People predicting the demise of baseball seem to forget that there will always be new old people.
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http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=661069gonna be a fun thread.
Or it could be any number of reasons that have nothing to do with being an anti-social person? Calling someone a loser when you don't know their circumstances isn't really a good argument (and it's just plain mean).
So what you are saying is that every person that has depression or social anxiety are all losers and its their fault they have serotonin deficiency or the misfortune of having an overactive amygdala? I wonder if you spout your "tough love" shit to people that are physical sick or if you only do it to the mentaly sick? You dont have a clue what you are talking about and your tough love speech is stupid at best and damaging at worst.
Pointing out that people need to put in effort to get things done is a truism of use to fucking no one. He made his post in defense of the earlier one wherein he classified every over 21 virgin on planet as "losers". You expect anybody to believe he was trying to be helpful? He was drawing a line in the sand to act as a guide to when you're allowed to start mocking people for having failed to get their dick wet.
Judgemental shit like this is what keeps people like me hidden away after work. The media and society at large drums this into everyone at every opportunity - you fear peoples' judgement (and the possible rejections that come from it) more as every year goes by and you're still a virgin. Again:
PhoenixPause and friends are all registered Republicans, right? It's the only explanation I can think of for all this bootstraps-type language. Clearly the most effective way of helping people improve their situation is telling them they're shit and elaborating on how much better their lives would be if they suddenly decided to be perfect.
At least you have come to that realization and are fine with it, not wriging your hands online.
Nerds need to dismantle their egos and either fuck unattractive girls or shell out money for hookers.
Quote from: Commander Cosby Cock on August 25, 2013, 02:52:54 PMNerds need to dismantle their egos and either fuck unattractive girls or shell out money for hookers.They're special snowflakes and therefore can't fuck uggos. Better just to wait for hot babes to start finding broke, unhygenic, grossly obese nerds hot.
Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 25, 2013, 01:07:52 AMAt least you have come to that realization and are fine with it, not wriging your hands online. I think you have that part wrong. I'm most definitely not OK with it. But the lack of motivation kills any attempts at things changing. The only time I end up doing anything is when I absolutely have to. It took me over a month to build enough motivation to go get my hair cut. That's how things generally are. If I don't have to, I don't. The only reason I'm driving now is because my job function changed and required more flexibility. If that had not happened I would still be riding the bus. And that is the problem with dating and all that is involved with it. It's not something I have to do. Therefore I don't. I hate that I'm like this but I wouldn't even know the first thing to do to change it.
Virgins on GAF are so insistent that fucking even once won't do shit for them. Kinda reminds me of how Gaming is so insistent on the success/failure of next-gen consoles they've never actually seen or touched.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=78262945&postcount=708\jesus fucking christ
Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 25, 2013, 04:55:25 PMhttp://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=78262945&postcount=708\jesus fucking christI also like "well women can approach men too."At your computer? In your house? Sure.
Weirdly I've actually been approached by a female in the past. Pretty sure I mentioned it here. Was at the bus stop while I was reading Cloud Atlas. Chatted for a few minutes but I didn't really find anything about her attractive. Physically or personality wise.
dude is literally a 40 year old virgin. I don't even know what you say at that point to someone who wants sex but hasn't had it at age forty.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?p=78121161#post78121161QuoteIMO NeoGAF is a well-moderated community with a a healthy amount of female members.
IMO NeoGAF is a well-moderated community with a a healthy amount of female members.
Is TDM a virgin? I just assumed because he was a mod...
The sad thing about those gaf virgins is once they get a girlfriend, have sex and enter into a long term relationship it will probably be a largely sexless one. Its not like you start banging and never stop. Sex in relationships takes as work just like it does out of relationships. If they can't be proactive when single they'll never do it when attached
Hate to be the contrarian here ... But if some of these people do have sex, then what? It's not like a vagina is the great panacea to cure all that ails you. You still will have that skin condition, premature baldness, lack of hygiene, or utter lack of self confidence that made ou what you are today. That doesn't go away once a woman decides to throw a pit fuck our way.
Quote from: am nintenho on August 25, 2013, 06:02:18 PMIs TDM a virgin? I just assumed because he was a mod...Yes.He also made some hilariously awkward post awhile back that his 'life plan' included being foreveralone, until he 'tasted' intimacy or some shit. If someone could find that post....it was glorious.Edit: Nvmhttp://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=66544156&postcount=27
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=78269101&postcount=765Not wallowing around in your self pity is now "bootstraps". Think I'm done with gaf for the day.
I still believe that it was an odd move, considering that there will be an inevitable shift to the 3DS once Smash comes out. Not the entire FGC, but a respectable chunk.
Quote from: Sausage on August 25, 2013, 06:15:14 PMhttp://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=78269101&postcount=765Not wallowing around in your self pity is now "bootstraps". Think I'm done with gaf for the day.It tends to actually get me a bit pissy because they act like anyone telling people to go out and socialize is some social butterfly whom it comes natural and has never dealt with social isolation. Some of the girls on GAF, if they were tomboys, dealt with plenty of social isolation from their peers. So they remained shy and possibly didn't talk much about their interests. Found solace in some places like the internet. Possibly made more friends in HS and beyond, learned to socialize, forced themselves to. A couple of them have told be as much. The whole "you just don't get it." No I really do. I still have problems talking to other women because of that shitty outcasting early in life.
I had a tomboy friend as a kid. Her mom told me girls refused to play with her so she played with boys instead. She was cool and played on the baseball team.
QuoteI still believe that it was an odd move, considering that there will be an inevitable shift to the 3DS once Smash comes out. Not the entire FGC, but a respectable chunk.
my social life revolves around not murdering childrenit's harder than you'd think
That whole thread is hilarious and pointing out that no, what they say isn't true gets you ire.I've been a part of that "scene" since they were nothing but sperm in their daddy's balls and even I admit that the community (just like other nerd cultures) is sexist and homophobic.
Quote from: Michael Moaner on August 25, 2013, 06:04:13 PMQuote from: am nintenho on August 25, 2013, 06:02:18 PMIs TDM a virgin? I just assumed because he was a mod...Yes.He also made some hilariously awkward post awhile back that his 'life plan' included being foreveralone, until he 'tasted' intimacy or some shit. If someone could find that post....it was glorious.Edit: Nvmhttp://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=66544156&postcount=27http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=78241517&postcount=651Bonus round: http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=51991788&postcount=38
Quote from: thisismyusername on August 25, 2013, 05:56:13 PMThat whole thread is hilarious and pointing out that no, what they say isn't true gets you ire.I've been a part of that "scene" since they were nothing but sperm in their daddy's balls and even I admit that the community (just like other nerd cultures) is sexist and homophobic.It gets to be a bit silly when everyone and their mother has a weekly "talk-show" stream where they yammer on and on about growing the scene while at the same time being proud of how unwelcoming they are and circling the wagons every time someone says something negative. I was watching NLBC this week and the one dude they had on commentary was trying his hardest to be as crass as possible talking about the few women who were at the arcade. And then there was Rico Suave talking about how he wished more people came to the weeklies followed up with talking about how people who did come to the arcade had to prove themselves and that they could expect certain amounts of shit before people accepted them, etc. It's hella lolz, but in a sad way.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=660817
I just assumed because he was a mod...
Quote from: Michael Moaner on August 25, 2013, 06:04:13 PMQuote from: am nintenho on August 25, 2013, 06:02:18 PMIs TDM a virgin? I just assumed because he was a mod...Yes.He also made some hilariously awkward post awhile back that his 'life plan' included being foreveralone, until he 'tasted' intimacy or some shit. If someone could find that post....it was glorious.Edit: Nvmhttp://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=66544156&postcount=27 Man, I must've really cut deep with that "screaming internally" pic. Sorry about that, Mutes. I didn't know.
