Author Topic: how do you feel about hugs (Read 4552 times)

Eschaton · « **on:** December 04, 2014, 05:33:21 PM »

I was on facebook today and drunky cow shared a femsperg masterpiece on how intimidated by hugs some people are. Is this a thing?

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/09/30/don_t_hug_it_out_hugs_are_awkward_falsely_intimate_power_plays_that_must.html

as a lover of hugs, I can't help but feel like I've crossed the boundaries once or twice.

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #1 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:36:47 PM »

Hugs amongst family and really close friends are great – it's a lovely, warm feeling.

If you're hugging or are getting hugged with/by new acquaintances or possible romantic endeavors, its a little odd/uncomfortable.

Rufus · « **Reply #2 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:40:02 PM »

I don't like them as greetings, but hugging is A-OK otherwise.

Himu · « **Reply #3 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:48:04 PM »

I love hugs! Especially kissy hugs!

StealthFan · « **Reply #4 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:52:08 PM »

picked sedative because i am on a sedative

Steve Contra · « **Reply #5 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:52:28 PM »

I need a hug right now.

Himu · « **Reply #6 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:52:37 PM »

I never hug someone I don't know unless they're someone special to someone I care about. Those people get instant hug!

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #7 on:** December 04, 2014, 05:58:41 PM »

Is this a stealth Prole diss thread?

TVC15 · « **Reply #8 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:00:59 PM »

Would anyone hug me?

Himu · « **Reply #9 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:05:39 PM »

Quote from: Esch on December 04, 2014, 05:57:21 PM

You don't hug on the first internet date? Do you just PhoenixDark it and handshake?

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What?

Himu · « **Reply #10 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:11:29 PM »

I'd hug them, of course!

nudemacusers · « **Reply #11 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:12:03 PM »

i'm all about the embrace brahs

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #12 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:13:08 PM »

Pro hugs

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #13 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:14:45 PM »

human contact, gross

only 2D hug pillows, pls

jakefromstatefarm · « **Reply #14 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:15:13 PM »

I playfully sneak up behind my kittens and hug them. Just every once in a while to freak them out.

TVC15 · « **Reply #15 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:18:12 PM »

One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?

Your Stalker · « **Reply #16 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:19:20 PM »

Himu · « **Reply #17 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:20:29 PM »

Hugs after the person washed their hair or showered are the best.

Quote from: TVC 15 on December 04, 2014, 06:00:59 PM

Would anyone hug me?

I'd hug you.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #18 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:21:05 PM »

Quote from: TVC 15 on December 04, 2014, 06:18:12 PM

One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?

Sorry bro, I'd be concerned about squeezing vomit out of ya

toku · « **Reply #19 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:23:52 PM »

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #20 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:25:34 PM »

Quote from: TVC 15 on December 04, 2014, 06:18:12 PM

One fucking person here would hug me? That's what I've earned in my years of service?

Familiarity breeds contempt.

Mupepe · « **Reply #21 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:26:18 PM »

There's a guy at work who signs his emails with "big hugs" instead of sincerely or whatever else. Its hilarious

jakefromstatefarm · « **Reply #22 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:26:26 PM »

Adam's package leaves much to be desired

Yulwei · « **Reply #23 on:** December 04, 2014, 06:32:17 PM »

I only hug gfs, parents and friends/family i haven't seen in a long time. Just never been a thing I or any of my friends would do on the regular.

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #24 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:14:09 PM »

I'm a hugger if I'm in the mood. I do get weirded out by people I just met wanting to hug me, other than on dates or whatever.

Your Stalker · « **Reply #25 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:16:12 PM »

There should be a Christian side hug option.

Brehvolution · « **Reply #26 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:21:10 PM »

Chest against chest

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #27 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:21:53 PM »

dick against dick

Brehvolution · « **Reply #28 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:23:53 PM »

That clanging sound when the swords cross.

Cheddahz · « **Reply #29 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:25:50 PM »

I feel like a fuckboi when someone hugs me

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #30 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:51:51 PM »

Handshake>hug. Less awkward, isn't forced, and is memorable. I think most people are fine with the idea of a handshake to begin a date/meet, however the handshake at the end of a date/meet is more controversial. It catches women off guard and is memorable. It gets her talking with her girlfriends ("guess what? instead of trying to hug me...he shook me hand. guuurl.").

nudemacusers · « **Reply #31 on:** December 04, 2014, 07:55:03 PM »

if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five

Beezy · « **Reply #32 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:01:23 PM »

Forced? Who the fuck forces a hug?

@ shaking a woman's hand after the first time you meet them.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #33 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:10:43 PM »

So the other day I was buying a burger and the hot black teller chick accidentally touched my hand while handing me an (empty) cup, you know like a gentile brush of finger against finger, I dropped it because of the unexpected physical contact with another human.

Voted the seriously don't touch me and autistic option.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #34 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:11:36 PM »

Quote from: nudemacusers on December 04, 2014, 07:55:03 PM

if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five

i mean, it worked for me the first time.

Mr. Nobody · « **Reply #35 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:11:41 PM »

Quote from: Your Stalker on December 04, 2014, 06:19:20 PM

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Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #36 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:13:45 PM »

special fellow option all the way

filthy human contact

TVC15 · « **Reply #37 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:14:31 PM »

I'm going to hug you the next time I see you.

nudemacusers · « **Reply #38 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:14:33 PM »

Quote from: fistfulofmetal on December 04, 2014, 08:11:36 PM

Quote from: nudemacusers on December 04, 2014, 07:55:03 PM
if you're shaking a girl's hand pre or post date you might as well give her a high five

i mean, it worked for me the first time.

you overcame a handshake.

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #39 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:14:35 PM »

PD, I'm kinda shocked you never figured out you could stealth touch their hair if it's long if you go in for the hug

Barry Egan · « **Reply #40 on:** December 04, 2014, 08:31:31 PM »

I will cut you.

Himu · « **Reply #41 on:** December 04, 2014, 09:02:58 PM »

handshake = not getting laid

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #42 on:** December 04, 2014, 09:55:19 PM »

I feel hugs are a 7/10

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #43 on:** December 04, 2014, 10:06:45 PM »

Hugs are great. Sometimes girls hug you in a manner that constitutes a one pump dry hump, which can be comforting, arousing, intimidating, or nauseating, and sometimes all of these things at once.

Murs documented this on record fifteen years ago

Pussy Hug means when a girl leans in
Arches her Back and her Pussy is the first thing to make contact
Then she slowly presses her tits against your chest
Then she finally wraps her arm around your neck

Rufus · « **Reply #44 on:** December 05, 2014, 12:11:48 AM »

Back hug best hug.

El Babua · « **Reply #45 on:** December 05, 2014, 12:18:26 AM »

Chose the first and special fellow options.

PlayDat · « **Reply #46 on:** December 05, 2014, 01:26:00 AM »

Real talk, this is something I've spent more time thinking about than most. I like getting hugs from people, but I rarely ever initiate them and I'm worried that people see me as distant or cold because of it. I've gotten better at it, but I don't really put my hands on people much in general when I'm socializing. I read all the studies about the positive effects of physical contact, but when I try to make the conscious effort to do so I come across articles like the one in the OP.

The only time I've ever had someone refuse a hug though was when they were upset at me. It's also a little annoying to watch people who've known you as a life-time non-hugger react to your hugs. For a couple of friends I've made more recently I can say hugging a lot definitely brought me closer (I mean that figuratively. We got physically closer too, duh.) to some of them.

Rufus · « **Reply #47 on:** December 05, 2014, 01:40:03 AM »

Quote from: PlayDat on December 05, 2014, 01:26:00 AM

I like getting hugs from people, but I rarely ever initiate them and I'm worried that people see me as distant or cold because of it.

They do. Especially when you don't register that they're initiating and see them give up on you and all you do is smile like an idiot because you're made of wood.

Reb · « **Reply #48 on:** December 05, 2014, 03:26:45 AM »

Did we ever find out what rhymes with hug me?

toku · « **Reply #49 on:** December 05, 2014, 04:40:22 AM »

off key

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #50 on:** December 05, 2014, 08:00:16 AM »

I

hugs!

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #51 on:** December 05, 2014, 08:00:54 AM »

Quote from: Rufus on December 05, 2014, 12:11:48 AM

Back hug best hug.

My wife does that to me all the time. I freaking love those.

pollo · « **Reply #52 on:** December 05, 2014, 08:24:30 AM »

yIm filipino so we do the kiss on the cheek thing in addition to the hug, I sometimes forget to turn it off for other races so that shit getsts awkward

So whe I get introduced to other pinay chicks it gets weird having to initiate contact. Its awkward

I hate it. Lets shake hands instead

ToxicAdam · « **Reply #53 on:** December 05, 2014, 08:33:54 AM »

I'm a big fan of the back hug, that way you don't breath into my face.

People get very confused when they approach to hug me and I turn my ass to them and start backing into them.

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #54 on:** December 05, 2014, 08:46:11 AM »

Quote from: ToxicAdam on December 05, 2014, 08:33:54 AM

I'm a big fan of the back hug, that way you don't breath into my face.

People get very confused when they approach to hug me and I turn my ass to them and start backing into them.

#shortpeoplesproblems

demi · « **Reply #55 on:** December 05, 2014, 09:19:04 AM »

http://getfuzzy.wikia.com/wiki/Chubby_Huggs

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #56 on:** December 05, 2014, 09:29:24 AM »

Get Fuzzy

Tasty · « **Reply #57 on:** December 05, 2014, 10:26:45 AM »

All Friends = Hug
Female Acquaintances = Hug
Male Acquaintances = Handshake

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #58 on:** December 05, 2014, 10:38:55 AM »

Wife: Big hugs, from behind hugs, etc
Kids: Big hugs (sons) pick up from behind hugs and big hugs (daughter)
Close male friends: Bro double backpat
Close female friends: Hug with hands on middle back
Family: Regular hugs
Males who I know and respect; Handshake or dap
Females who I know and respect: Side hug
Anybody else: Meh

edit:
Mama: Pick up hugs and kisses while she bitches for me to put her down

We really need to coach on this?

demi · « **Reply #59 on:** December 05, 2014, 10:48:03 AM »

bros: mutual masturbation
workmates: air wank
kids: middle finger
wife: all fingers
strangers: ass slap
prole: side hug
joe: face down ass up
anybody else: oops just got a phone call excuse me

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Poll

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Author Topic: how do you feel about hugs (Read 4552 times)

Eschaton