Boogie talks about height like Rahx talks about looks
haha, shit, you may be right!
Tinder made me this way, I swear! I never really gave a second thought to height until all this swiping on profiles that demanded "you must be 5'10" or higher to ride"
Anyhow, Bebpo, I'm actually in a situation right now that seems to be what you're looking for. I wouldn't call it "NSA" exactly, it's more than that, because we both care about each other a fair bit. I'd say there's "real feelings" there, but our situations are such that something to the next step just isn't practical.
I mean, I *want* a "real", full, all-in relationship, ideally. But I'm also.....happy? content?.....with what I currently have going on right now. I dunno, it's weird.
I don't have any advice on the "how" to find such a situation though. I just sort of stumbled into it myself. I think it's a rare thing for someone to want, man or woman, and tough to make sure you're both on the same page about it.