I did, last night and now I guess he doesnt wanna be my friend anymore. Known this guy for 10 years, we chill on the regular. Hang out, smoke some weed and play some vidya. Now and then we watch a movie or a show. Lately shit has been real shallow though, i usually ask him how are things and at work, asking about his side business what hes working on. Usually I get shallow responses like yeah things are allright. He never really asks me about my life or my work or just how are things going, you doing any new edits or hows working out going I dunno just never really shows an interest.
Lately whenever he comes by he spends a lot of time sitting looking on his phone. Now I think its fine to spend some time watching or checking something but last night it annoyed me so I said something about it.
I had put on like some movie in the background while we were rolling one up, he was done before me and inmediatly goes to his phone to look at it like 15mins. I was done rolling and we were heading out, I laughed at something I saw on the tv. i said bro why didnt u watch some of this shit its pretty funny. He was like yea you think its funny. I said well maybe if you looked up from your phone for 5 minutes you would have liked it too.
I told him listen dude it kinda annoys me if you come over here and spend so much time on your phone, then you might as well stay at home. He was saying man what is this bullshit what are you talking about I said listen this is how I feel im kinda annoyed that you spent all this time on your phone when we hang out, it shows disinterest and it gives me the feeling that ur hella bored over here.
He said well your telling me to do this and not do that, I said I never said anything of the sort, I just told you how I feel. He said this is bullshit im outta here. Well I kinda shoved him when he was walking away from me and said well fuck off then. He didnt like that and started punching my head with closed fists and kicking me, I held him by his jacket and held him off telling to stop.
Well I shouldnt have shoved him obviously, and apologised for doing so as that was wrong on my side. But eh if he just wants to throw away a 10 year friendship because I shoved him, well fuck him then. And I think I should be able to tell someone who is my friend listen dude this is annoying.
