Is it possible to be non-observant? As in my gender is that of one unable to determine gender and therefore I calls ‘em as I sees them as a means to focus on the actual topic.
Ethical people must ignore my misgendering because I am simply, and chemically unable to observe gender with any consistency. Therefore, it is those upset or angry at me for misgendering them that are actually misgendering me because my entire gender is predicated around the inability to observe gender.
THAT, is my identity, though it might not be in 5 minutes so please make sure to ask first to remain uncanceled.