Author Topic: Random talk thread: It just keeps happening (Read 4258075 times)

Kara · « **Reply #24360 on:** July 23, 2014, 02:42:52 AM »

Found a place that's a pretty good deal and I could probably swing now.

It's just kind of in the 'hood*, a drive from my clients, and the landlord is advertising as month to month.

That last bit is farshtunken, I know, but I'm confident I can talk to them--businessperson to businessperson--and get something a little more substantive in writing. When you have 3 credit scores over [redacted], it opens some doors.

*By Orange County standards.

Cerveza mas fina · « **Reply #24361 on:** July 23, 2014, 03:39:56 AM »

yesterday it said thunder

chronovore · « **Reply #24362 on:** July 23, 2014, 06:25:01 AM »

Quote from: Premium Lager on July 23, 2014, 03:39:56 AM

yesterday it said thunder

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Dude. I felt like an idiot two weeks ago when the typhoon was WRECKING Okinawa, and I bailed on a new biz meeting because I was afraid of being thrown from the planet. The typhoon didn't even end up hitting Osaka, and barely even rained. Yesterday's meeting was the make-up for it, and I apologized 4 or 5 times. $:-\$

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Quote from: chronovore on July 22, 2014, 11:07:57 AM
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Don't give it back; they're doing what they can to make peace. Giving it back is not accepting their attempt at peace.
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Thanks, I'm not.

As for making peace, it's hard to see it that way if it is. It feels too much like the well worn roads of the past where money was used in lieu of introspection and change. (OH BOO HOO, I know.)

I don't know what kind of crap you're going through. You're clearly very smart and a praise junkie of some kind, which I think means rejection issues. At least that's what it means for me. so I can understand the need to distance from your parents to avoid letting them hurt you.

It's been a while since I trotted out Frankl here, but sometimes the only choice we have in a situation is our reaction to the situation. Your parents don't control you. You're independent of them -- or as independent of them as you choose to be.

Whether or not your parents are changing doesn't matter. They may have made a genuine effort, or it may have been a throwaway gesture, but in the end what matters for you is how you react to it. You're the only person who can break the patterns within yourself.

Now if I could only follow this advice for myself more often, I'd be king of the world!

(working on this)

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #24363 on:** July 23, 2014, 09:38:05 AM »

Ugh my knee :'( sharp pain when bending, stairs near impossible today. Work manual labor, brehs

Squiddy · « **Reply #24364 on:** July 23, 2014, 10:59:25 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on July 22, 2014, 09:20:17 PM

Grats breh.

having more than 12k daps

on half as many posts

not gonna snitch on myself tho
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I know who you are on thecoli

But I'm a true bro so don't worry about me snitching on you *dap*

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24365 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:28:07 AM »

I'd bet dick pics that you don't know

And who is the girl in your avatar

Squiddy · « **Reply #24366 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:50:35 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on July 23, 2014, 11:28:07 AM

I'd bet dick pics that you don't know

And who is the girl in your avatar

Her name was posted on GAF at some point, but I've kinda forgotten.

Squiddy · « **Reply #24367 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:54:12 AM »

But just for you, I did some e-detectiving:

Google image search "樊玲"

nudemacusers · « **Reply #24368 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:56:28 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on July 23, 2014, 11:28:07 AM

I'd bet dick pics that you don't know

And who is the girl in your avatar

you sound happy to lose this bet

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24369 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:58:37 AM »

Quote from: Esch on July 23, 2014, 11:34:55 AM

So eager to show his penis to other dudes

I don't talk to Squiddy, I talk to his avatar. Cuts out the middle man.

nudemacusers · « **Reply #24370 on:** July 23, 2014, 12:04:44 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on July 23, 2014, 11:58:37 AM

Quote from: Esch on July 23, 2014, 11:34:55 AM
So eager to show his penis to other dudes
I don't talk to Squiddy, I talk to his avatar. Cuts out the middle man.

is this how gay cuckholding works?

huckleberry · « **Reply #24371 on:** July 23, 2014, 01:50:54 PM »

About 8:30 this morning all hell broke loose outside of my house. Sirens and SWAT everywhere. Turns out some shitheads planted 3 explosive devices by the back door of my sons high school, which just happens to be about 150 yards from my front door. They are saying that the devices were bottle bombs (don't know what that is) but the girls softball team was getting ready to start practice with the football teams, track runners, and band practice scheduled for later in the day. Nobody was injured even though one of the bombs did detonate. Fucking hooligans probably used the shortcut into the neighborhood which run through my property to get away.

Great way to start the day.

Squiddy · « **Reply #24372 on:** July 23, 2014, 02:19:05 PM »

New Hunter x Hunter is legit.
Kinda deserves a cross-post with the polithread.

Bebpo · « **Reply #24373 on:** July 23, 2014, 06:03:04 PM »

My fiance was finally starting to do better, as her 4 month clinical depression ended and she was coping psychological and physical with her chronic neck/back pain from her car accident last year much better and was getting ready to try physical therapy again and take good care of her self and we were gonna go on a vacation to SC and relax a little.

and then she got rear-ended again yesterday afternoon while stopped at a red light by someone not paying attention again in a big strong car :/

Impact was only 10-20mph, but since she has existing major injuries...who knows how this will affect them. Especially if she might have fibromyalgia. Last night she was really sore, and same this morning. We'll just have to see if it goes back to normal pain levels after a week. I'm working from home today, helping her out with stuff sp she can take it easy. Fingers crossed this doesn't make things worse.

Bebpo · « **Reply #24374 on:** July 23, 2014, 06:35:07 PM »

Also, she told me that last weekend when she was visiting her parents in slightly ghetto Asian gang area, she went to get yogurt at night for her family and as she left some guy was following her to her car, but it was public and there were other people around so she just walked fast and got in her car. When she opened the door and was about to sit down the guy grabbed her ass and she on instinct slapped the guy, who was a 6'1" older Asian guy who then laughed and did the Russian throat slit sign across his neck to her and she got in her car and quickly drove off.

:/

Her cop friend told her she should take self-defense classes but I'm not sure how that would've helped there, though I understand it would have helped if the guy tried to grab her or something.

StealthFan · « **Reply #24375 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:12:14 PM »

Cop friend?

Bebpo · « **Reply #24376 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:21:19 PM »

She's doing criminal justice as part of her double major and wants to work for or with the police force. One of her professors is a cop and she's friends with all her professors. She asked her cop professor if slapping the guy was illegal/the right thing to do in that situation and he told her next time that happens to give the phone to the assailant and dial the cop professor's number and he'll tell them he's sending someone over and to hold onto their butts. While that sounds "cool", I don't think street-smart-wise it'd be such a good idea to hand your phone over to a creepy person who is stalking you and/or groped you and/or is possibly a gang member.

Barry Egan · « **Reply #24377 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:26:22 PM »

I speak with absolutely no authority on the subject but that advice sounds really useless and dumb?

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24378 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:41:32 PM »

Is this a Calitivity or a cactivity?

Broseidon · « **Reply #24379 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:44:45 PM »

russian throat slit sign

chronovore · « **Reply #24380 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:53:37 PM »

Quote from: Broseidon on July 23, 2014, 07:44:45 PM

russian throat slit sign

Broseidon · « **Reply #24381 on:** July 23, 2014, 07:56:23 PM »

StealthFan · « **Reply #24382 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:01:39 PM »

Quote from: Bebpo on July 23, 2014, 07:21:19 PM

she's friends with all her professors.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24383 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:03:02 PM »

Your Stalker · « **Reply #24384 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:06:19 PM »

sharing is caring

Kara · « **Reply #24385 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:14:13 PM »

Your fiancée really has had a rum run, Beb. Hopefully one day you'll both be able to look back on this and admire getting through it.

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Pro: Apparently I have a tax practice of my own waiting for me when I get my EA. Being born on the finish line brehs, I finally made it to the pinnacle of white privilege.

Con: It's going to consist of the clients a CPA I work with and their CPA friends would want to sell to me. (i.e. I imagine not their most lucrative but certainly their most annoying ones.)

#KarakandProblems

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Petit bourgeoisie here I come.

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Anecdote: When the CPA explained to me how I would be remunerating them for this largesse I responded with, "Oh, so it'll work like kickbacks do," and they got mighty flustered at my comparison of criminality and commerciality. Maybe I don't listen to Brecht for the music after all.

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Bebpo · « **Reply #24386 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:47:05 PM »

Quote from: They Called Me Stealthfan on July 23, 2014, 08:01:39 PM

Quote from: Bebpo on July 23, 2014, 07:21:19 PM
she's friends with all her professors.

I know, I know. It's not ideal, but she's like the person who sits in front and asks a million questions and then goes and sees the professor after class and asks a bunch more because she's really enthusiastic about the subjects and education is her passion. She was homeschooled so college is her first experience with real school and it's a bigger deal to her than it was for me or most people I'd wager.

Otoh, this has resulted in the occasional male professor trying to hit on her and her having to drop the class and take it the next semester with a different professor instead. But for the professors that aren't creeps, it's helped her in classes and they've all been really good and friendly about special arrangements because of her injuries (letting her sit in the back and get up and take breaks; one professor let her not show up to class after halfway because her grades were the top of the class and just e-mailed her the slides and let her take the final from home).

chronovore · « **Reply #24387 on:** July 23, 2014, 08:57:06 PM »

Bebs, has your fiancée tried any eastern treatments, such as acupuncture?

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #24388 on:** July 23, 2014, 09:14:08 PM »

Has she also tried chain facebook prayers?

StealthFan · « **Reply #24389 on:** July 23, 2014, 09:35:44 PM »

Quote from: Bebpo on July 23, 2014, 08:47:05 PM

Quote from: They Called Me Stealthfan on July 23, 2014, 08:01:39 PM
Quote from: Bebpo on July 23, 2014, 07:21:19 PM
she's friends with all her professors.

She was homeschooled so college is her first experience with real school

Shadow Mod · « **Reply #24390 on:** July 23, 2014, 10:01:15 PM »

That feel when a kid doesn't want to participate, looks absolutely sad, but insists we don't send him home.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24391 on:** July 23, 2014, 10:46:10 PM »

When your criminology teacher wants you
and your lawyer can't do nothing for you
these sophomore girls ain't loyal

lennedsay · « **Reply #24392 on:** July 23, 2014, 11:47:33 PM »

Quote from: Needs More Cowbell on July 23, 2014, 10:01:15 PM

That feel when a kid doesn't want to participate, looks absolutely sad, but insists we don't send him home.

Himu · « **Reply #24393 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:29:19 AM »

Quote from: Needs More Cowbell on July 23, 2014, 10:01:15 PM

That feel when a kid doesn't want to participate, looks absolutely sad, but insists we don't send him home.

Shadow Mod · « **Reply #24394 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:30:09 AM »

Forgot the part about him telling us he didn't eat today too.

(Thank god we serve lunch and snacks so some other staff made sure he ate.)

Himu · « **Reply #24395 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:32:07 AM »

Quote from: Needs More Cowbell on July 24, 2014, 12:30:09 AM

Forgot the part about him telling us he didn't eat today too.

(Thank god we serve lunch and snacks so some other staff made sure he ate.)

Oh my god. Did anyone walk him home or anything?

Shadow Mod · « **Reply #24396 on:** July 24, 2014, 12:39:24 AM »

Quote from: Queen of Ice on July 24, 2014, 12:32:07 AM

Quote from: Needs More Cowbell on July 24, 2014, 12:30:09 AM
Forgot the part about him telling us he didn't eat today too.

(Thank god we serve lunch and snacks so some other staff made sure he ate.)

Oh my god. Did anyone walk him home or anything?

Well the place I'm in they get dropped off typically. If I see him like this again I'm definitely mentioning something to my boss.

Kara · « **Reply #24397 on:** July 24, 2014, 01:17:26 AM »

Awful.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #24398 on:** July 24, 2014, 01:20:57 AM »

what do you do?

Shadow Mod · « **Reply #24399 on:** July 24, 2014, 01:32:03 AM »

Work with kids.

I'm not getting more specific.

toku · « **Reply #24400 on:** July 24, 2014, 03:50:30 AM »

Kids can be cruel.

ferrarimanf355 · « **Reply #24401 on:** July 24, 2014, 11:33:58 AM »

I start a new, full-time job on Monday doing clerical work. I'm so happy now, not having to deal with customers that are mean, stupid, or god help me, both.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #24402 on:** July 24, 2014, 03:24:10 PM »

Quick question, how do you ignore people? I don't see anything on individual posts or profiles.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24403 on:** July 24, 2014, 03:49:16 PM »

Quote from: Esch on July 24, 2014, 03:28:21 PM

Quote from: seagrams hotsauce on July 24, 2014, 03:24:10 PM
Quick question, how do you ignore people? I don't see anything on individual posts or profiles.

profile-> forum profile -> ignore, add the person you want to ignore.

commit involuntary digital manslaughter brehs

Squiddy · « **Reply #24404 on:** July 24, 2014, 03:53:20 PM »

Does anyone not hate mosquitos?

drew · « **Reply #24405 on:** July 24, 2014, 04:26:50 PM »

where has this band/album been all my life?!

Broseidon · « **Reply #24406 on:** July 24, 2014, 04:34:42 PM »

None of these painkillers are stopping the pain in my arm

Might have to go to the doctors for the first time in like 7 years

drew · « **Reply #24407 on:** July 24, 2014, 04:37:31 PM »

wut chu takin? I'm on trammers right now for my hand and its working fine.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #24408 on:** July 24, 2014, 05:07:33 PM »

Quote from: Esch on July 24, 2014, 03:53:56 PM

What if he's ignoring me? I could be commiting digital suicide

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You're safe. I've just reached my limit of tolerance for distinguished mentally-challenged squiddy posts.

Kara · « **Reply #24409 on:** July 24, 2014, 05:10:52 PM »

Sadly I think The The is an "ex band."

Ditto for Love and some other good'uns.

benjipwns · « **Reply #24410 on:** July 24, 2014, 05:22:13 PM »

Quote from: Needs More Cowbell on July 24, 2014, 01:32:03 AM

Work with kids.

I'm not getting more specific.

That's what John Wayne Gacy said.

StealthFan · « **Reply #24411 on:** July 25, 2014, 01:27:56 AM »

Starting pissing in bottles again

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24412 on:** July 25, 2014, 01:57:25 AM »

Kara · « **Reply #24413 on:** July 25, 2014, 02:03:00 AM »

Quote from: They Called Me Stealthfan on July 25, 2014, 01:27:56 AM

Starting pissing in bottles again (Image removed from quote.)

We already lost mai husbando TVC, not you too breh.

Your Stalker · « **Reply #24414 on:** July 25, 2014, 03:12:27 AM »

Quote from: They Called Me Stealthfan on July 25, 2014, 01:27:56 AM

Starting pissing in bottles again (Image removed from quote.)

At least you haven't resorted to pooping in socks...yet.

chronovore · « **Reply #24415 on:** July 25, 2014, 04:09:59 AM »

Quote from: drew on July 24, 2014, 04:26:50 PM

where has this band/album been all my life?!

Great band.

T234 · « **Reply #24416 on:** July 25, 2014, 04:01:10 PM »

As a man who very recently had a how-the-fuck-are-you-still-alive security issue, alls I can tell you is this shit can go from Fine to Extremely Not Fine in less than an instant. Calling somebody in the middle of an incident that someone elevated to Ultraviolence Status is for statistics.

Bebpo, get your woman a firearm. Don't hafta be no Dirty Harry Dick Waver Model, a Walther PPK will stop anyone who isn't under the influence of Phencyclidine (PCP).

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #24417 on:** July 25, 2014, 06:56:32 PM »

Thor you just recommended for a historically suicidal girl with mental issues and chronic pain to buy a gun

Squiddy · « **Reply #24418 on:** July 25, 2014, 07:10:42 PM »

Quote from: They Called Me Stealthfan on July 25, 2014, 01:27:56 AM

Starting pissing in bottles again (Image removed from quote.)

That's pretty sad.

T234 · « **Reply #24419 on:** July 25, 2014, 08:02:49 PM »

Quote from: Spencer on July 25, 2014, 06:56:32 PM

Thor you just recommended for a historically suicidal girl with mental issues and chronic pain to buy a gun

I missed that part. All I saw was the russian throat slit post.

Get her some quality ganja and a tazer gun.

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