If you're expecting a big gift from a sibling that has kids, you're being a selfish moron. Christmas/holidays is all about the kids. Also who would make a fucking collage of a dog that died 5 years ago, pictures from grade school, etc and think of them as a "thoughtful" gifts? Again, if the sister has kids, their house is already cluttered with a bunch of junk, they don't need any more from the creepy shut in brother who apparently can't buy his own candy.