LOL @ anyone siding with the weirdo OP in that "harassed" thread.
- It got ignored that he decided to cancel a job interview by way of cancelling the meeting on his calendar with no explanation; that's not how you cancel a job interview, ESPECIALLY when allegedly someone you know and respect is somehow involved (OPs "handler" he kept referring to.) THAT is why the manager was annoyed from the start; OP thinks the guy didn't notice the cancellation when it's pretty obvious he was just annoyed so decided to send a passive aggressive email asking him why he was late.
- OP is a huge contradiction; he said in that thread he's never even had a "senior level" position but is some superstar at his job.. that doesn't add up. If you are really that good you should be moving up pretty damn fast at some slapdick company somewhere in the mid-west it sounds (OP said he lives somewhere with hardly any tech talent.)
- OP is so incredibly delusional even ignoring the email exchange; in the thread he claimed that he said "over and over" to the guy that he was harassed.. and that "each time the guy came back with new insults".. it's an outright lie. But I don't think he's lying, he's just so fucking nuts that in his head that's the story he concocted. He admitted the truth was that he told the guy once to "stop harassing me", the guy responded once, then OP said one more time "stop harassing me."
And on that last point; why would anyone trust that there's more to the story than the emails pasted into the thread? OP made it sound like the guy had sent him numerous emails, but only provided evidence of 2 emails + the one accidental email. Based on the fact OP outright lied about one part of the exchange and exaggerated it, why would anyone believe that anything else took place?
Anyways; super pointless thread closure. Hate that kind of shit; OP started a thread and conversation was continuing.. OH NO BETTER CLOSE IT. So GAF like. (here is my first complaint about Resetera moderation, I hate when threads that are active are closed, what the fuck else is the point of a discussion forum?)
Seems to me like the guy mailed him saying: "Where are you man? What's going on, you want this job or not?"
expecting something back like: "Oh sorry, I got sick, no longer interested, oops I totally forgot I'm stoned af right now"
And he probably had the second e-mail ready saying: "Ok, sorry to hear man, let's reschedule" because that's how 'normal' people behave in situations like this.
But the OP in his complete distinguished mentally-challenged said: "This is total harassment, why are you asking me where I am if I don't show up for an appointment. Do you feel entitled to my presence?"
I would've also replied with: "Look asshole, do you want this job or not?"
Also OP is dumb as hell because word gets around. Recruiters are usually in touch with a bunch of companies. Especially if the field is small it won't be long before he's known as some weirdo who thinks getting nudged for not showing up equals harassment.