Mumei's problem was that he'd patiently hold peoples' hands and explain to them why they were
instead of just taking them out like
.
Mumei's and the problematic patrol's problem is that they feel that they're so enlightened and they can just educate everyone into being as enlightened as they are. But the thing is, if you're not attracted to a trans person then you're not a bigot you're just not attracted to them, and no list of 22 intellectually masturbatory books is going to change that.
Reminds me of the "you are a homophobe if you wouldn't date a gay person." gem.
I'm not attracted to A, B, or C. I don't pursue relationships with A, B, or C. (OK)
Is a bit different than:
I'm not attracted to A, B, or C and I make sure everyone has to know that I'm not attracted to A, B, or C. (

)