about cake displays to try and extend a conversation. fyl.
I think I am polite but distant since at work I'm all business

drew · « **Reply #15 on:** April 05, 2010, 10:46:58 PM »

no talking >>> small talk > deep talk

Powerslave · « **Reply #16 on:** April 05, 2010, 11:39:37 PM »

Banish small talk. Everyone should immediately initiate deep philosophical conversations when they meet. This will be epic..

Great Rumbler · « **Reply #17 on:** April 05, 2010, 11:44:34 PM »

"Hello."

"Hello."

"Why do we live?"

"Life is but a vapor, to live is to feel the oppressive forces of inevitability and helplessness. We live so that we may come to terms with these things and accept them."

"There is much thought in what you say and I concur with your observation. To live is to accept death, and to accept death is to accept the beauty of life. Would you care to come to my apartment and have sex?"

"Yes."

Powerslave · « **Reply #18 on:** April 05, 2010, 11:48:11 PM »

lol

Heaven on earth :'(

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #19 on:** April 05, 2010, 11:53:34 PM »

Quote from: Great Rumbler on April 05, 2010, 11:44:34 PM

"Hello."

"Hello."

"Why do we live?"

"Life is but a vapor, to live is to feel the oppressive forces of inevitability and helplessness. We live so that we may come to terms with these things and accept them."

"There is much thought in what you say and I concur with your observation. To live is to accept death, and to accept death is to accept the beauty of life. Would you care to come to my apartment and have sex?"

"Yes."

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #20 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:03:54 AM »

That's like the opening paragraph in The Three Stigmata of Palmer Eldrich or whatever it was called.

HyperZoneWasAwesome · « **Reply #21 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:09:52 AM »

[youtube=560,345]1si6M-vDEzI[/youtube]

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #22 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:16:36 AM »

I am too deep for this world.

Powerslave · « **Reply #23 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:27:48 AM »

No one understands me.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #24 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:30:38 AM »

Sometimes I think what's the point of it all? To struggle like Atlas with fate, with burden. It comes to nothing in the end.

Powerslave · « **Reply #25 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:36:38 AM »

I feel like there's something out there, hindering my progress and happiness using all it's strength..

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #26 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:41:12 AM »

I am Prometheus chained upon this rock, vultures feeding on my liver...gratitude.

Powerslave · « **Reply #27 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:44:25 AM »

Just like Icarus I reach for the sky and drift away.. even if it's only for a moment.. I want to taste it.. I want to feel liberty

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #28 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:47:08 AM »

burned by my own ambition, hurtling to earth by my own weight.

Powerslave · « **Reply #29 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:57:16 AM »

Plummeting down, feel the wind screaming in my ears.. as I look above one last thing flows through my mind... cocks..

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #30 on:** April 06, 2010, 12:57:40 AM »

So it's not going good then? Marianne was just telling me about this new herbal tea she got in China town. Its suppose to increase you electrolytes or something, anyway she said after just 3 months on it she's never felt better! Maybe you should try some? I'll get the name of it from Marianne the next time we talk.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #31 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:00:08 AM »

Even though you are socially inpet you are good at small talk. BUT it makes sense! Good at small talk = unhappy.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #32 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:06:59 AM »

I'm actually not. I'm one of those people that only answer with "yes", "no" or some short sentence.

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #33 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:08:21 AM »

So basically you suffer from social anxiety?

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #34 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:33:02 AM »

Ya. Who knew eh?

Fresh Prince · « **Reply #35 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:39:21 AM »

Maybe you should seek advice on that....

Powerslave · « **Reply #36 on:** April 06, 2010, 01:46:16 AM »

he's holding out so we can read and laugh about his awkward moments. Arvie is doing us a favor

EmCeeGrammar · « **Reply #37 on:** April 06, 2010, 02:33:00 AM »

I think arvie just needs to start trying and making mistakes already. You'll never learn otherwise bro!

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #38 on:** April 06, 2010, 02:34:49 AM »

I tried trying once and I shall never try trying again.

EmCeeGrammar · « **Reply #39 on:** April 06, 2010, 02:46:04 AM »

Well I started out like you and as a borderline aspergers dude I got to the point where I was comfortably flirting with girls. You can do it man! Whenever you get into a workplace just take it one day at a time and don't be afraid to make fun of your awkwardness at first
...
but not in a self pity way. Hmm its kinda hard to explain.

Oblivion · « **Reply #40 on:** April 06, 2010, 05:16:03 AM »

Quote from: Father_Mike on April 06, 2010, 12:57:40 AM

So it's not going good then? Marianne was just telling me about this new herbal tea she got in China town. Its suppose to increase you electrolytes or something, anyway she said after just 3 months on it she's never felt better! Maybe you should try some? I'll get the name of it from Marianne the next time we talk.

Quote from: Fresh Prince on April 06, 2010, 01:00:08 AM

Even though you are socially inpet you are good at small talk. BUT it makes sense! Good at small talk = unhappy.

It's like I'm seeing double, here!

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FOUR ARVIES!

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Fresh Prince · « **Reply #41 on:** April 11, 2010, 06:46:33 PM »

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #42 on:** April 11, 2010, 07:16:30 PM »

Basically be Jim from The Office

Rman · « **Reply #43 on:** April 11, 2010, 09:59:28 PM »

So...how's it going, Fresh Prince?

etiolate · « **Reply #44 on:** April 11, 2010, 11:15:10 PM »

Quote from: Fresh Prince on April 05, 2010, 07:39:04 PM

Facts: http://blogs.wsj.com/juggle/2010/03/24/small-talk-big-hindrance-to-happiness/

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Then Dr. Mehl compared those results against the study subjects’ happiness, based on self-assessments and the opinions of people who knew them.

unfortunately, self-assessments are unreliable

people will self-assess what they think will be more accepted/look best

As I have experienced, substantive discussions and conversation are the most rewarding, but finding these discussions is exceedingly rare. So the pursuit of happiness through conversation only leads to the disappointment of not finding a good satisfying conversational partner. Everyone is talking about the weather, and trying to push them outside that comfort zone leads more often to hostility than to creating a good talk.

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Author Topic: Small Talk (Read 2003 times)