Author Topic: Vampire Girl: Friend Zone Only For PD? (Read 4481 times)

Cheebs · « **on:** January 21, 2007, 01:25:38 PM »

WHICH IS IT BORIANS?

Yeti · « **Reply #1 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:28:55 PM »

yeah, it seems like you are in the friend zone PD, but having a new friend isn't a bad thing, right?

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #2 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:40:04 PM »

Dont listen to them Phoenix, Friendzone doesnt exist the way they want you to think it is. Just be yourself and dont do anything that would feel awkward. And in no time you'll be making little Phoenixdarks.

Cheebs · « **Reply #3 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:46:58 PM »

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 01:40:04 PM

Friendzone doesnt exist the way they want you to think it is.

Yes, yes it does. If you do not "put the moves" on a girl very early on she will see you as a friend only and nothing more.

There is exceptions to this rule but this in nearly all cases is what happens.

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #4 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:48:08 PM »

Friend Zone totally fuckin exists lol.

Cheebs · « **Reply #5 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:58:36 PM »

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 01:48:08 PM

Friend Zone totally fuckin exists lol.

FOC is saying it doesn't because he likes that one girl who he is friendly with and doesn't want to admit he is stuck in friends zone.

Here is a tip to EB. You don't get to know a girl and hang out with her THEN ask her out.

You ask her out THEN get to know her and hang out with her.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #6 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:59:00 PM »

I say it exsists but i dont think its that simple.

Cheebs · « **Reply #7 on:** January 21, 2007, 01:59:31 PM »

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 01:59:00 PM

I say it exsists but i dont think its that simple.

It is that simple. It is extremely easy and it takes almost no time to get stuck in friends zone. You are interested in a girl? ASK HER OUT. You don't wait and act wishy-washy.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #8 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:00:51 PM »

Does a friend make multiple Facebook meesages that say "You're hot," remind you that she is single and then sleep in your bed even though you offer to sleep on the couch?

Ill be honest and say its an understatment when I say that I know nothing about relationships, but what the fuck should I assume after all that.

Well, I did ask this girl out last semester and it was after that, that she said she wanted to be friends. Then I just stoped talking to her.

Cheebs · « **Reply #9 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:05:16 PM »

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 02:00:51 PM

Does a friend make multiple Facebook meesages that say "You're hot," remind you that she is single and then sleep in your bed even though you offer to sleep on the couch?

If she has done that and you haven't put any sort of moves on her at all then no it's not friends zone. It means your are an idiot.

But if you did put moves on her and she backed away, it means she just wants you there as a back up, which is useless for you.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #10 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:09:57 PM »

I guess i dhould have put a move on her but I get so nervous.

It probably would have come off as awkward and pathetic if I did.

Which is what I was advising PD for. If you feel that you need to make a move, by all means go for it as long as it feels natural.

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #11 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:14:05 PM »

Well there ARE girls a person CAN just be friends with. I suppose there is a technical rule that in order to exist in the 'friend zone', you have to have 'more than friend' feelings while being a friend. Whether or not you are stuck depends on various factors.

Being PLACED in the friend zone, ie the girl secretely knows you have feelings for her but has decided you will stay her friend, means you are stuck there. It means that somewhere along the way you failed one of the more arbitrary marks. However, you DO serve a utilitarian function, like a can-opener, in that you are a relatively neutral party that will comfort her when times are rough, and aide her while she rallies against failed relationships.

Then there's the mutual friend zone where two parties both, sometimes verbally, agree that staying friends in the best. This is usually the best way because it doesnt = someone manipulating an emo sap that cant let go.

I mean I guess I can agree its complicated, but the ZONE itself is pretty clearly mapped.

Cheebs · « **Reply #12 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:35:35 PM »

Quote from: Spencer on January 21, 2007, 02:34:02 PM

While the friend zone certainly exists, just because you become friends with a girl does not mean that it is impossible to get with her.

PD said he sees her only being a friend to him based on what happened SO TOO LATE or something.

EB needs to pitch in money and buy PD a match.com account I say.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #13 on:** January 21, 2007, 02:37:25 PM »

Its not too late PD.

Mupepe · « **Reply #14 on:** January 21, 2007, 03:50:37 PM »

PD will be permanently friend zoned unless he decides to finally make a move.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #15 on:** January 21, 2007, 03:58:45 PM »

Quote from: Mupepe on January 21, 2007, 03:50:37 PM

PD will be permanently friend zoned unless he decides to finally make a move.

Probably, but do you think its better to make an awkard/unnattural move than to wait?

Yea probably. $:-\$

Cheebs · « **Reply #16 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:03:02 PM »

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 03:58:45 PM

Quote from: Mupepe on January 21, 2007, 03:50:37 PM
PD will be permanently friend zoned unless he decides to finally make a move.

Probably, but do you think its better to make an awkard/unnattural move than to wait?

Yea probably. $:-\$

Both are wrong. He should have at the bank asked her on a DATE and used that word to make his intentions clear rather than being wishy-washy and making things awkward down the road.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #17 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:08:54 PM »

Quote from: Cheebs on January 21, 2007, 04:03:02 PM

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 03:58:45 PM
Quote from: Mupepe on January 21, 2007, 03:50:37 PM
PD will be permanently friend zoned unless he decides to finally make a move.

Probably, but do you think its better to make an awkard/unnattural move than to wait?

Yea probably. $:-\$
Both are wrong. He should have at the bank asked her on a DATE and used that word to make his intentions clear rather than being wishy-washy and making things awkward down the road.

You know what, Thats some of the best advice I have heard in along time.

Mupepe · « **Reply #18 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:10:27 PM »

Quote from: Cheebs on January 21, 2007, 04:03:02 PM

Quote from: FlameOfCallandor on January 21, 2007, 03:58:45 PM
Quote from: Mupepe on January 21, 2007, 03:50:37 PM
PD will be permanently friend zoned unless he decides to finally make a move.

Probably, but do you think its better to make an awkard/unnattural move than to wait?

Yea probably. $:-\$
Both are wrong. He should have at the bank asked her on a DATE and used that word to make his intentions clear rather than being wishy-washy and making things awkward down the road.

Very true

Make your intentions clear. Anyways, there are things you can do so it won't be awkward and you can get a feel of how she perceives the relationship. But this is redundant because...

SHE HELD HIS FUCKING HAND. SORRY. MAKE A MOVE, PD OR I'LL FUCK YOU IN THE ASS! AND THAT WILL BE THE ONLY SEX YOUR TIGHT LITTLE VIRGIN ASS WILL EVER GET! FOR MY SAKE AND YOUR MOTHERS, MAKE A MOVE. JUST HOLD HER HAND. GIVE HER A KISS ON THE CHEEK AT LEAST! DO IT YOU BASTARD!!!!!!!!!! THIS IS YOUR CHANCE!!

I DON'T WANT TO WAIT! FOR OUR LIVES TO BE OVER!
SOMETHING SOMETHING SOMETHING SOMETHING SOMETHING.
I DON'T WANT TO WAIT....

...get my drift, buddy? She's yours.

Mupepe · « **Reply #19 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:11:45 PM »

Also, FoC, didn't I tell you what would happen with that girl?

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #20 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:14:39 PM »

Quote from: Mupepe on January 21, 2007, 04:11:45 PM

Also, FoC, didn't I tell you what would happen with that girl?

I guess, but if she wanted to be friends, why would she not return my calls.

Also, why would I make a move if she previously told me that she wanted to be friends. I dont fucking understand.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #21 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:21:43 PM »

she was feeling needy that evening -- she wanted human (specifically not sexual) comfort -- and now she's embarrassed at having shown that need to someone she wasn't sexually attracted to. Even worse, she knows she's given what could be interpreted as sexual indicators in the process of looking for a little human comfort. You're screwed!

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #22 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:50:17 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on January 21, 2007, 04:21:43 PM

she was feeling needy that evening -- she wanted human (specifically not sexual) comfort -- and now she's embarrassed at having shown that need to someone she wasn't sexually attracted to. Even worse, she knows she's given what could be interpreted as sexual indicators in the process of looking for a little human comfort. You're screwed!

Story of my Life.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #23 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:52:39 PM »

you've gotta learn to read women, and the most common way to do that is to try and fail until you get it right. so hey: progress was made in your education! it won't be so bad the next time around, honest!

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #24 on:** January 21, 2007, 04:59:58 PM »

How long will it take. It seems that something like this happens once a semester, and this is my last semester.

But I do need to be straight forward from now on. In fact the next chance I get im going to ask her what the deal between us is. I'm going to tell her that she's giving off signals that Im reading she's attracted to me. If she says something like "lets just be friends" I'll reply with "Well, I don't usually sleep in the same bed with my friends" And if she still ants to be friends fine, I just won't waste my time calling her anymore. If she calls me and wants to hang out, I might. But I don't have time to worry about weather a girl likes me or not.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #25 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:06:28 PM »

you probably woulda got some play with that approach you suggested. fuck, she'd call you like a beast.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #26 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:16:20 PM »

Women make it clear when they want to be read so if you can't tell then you're a FUCKING IDIOT.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #27 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:24:14 PM »

is that what princess peach tells you?

brawndolicious · « **Reply #28 on:** January 21, 2007, 05:33:30 PM »

Wow you're a crybaby. Ate a bad mushroom?

The Sceneman · « **Reply #29 on:** January 21, 2007, 06:07:06 PM »

Quote from: Yeti on January 21, 2007, 01:28:55 PM

yeah, it seems like you are in the friend zone PD, but having a new friend isn't a bad thing, right?

Having a new friend is terrible if its a girl you want to fuck. There is also no reason to be friends with a girl.

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #30 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:13:10 PM »

You were making sense Scenester, then you sorta veered off a cliff.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #31 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:15:37 PM »

Quote from: Scenester on January 21, 2007, 06:07:06 PM

Quote from: Yeti on January 21, 2007, 01:28:55 PM
yeah, it seems like you are in the friend zone PD, but having a new friend isn't a bad thing, right?

Having a new friend is terrible if its a girl you want to fuck. There is also no reason to be friends with a girl.

Truer words were never spoken.

The Sceneman · « **Reply #32 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:28:54 PM »

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 07:13:10 PM

You were making sense Scenester, then you sorta veered off a cliff.

Im just really, really bitter when it comes to girls and relationships. Being dumped for shitty reasons four times in a row really sucks

Mupepe · « **Reply #33 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:51:31 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on January 21, 2007, 04:21:43 PM

she was feeling needy that evening -- she wanted human (specifically not sexual) comfort -- and now she's embarrassed at having shown that need to someone she wasn't sexually attracted to. Even worse, she knows she's given what could be interpreted as sexual indicators in the process of looking for a little human comfort. You're screwed!

GODDAMMIT I LOVE YOU! WE'RE LIKE ON A MIND LINK! It's like

and bing bang smash!

Cheebs · « **Reply #34 on:** January 21, 2007, 07:53:08 PM »

Quote from: Scenester on January 21, 2007, 07:28:54 PM

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 07:13:10 PM
You were making sense Scenester, then you sorta veered off a cliff.

Im just really, really bitter when it comes to girls and relationships. Being dumped for shitty reasons four times in a row really sucks

Find a meh looking fattie so she will never dump you

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #35 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:47:40 PM »

The older you get the easier it is to be friends with girls, because at some point they become WOMEN which are whole different ball game.

Simply put, the older you get, what matters to you, and what matters for other people, changes quite dramatically.

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #36 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:48:31 PM »

lolz, MAF talking about "friends"

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #37 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:51:09 PM »

LOLZ I BETTER STAK PENCILS!

Cheebs · « **Reply #38 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:52:46 PM »

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 08:47:40 PM

The older you get the easier it is to be friends with girls, because at some point they become WOMEN which are whole different ball game.

Simply put, the older you get, what matters to you, and what matters for other people, changes quite dramatically.

PD is 19, and FOC is what, 22?

If you are under 25 (and I am) you are still an adolescent not really adults yet imo

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #39 on:** January 21, 2007, 08:59:42 PM »

A lot changes around 25-30, people in general from 18-25 have no clue what they want, which GENERALLY makes for some dramatic 'relationships', whether or not they work out at all.

Cheebs · « **Reply #40 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:03:12 PM »

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 08:59:42 PM

A lot changes around 25-30, people in general from 18-25 have no clue what they want, which GENERALLY makes for some dramatic 'relationships', whether or not they work out at all.

Yep yep.

25-30 today is what 18-25 was 25-30 years ago.

I think it's more due it being the norm now to get a career before trying to get married and have kids.

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #41 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:12:25 PM »

Its the smart thing to do. Im sure thousands of people can point at themselves with pride and scream "BUH BUH I MADE IT WORK IM AWESOME" but they are simply exceptions to the rule. A lot of failed relationships are the result of a lack of LIFE planning.

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #42 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:14:33 PM »

Quote from: MrAngryFace on January 21, 2007, 09:12:25 PM

Its the smart thing to do. Im sure thousands of people can point at themselves with pride and scream "BUH BUH I MADE IT WORK IM AWESOME" but they are simply exceptions to the rule. A lot of failed relationships are the result of a lack of LIFE planning.

What are you saying i should do?

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #43 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:16:12 PM »

You should do what you want to do and learn from the consequences. The worst mistakes are made by following internet advice.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #44 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:18:05 PM »

FoC: get some experience!

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #45 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:26:51 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on January 21, 2007, 09:18:05 PM

FoC: get some experience!

How do I get experience?

The Sceneman · « **Reply #46 on:** January 21, 2007, 09:43:55 PM »

Try and get into some random battles

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #47 on:** January 21, 2007, 10:02:23 PM »

Umm...didn't I already say we were friends?

I'm not dating her right now

Boogie · « **Reply #48 on:** January 21, 2007, 10:04:51 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on January 21, 2007, 10:02:23 PM

Umm...didn't I already say we were friends?

I'm not dating her right now

Way to make the effort, PD

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #49 on:** January 21, 2007, 10:10:47 PM »

Wait, then wtf is that "Pan's Labyrinth and my date" thread? You fuckin' liar you.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #50 on:** January 21, 2007, 10:45:33 PM »

You distinguished mentally-challenged fellows

I hang out with a chick for a week and you expect us to be in a relationship?

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #51 on:** January 21, 2007, 10:49:36 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on January 21, 2007, 10:45:33 PM

You distinguished mentally-challenged fellows

I hang out with a chick for a week and you expect us to be in a relationship?

It's ok PD. It's ok. Everything will be alright.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #52 on:** January 21, 2007, 11:07:14 PM »

Things will get awkward with PD and her when they both decide to have sex. PD will try to remember what hes seen in porns and accidentally stick his dick into her ass and thrust with great vigor. She'll start to scream in pain and horror but PD will think its "just normal"

Vizzys · « **Reply #53 on:** January 21, 2007, 11:08:54 PM »

LOL :backpedal

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #54 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:21:40 AM »

I just called that chick that Im into and asked her to go to the UT dance club tomorrow. She said yes to swing dancing tomorrow at 9!

Boogie · « **Reply #55 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:22:24 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on January 21, 2007, 10:45:33 PM

You distinguished mentally-challenged fellows

I hang out with a chick for a week and you expect us to be in a relationship?

ya, but you're acting like you don't want to try and date her.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #56 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:23:35 AM »

I'll try. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense to rush her into things.

Boogie · « **Reply #57 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:33:26 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on January 22, 2007, 12:23:35 AM

I'll try. I'm just saying it doesn't make sense to rush her into things.

If she's being touchy-feely, going for a kiss on the first date isn't "rushing things"

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #58 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:37:02 AM »

PD, go in for a kiss and if she rejects you then its no big deal because you have every reason to think she wants it. She wants you and your huge manhood, right there. Dont deny her.

If she does reciprocate with the Kiss then you're in man. YOUR IN!!!!!

FlameOfCallandor · « **Reply #59 on:** January 22, 2007, 12:39:35 AM »

Hey PD, did you pay for her movie ticket?

News:

Poll

Will the vampire only be friends with PD, nothing more?

Author Topic: Vampire Girl: Friend Zone Only For PD? (Read 4481 times)