granted I don't live on the west coast but has anyone here tried talking about they/thems in real life? if you're making an honest effort it's excruciating, you stumble over every sentence and have to parse everything twice in your head, for both the speaker and the listener, you just want the conversation to move on to anything else
on the internet it's easy, even with as much trouble as era seems to have with it...IRL though?
like I actually don't want to be hurtful to anyone, and even want to try to train myself to make it work for potential times when it might matter...it absolutely does not work
I just got back from a friend's house, he's been watching a show with someone who identifies as they/them and was telling me about it. every sentence was halting as he checked himself, three or four times he said "sh--THEY are hilarious." he's the discord head who cares much more about this than I do, and even he can't do it
It's not easy and it's just another example of Era being totally out of touch with reality and literally being the "did you just misgender me?" meme. People stumble over pronouns when someone has transitioned because they knew them as one gender for a long time an associated them with such and now they are a "new" gender.
The podcast
How did this get Made? has an episode about the start of the fake group The Village People. The movie features

The comedians talking about the movie are all pro-LGBTQ and they even have mega lesbian Cameron Esposito as a guest to discuss the film.

Yet they continually trip up and call Jenner "he," "him," and constantly apologize and then at some point just give up and try to make it a about reviewing a total piece of shit movie.
For most of my life Elliot Paige was this cute girl.

Now Elliot Page is a guy. A cute guy, sure, but they are Elliot Page. I will make mistakes. We don't yet have the temporal pronouns for referring to Elliot Page when Elliot Page acted in the movie Juno. Yet soulless cunts like Exel will use your mistake as proof you want to genocide them.
I attempt to simply refer to Elliot Page as Elliot Page instead of using any pronoun. But a horrid hose-beast like Excel considers that a genocidal level aggression. Trans people in the real world are way cooler than those on Era. The Era Trans people are like what ZeoVGM, and RedMercury are to normal people.