I imagine talking to a trans person today is like talking to a freeman in the late 1800s. Just a few years ago I was asking my transgenderperson friend if cheeseburger is really considered a slur and she was like yeah, "but I use it all the time so I don't personally care". My vocabulary is starting to age. =(
Regarding the topic, of course the only decent way to take a dump is in a bathroom that only you can be in but if I have to share, I'd prefer to do it in most antiauthoritarian way possible which would mean communal toilets like they had in Rome. It fits me being a giant asshole with a kind mouth.