Back in 2012, there was that Real Pic GAF thread, which led to a lot of people actually having meetups in their cities. LA-GAF had a couple get-togethers that were successful enough that we started planning a big one. So we made plans to meet in Hollywood, and about 25 or 30 people were supposed to attend. Then Tyler posted the airplane pic in our meetup thread, and everyone was like, "Oh shit."
So we had the bar night, and Tyler actually did show up. There were a bunch of people there, including a few female posters who I won't name here, but you probably know them. Tyler seem to be trying to hit it off with one of them. His intentions were just ambiguous enough to fly under the radar, but as a dude I'm pretty sure I could recognize him working game. I'm not sure if the female poster in question was interested at the time. Tyler ended up staying in LA for like a week, and there were several different meet ups during that time.
There was another guy there named James. James also apparently had a thing for this female poster. I guess one night he sent her some drunk texts, and she mentioned this to Evilore, and Tyler straight up nuked this guy's account, and there was some serious forum drama over it.
I talked to her like a year later, and she told me she wasn't even too upset with the guy's texts, and was way more upset with the possessiveness that Tyler demonstrated in nuking his account, and making a whole dramatic scene on the forum.
Interesting. I'm pretty sure there was another woman who rebuffed Evilore whose account was later terminated.
Here are some of James'
texts messages, btw:
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Hey Lola! This is James. I just realized that you have a pretty strange route to get home from LA. Hope you're holding up okay. 9:54 AM
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Haha! Yo! I'm hungover, but I'm alive; I guess I gave you the back way to get to my house because it's just a force of habit 9:56 AM
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Thanks again! Was such an amazing time! 9:56 AM
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Me: You're welcome! Glad to do it anytime. How long are you going to be out today? 9:59 AM
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: We'll probably be out till 4, then im goint to swan dive into bed part 2: with a vengeance lol 10:09 AM
[17:14] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Haha. I'm tempted to go back to bed right now but I should go to mass. I hope your hangover doesn't last too much longer.
So here he's pretty cool. She thinks he's pretty cool. Regular chit-chat.
[17:15] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Hi! I just checked your website. You're going to be in Burbank? I think I'll drop by and grab lunch. 10:03 AM
[17:15] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Yo! Yes, we're in Burbank today; but today is my day off (finally!!) so I won't be around. But the dogs are just as delicious without me

10:08 AM
[17:15] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Well, I can always go on Wednesday instead. I need to drop by Fry's anyway. What are you doing for you day off? 10:11 AM
Right here he starts to dial it up a bit. Tries to play it casually like he just wants to get a hot dog, but then reveals that he'll change his entire plan if she's not there. He's assigning too much importance to her, creating a bit of dissonance with the casual attitude he's putting forth. I think girls can pick up on this pretty easily. She doesn't respond when he asks what she's doing on her day off. This could be accidental, or it could be a signal, but it isn't positive at all.
[17:16] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Would you be particularly upset about one of your pictures being photoshopped?
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Just fired up my new phone and saw your text, I guess it depends on the subject matter? Lol 10:44 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: A gaffer shopped Tylers face over yours and Jess 10:44 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: What happened to your phone? 10:46 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Omg lol! Oh nothin' I just finally upgraded 10:47 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Ah, I see. The picture is in the Real Pic thread in Community if you want to see it. Not sure if you do though 10:49 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Ooooooh my LMAO so disturbed! 10:55 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: I'm in too many pictures next to you and Jess. I know I'm next. 10:57 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Oh man. The Internet. How could we make such an amateur mistake? 10:59 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: We traded a night of good fun for photoshops that may haunt us for a good while. I don't regret it. I met some good people. 11:02 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Same! I had such a blast 11:04 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Oh yeah, I think more people are interested in Art Walk but its kinda disorganized at the moment. 11:10 AM
He's being a bit too protective of her here, but she transitions it into something they can laugh about. She doesn't respond about the Art Walk.
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Your secret is out. I know what you were doing yesterday 8:13 PM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Que? 8:20 PM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Having dinner with Tyler and Jess 8:26 PM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Tell Jess I said hi and have a great trip! \ufffd\ufffd 8:27 PM
He really starts to blow it here. The way he words this is all wrong. It might work in person, but over text it reads as pretty aggressive. She plays it off pretty well.
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: You awake? 1:43 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Yeah, can't sleep; had friends over and just now said goodnight. What's up? 1:45 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Oh nothing. Just got home from hanging out with Tyler, Jess and a few other people in the Torrance area. 1:45 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Pretty neat, how'd it go? 1:46 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Jess mentioned food when I dropped her off and now I'm all hungry 1:46 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Played billiards against some old white guys at Redondo. We drank scotch out of the trunk of my car 1:47 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: I thought I locked my keys in the trunk right when we were about to leave 1:47 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Puddles was being weird but someone beat us at pool 1:48 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Haha hell yes! Sounds like an awesome time! 1:48 AM
Here he's cool again. This is one of the "after midnight" texts, but it's pretty casual. She's responding, but I really don't see any sign of romantic interest on her part.
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: When are we going to hang out again? I Yelped a place with good carne asada fries. We should go sometime. 1:49 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: I might be in for Thursday! Might show up a little late, but I'm into it 1:51 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Man... carne Assad fries... Now I'm hungry! 1:52 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: I'll see who's up for it when I wake up in the morning. 1:53 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Hahaha...I'll pick you up. Lets find some late night food. 1:53 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Word. Going to attempt sleep, have a good night! 1:53 AM
[17:19] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Okay. Good night. 1:54 AM
Now he tries to casually ask her out on a date that's not really a date (but in his mind it is). She deflects to the Art Walk, which is definitely not a date. But then she says that the mention of carne asada fries made her hungry. He misinterprets this as a sign of interest and doubles down on the approach. She deflects this and effectively ends the conversation by saying she's going to sleep. Eight minutes ago she couldn't sleep, so this is a pretty clear sign.
At this point he's tried to schedule a one on one meetup three separate times (being pretty sneaky about it), and he's been rebuffed each time. I guess there's a tiny chance that he could have made something work, but in my experience, this is the time to move on. I wouldn't text her again at this point for at least a few days. If I were interested in having her as a friend, I'd go that route.
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Just finished the interview. I think it went well. 4:37 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Awesome! Hope it works out! 4:41 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Thanks! Say...I've been meaning to ask you something. How often do you smoke? Interviews stress me out. 8:00 PM
Apparently she's still interested in keeping him as a friend, because she responds to his initial text. No reply regarding the cigarettes. Dude needs to move on.
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Tyler just mentioned that he and you aren't going to Art Walk. If you're ditching me for him, just let me know. 11:15 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: Honey, that's a bit too aggressive of a text message for my tastes. Please tone it down, I find it inappropriate. 11:45 PM
The way he words this is all wrong. He acts possessive when they've never been on a date.
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Me: I apologize. I just think it would have been nice to hear that from you. 11:49 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: I hadn't made any solid plans with anyone; let's just forget this and move on, que no? 11:51 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Me: You got it. It just came as a surprise to read on GAF while I was trying to organize the meet up. 11:53 PM
[17:21] <Jamesfrom818> Lola: I had no idea it was posted?? I've been slammed at work, thanks for the heads up 11:54 PM
She's made it pretty clear that there's no interest in making this more than a casual friendship. He gets way too serious and weirds her out. He probably wasn't aware of the effect he was having, but I can definitely see how she would find it inappropriate.
[17:23] <Jamesfrom818> Me: Damn it! GAF posted pictures of carne asada fries. I really want some now.
No response to this. She's definitely giving him the signal to back off. To his credit, it looks like he did. Unfortunately for him, Evilore got proactive.