The is family everything thread explains so much about resetera
The crazy thing is the reasoning they use is just exacerbating their problems.
"My family treated me poorly and it really messed me up, so who cares about family."
Family not caring for or about each other causes people to be messed up, so family shouldn't care for or about each other...
Like, dudes, the fact that having a crappy family messed you up so hard is evidence of how important treating family well is, not the opposite.