Hey Opiate, remember when I responded to you about something, eating dog meat or something, like 6 years ago, and you didn't respond back?
OWNED.
You'll be happy to know this wasn't because I didn't read it -- I was simply so shocked, so embarrassed, that I could not reply for weeks. By the time I had a witty retort, the thread was long since passed.
No clue if this is a serious response or not.
But this question is not a troll. Do you regret the situation that got you ousted? Do you feel your behavior was unwarranted, or do you you feel the response was too much?
I think I definitely may have made mistakes, but it was legitimately a very complicated situation discussing a very difficult topic. I've mentioned this earlier in the thread, but several posts by Fiction were deleted (by her, not the mods, I could see who deleted posts) which were very crude and mean spirited, telling another poster to "Fuck off," for instance.
This is tough, I hope you will appreciate. While Fiction definitely wasn't
this bad, imagine a person who has been abused who comes in and tells literally everyone who disagrees with them to fuck off, then insists on not listening to evidence that doesn't conform to their view. At what point does that become unacceptable? We want to listen to them, definitely, but when do they cross a line where you need to ask them to take a breather?
I may not have done it as tactfully as one would hope. That's totally possible. But I certainly did not intend to hurt Fiction, as I considered her a friend, an intelligent person, and a great poster. I maintain that it's very difficult to address such a topic perfectly, as you absolutely want to listen to allow posters like Fiction to tell their stories, but you also don't want to let them tell people to fuck off or say that they refuse to listen to any evidence that disagrees with her (Which she stated pretty explicitly). Under any other circumstance behavior like that would have gotten a user banned: I was simply trying to calm her down because the issue was
quite understandably heating her up.