lennedsay with the real talk
I'm a "nice guy" but I certainly don't bend over backwards for chicks, or guilt them into dating me. I used to agree completely with the GAF mindset, and yes I still shake my head when I see a chick chasing after a complete asshole, but I no longer care enough to a) put them on a pedestal or b) provide cheap "you deserve better blah blah blah" e-advice.
I just do my own thing. If a chick is interested, cool. But the days of me chasing after them is long gone.