Well I will post an update on that clusterfuck of a situation here rather than gaf as i know most of you here a little better. Also I need somewhere to write it down because talking to him is not an option right now.
He finally decided to let me know that he had posted my bare ass in a casual "by the way" text message. Yeah I was pretty fucking pissed, because its one thing for him to post pictures from my facebook profile because obviously those are up there for public viewing, but for him to post a private photo that was meant for his eyes only is a whole different matter. Particularly on a forum I post on. Yeah I know that there are worse pictures posted in that thread, but the girls in them don't post on the forum and its just rude not to ask permission first, that's the crux of it.
Now at this point I'd have been content with a sincere apology for not asking my permission first, but instead I got a response with the snarkiest 'sorry' telling me that I'm uptight and that I'd make a better couple with one of the people who'd condemned his actions and that next time he will assume that Id side with the biggest assholes in the thread. Then he proceeded to tell me that he no longer wants to be with me because I make him feel like a "bad boyfriend" and we're opposites in every way ?! He basically made it about me siding with asshole/losers and not understanding. Completely missing the point.
What he did was wrong but his reaction to me being upset by him was a million times wrong. Anyway thats it. Don't really know whats going on, this kind of came out of no where. I don't like forums anymore. I'll sort it out with him when I get back. He probably won't be happy I posted this here, but I don't care, I'm not happy with what he has done either.
Oh and if you can avoid it, don't post this response on gaf. I just want to leave it.