The veneer of hollow currposts, soulless verbiage and faux sophisticated affect of ERA moderation is really adding insult to injury. At this rate I'd probably take THUG1 or your usual janitor power tripping while stroking his e-peen, at least they're transparent half the time about being petty and arbitrary.
These threads are very painful for me to read. You are not the first person to make a thread like this. They make me feel like the way you and I relate to video game forums are so different that I can scarcely say we have the same hobby.
I don’t even know how to really answer your questions because to me your questions don’t make sense. It is like you are not talking about ERA. It is like if you were to say “I’ve just begun posting on Era, but I don’t understand, where are the civil discourses triumphing? I have not seen any civil discourse. I have heard this forum has discussion but I haven’t seen any at all.”
I would not know how to answer this question because the only way you can be asking it is if you are from another dimension than I am. Since you are from an alternate dimension where the forum is not a spellbinding propulsion in to one of societies most complex and ambitious character narratives, and since your universe is home to a version of Era that isn’t a peerless combination of emergent adventuring and expertly written chapter content, you should probably just put it down. I am sorry you aren’t enjoying it — maybe your universe has other forums that deliver on the experience I’m familiar with in mine.