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I am, and have been, fucking torn on what to doThere isn't going to be any major accountability for this (it certainly ain't gonna be Quick even on the minute chance there was), and I know and have spent months now consoling fellow members of the community who have similarly felt, and continue to feel, silenced and not seen or cared about here. None of this was a big surprise to any of usThe thing is: not all of them have a backup plan. This place was supposed to be the backup planIf you don't frequent one of the community threads to piggyback off the Discords they have, you basically have nothing left now. I don't know that there Is a next step now, let alone What it looks like, for some of those who just now feel completely abandoned. And I don't want to leave friends* behind without a parachute or extra place to crash, and to feel loved. Because we are loved, and we fucking deserve to feel like we are loved*and if this incident proves nothing else, it proves that's what the fuck we are, by the way. If you aren't straight, if you are in this LGBTQ+ community, you are a friend. You have to be. Because we are all we got. We always have been, and always will be, the only ones we can trust, because we sure haven't been given reason to trust anyone else
Hey, y'all, just wanted to say I'm here, and I'm working on a post. More to come.
What a god damned Trumpian response. "The real issue is the leaks."I have never been more disappointed in this site.
why would you announce that you're writing a post
Quote from: Sweeney Swift, 14,000+ postsI am, and have been, fucking torn on what to doThere isn't going to be any major accountability for this (it certainly ain't gonna be Quick even on the minute chance there was), and I know and have spent months now consoling fellow members of the community who have similarly felt, and continue to feel, silenced and not seen or cared about here. None of this was a big surprise to any of usThe thing is: not all of them have a backup plan. This place was supposed to be the backup planIf you don't frequent one of the community threads to piggyback off the Discords they have, you basically have nothing left now. I don't know that there Is a next step now, let alone What it looks like, for some of those who just now feel completely abandoned. And I don't want to leave friends* behind without a parachute or extra place to crash, and to feel loved. Because we are loved, and we fucking deserve to feel like we are loved*and if this incident proves nothing else, it proves that's what the fuck we are, by the way. If you aren't straight, if you are in this LGBTQ+ community, you are a friend. You have to be. Because we are all we got. We always have been, and always will be, the only ones we can trust, because we sure haven't been given reason to trust anyone else
for real, I can't help but question, who pays enough mind to asexuals to discriminate?
Quote from: OnlyRegret on November 18, 2019, 11:32:11 PMfor real, I can't help but question, who pays enough mind to asexuals to discriminate? "just asking questions" huh? you applying to be a ResetERA.com moderator, acephobe?
tl;dr?
https://www.resetera.com/threads/fuck-acephobes.153939/
Yeah fuck this. It's pretty clear that the people who run this site don't give a shit about Trans people.
Shame on the decision, and this isn't the transparency that I expected after the bullshit of the old site and working for over 24 hours during the transition here to get out as many general migrations server invites as possible whilst disseminating corrupt ban information and assisting with the transfer of multiple communities via created discords.
So the one piece of vaguely positive news is that dissatisfaction with the Era community and leadership has been brewing across multiple minority communities.The frustrations that the Trans communities express about the blatant bigotry and the mod team’s happiness to look the other way are frustrations shared by others too.I don’t think there’s enough of us yet for things to reach a boiling point, but if leadership continues to act the way they do, one day we might reach that critical mass
I'm gonna be real, I'm hitting up the hangout thread where there's people that I know and trust who won't report me and asking them for backup. I'd recommend you do the same.
I just want to chime in and say that I am here for the community no matter what happens
Over an hour with no response from staff?
I'm really sorry this happened to you Jessi and I feel for you. I don't really feel safe here either after all this. I hope you do continue posting on era but I don't even think I will be posting as much either after watching all these trans threads go up in flames due to poor moderation or just really awful people. I don't feel safe anymore as much as I want to feel safe. I don't even know what to do anymore and I've been processing this thread the entire time and the recent staff response and I just don't feel mentally sound anymore I can't even handle the issues going on in my community right now after some serious allegations took place. I feel fucking lost and depressed more so than ever. My boyfriends telling me to stop reading the thread and to just take a step back. I think he's right but like, after all, that's happened I just can't think clearly anymore. I probably should go to bed and get some rest.
QuoteThere is absolutely no acephobic mod among staff, and the mod post is on behalf of the entire team.This thread has been locked for at least 6 minutes without a staff post indicating whyFuck AcephobesThe 'A' doesn't stand for ally. We're here and we're valid. And trans rights are human rights. Never fucking forget it.www.resetera.com www.resetera.comSurely you can see why that's incredibly hard to believe
There is absolutely no acephobic mod among staff, and the mod post is on behalf of the entire team.
We going back to GAF now or no?
QuoteI'm gonna be real, I'm hitting up the hangout thread where there's people that I know and trust who won't report me and asking them for backup. I'd recommend you do the same.DON'T TELL THE COPS WHERE TO LOOK
AVATARS HAVE BEEN BROKEN FOR LIKE SIX MINUTES NOW WITH NO ADMIN STATEMENT
QuoteQuoteThere is absolutely no acephobic mod among staff, and the mod post is on behalf of the entire team.This thread has been locked for at least 6 minutes without a staff post indicating whyFuck AcephobesThe 'A' doesn't stand for ally. We're here and we're valid. And trans rights are human rights. Never fucking forget it.www.resetera.com www.resetera.comSurely you can see why that's incredibly hard to believelol at all the people who pretend this isn't how they always operate
Hey, comrades, if you want to show solidarity to our trans brothers and sisters, just swing on by the Trans Awareness week thread in the pinned section of the EtCetera forum! It's easy to miss, but allies would be very, very, very appreciated right now, for reasons that will become very obvious to you the second you click in on the latest couple pages.
Well, Ketkat's insinuation was that someone had posted acephobic shit. Then a mod comes in there, Royalan, specifically, trying to defend the decision in part by talking a whole bunch of shit about how bad the job is. Another mod comes in saying they have no acephobic members on staff. Leaving aside the question of why they didn't just ban Ketkat for lying if that were the case, After a little bit of searching, wouldn't you fucking know it, a NeoGAF thread from 2017:Now we get confirmation via Ketkat's girlfriend that Royalan isn't even the mod they were talking about. The problem is, of course, a pinned thread gets minimal exposure. Now I'm here, talking to you all.I wonder if someone's on PoliERA doing something similar. I hope so.
QuoteI'm really sorry this happened to you Jessi and I feel for you. I don't really feel safe here either after all this. I hope you do continue posting on era but I don't even think I will be posting as much either after watching all these trans threads go up in flames due to poor moderation or just really awful people. I don't feel safe anymore as much as I want to feel safe. I don't even know what to do anymore and I've been processing this thread the entire time and the recent staff response and I just don't feel mentally sound anymore I can't even handle the issues going on in my community right now after some serious allegations took place. I feel fucking lost and depressed more so than ever. My boyfriends telling me to stop reading the thread and to just take a step back. I think he's right but like, after all, that's happened I just can't think clearly anymore. I probably should go to bed and get some rest.you should probably stop posting on the internet.
Thank you for sharing your story.You are so brave and I am so sorry for the diabolical treatment you received from such bigots. I hope you can sleep well tonight and please feel free to reach out if you need people to vent to safely.
Quote from: Joe Molotov on November 18, 2019, 11:43:02 PMWe going back to GAF now or no?YOU GONNA FIX THE AVATARS OR WHAT
So Yuki got a self requested ban for this? Just trying to silence more people I see, trash ass moderation.
Wouldnt be surprised if we got a this is why resetera mods are voting for trump style post any minute now
It's like none of them are waiting for SweetNicole's post.
I feel like I just saw all the attempted good will built up by the staff in this thread shattered in two bans. Good job.I don't think I feel comfortable posting on this forum anymore.
While I no longer feel comfortable posting on this forum after, well... Best not to say now. I guess I never properly came out as trans here.I'm a (slightly Enby)girl! Trans rights are human rights.I have infinite respect to anyone whose transitioned come out irl. I hope I can find the courage to do that some day.
Staff literally keeps making this worse and worse. I don't know how they expect anyone in the trans community to trust them again after this.I keep checking back hoping they make things right and... Ugh this place is becoming too frustrating to deal with.
I'll be honest if she doesn't come back either from being perma banned or of her own will then I'm done with this place. The mods have been great but the admins have proven time and again to be unfit to handle this community.I keep giving this place more chances but the admins always kill the goodwill the mods build up and I just can't stand the all this self-serving "stay in line" bullshit.This doesn't mean much to most, I'm new to being trans and I've not been a very active member of this community. I wanted to try and change that because I love a lot of people here, but I haven't felt safe here for a while.
Okay seriously fuck the staff, fuck this website I'm done.
QuoteOkay seriously fuck the staff, fuck this website I'm done.Ping any Hangouts you're a part of on your way out. Do your part to help this not die in obscurity if you feel able.
I'd hear out the moderators some more before-*reads royalan's acephobic post*What the fuck.
Has incelsheet weighed in yet?
11/14/2019:Quote from: Melody ShredsI feel like I just saw all the attempted good will built up by the staff in this thread shattered in two bans. Good job.I don't think I feel comfortable posting on this forum anymore. 11/15/2019:Quote from: Melody Shreds, post: 26482222, member: 2700While I no longer feel comfortable posting on this forum after, well... Best not to say now. I guess I never properly came out as trans here.I'm a (slightly Enby)girl! Trans rights are human rights.I have infinite respect to anyone whose transitioned come out irl. I hope I can find the courage to do that some day.Today:Quote from: Melody Shreds, post: 26570546, member: 2700Staff literally keeps making this worse and worse. I don't know how they expect anyone in the trans community to trust them again after this.I keep checking back hoping they make things right and... Ugh this place is becoming too frustrating to deal with.Quote from: Melody Shreds, post: 26594553, member: 2700I'll be honest if she doesn't come back either from being perma banned or of her own will then I'm done with this place. The mods have been great but the admins have proven time and again to be unfit to handle this community.I keep giving this place more chances but the admins always kill the goodwill the mods build up and I just can't stand the all this self-serving "stay in line" bullshit.This doesn't mean much to most, I'm new to being trans and I've not been a very active member of this community. I wanted to try and change that because I love a lot of people here, but I haven't felt safe here for a while.Quote from: Melody Shreds, post: 26601698, member: 2700Okay seriously fuck the staff, fuck this website I'm done.
Mods are literally lying and covering their own now this is a fucking joke.
staff, i know that it takes some time to talk things over with each other and get in touch with people and the like, look things over, that sort of thing butWHAT. THE. HELL.ARE. Y'ALL. DOING.y'all are completely alienating the Trans Community of eraover some reeeeeeeeal dumb shitedit: hell, not just the trans community at this point
