Author Topic: well, my self-esteem is at an all time low :( (Read 2454 times)

BlackMage · « **on:** June 10, 2007, 10:09:09 PM »

As you know I was rejected by a girl yesterday. Today was a new day, though, and I had another girl in mind. We get along great and we seem to have a lot in common. She always smiles at me etc. So I work up the courage to ask her out, and when I do, her body language changed drastically, like she was no longer comfortable in my presence. She stiffened up and said, "Maybe, I'll have to see what I'm doing." Keep in mind, she always complains about never having anything to do. This brings up something I want to talk about. I HATE when a girl says maybe over no/yes. It's like I work up all this courage to actually ask her out and that should let me off the hook. Now what, I have to call her and see when she's available and it might all be for nothing because a maybe could mean so many different things. I already know what this maybe means, though. She was just being nice.

I need to figure out why I keep striking out. I must not be doing something right. :'(

Cheebs · « **Reply #1 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:18:51 PM »

how do you know this girl?

demi · « **Reply #2 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:20:25 PM »

probably the tweezed eyebrows

BlackMage · « **Reply #3 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:21:31 PM »

Quote from: Cheebs on June 10, 2007, 10:18:51 PM

how do you know this girl?

she is a customer at my work that regularly comes in (pretty much everyday). I work at a bookstore and she comes in to study. We talk a lot.

BlackMage · « **Reply #4 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:21:53 PM »

Quote from: Dick Frost on June 10, 2007, 10:20:25 PM

probably the tweezed eyebrows

, btw i stopped

Howard Alan Treesong · « **Reply #5 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:29:02 PM »

I think you meant former customer

CajoleJuice · « **Reply #6 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:30:32 PM »

Quote from: Synthesizer Patel on June 10, 2007, 10:29:02 PM

I think you meant former customer

captainbiotch · « **Reply #7 on:** June 10, 2007, 10:35:23 PM »

stop investing so much emotion into it. there are tons of women out there man, keep a positive attitude.

Ichirou · « **Reply #8 on:** June 10, 2007, 11:27:49 PM »

I've seen your picture and you're not particularly creepy-looking aside from the weird Miles Trahan-esque eyebrows. Keep fighting for your dreams. Eventually you will hit the jackpot.

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #9 on:** June 11, 2007, 12:33:00 AM »

Keep on trucking.

Remember this? Kinda NSFW.

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Fresh Prince · « **Reply #10 on:** June 11, 2007, 12:48:43 AM »

Quote from: Synthesizer Patel on June 10, 2007, 10:29:02 PM

I think you meant former customer

or worse she complains about you to managment.

ToxicAdam · « **Reply #11 on:** June 11, 2007, 01:10:40 AM »

If you base all of your self-worth/esteem off of members of the opposite sex, you are in for a long, miserable life.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #12 on:** June 11, 2007, 01:11:34 AM »

Quote from: ToxicAdam on June 11, 2007, 01:10:40 AM

If you base all of your self-worth/esteem off of members of the opposite sex, you are in for a long, miserable life.

bork · « **Reply #13 on:** June 11, 2007, 03:05:43 AM »

Stop trying to ask girls out while you are at work.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #14 on:** June 11, 2007, 03:10:49 AM »

Forget about women and they'll come to you. It's what I call Conquistador Karma. The less effort you put into finding something, the more likely you will find it

Vizzys · « **Reply #15 on:** June 11, 2007, 03:23:59 AM »

Quote from: Michelle the Fibber on June 11, 2007, 03:10:49 AM

Forget about women and they'll come to you. It's what I call Conquistador Karma. The less effort you put into finding something, the more likely you will find it

i suggest no effort

never leave the home

playa

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #16 on:** June 11, 2007, 03:49:38 AM »

Quote from: Viz on June 11, 2007, 03:23:59 AM

Quote from: Michelle the Fibber on June 11, 2007, 03:10:49 AM
Forget about women and they'll come to you. It's what I call Conquistador Karma. The less effort you put into finding something, the more likely you will find it

i suggest no effort

never leave the home

playa

That's how I roll.

Can't keep the bitches away- bill collectors and shit.

I'm all like "AY! Form an orderly line and approach on your knees and shit."

And they're all like "lol we only want to repossess your car"

So I'm all like "yo shit don't run anyway bitch! commence to slobbin on the knob!"

And they're all like "tee hee ok"

And I'm like "word".

tiesto · « **Reply #17 on:** June 11, 2007, 09:50:29 AM »

With girls, maybe = no... just keep at it, dude. Word of advice: it helps to have like 5 or 6 backups, don't put all your eggs in one basket. I have this problem where I'll have about 5 prospects, but one of them seems to be going really well, so I put all my focus on that one and drop the other ones, and then things go bad with the one, and then I've got nothing. Single girls have like about 5 or 6 potential guys at any time, so you need to do something a bit to set yourself apart from the mold.

The Fake Shemp · « **Reply #18 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:03:18 AM »

See, you need to try to seduce some UGLY chicks first to build up your confidence. You can't go around asking any female out, of course they'll reject you!

Not everyone can be a Drinky Crow out the womb, son.

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #19 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:35:42 AM »

I find the prospect of Drinky Crow picking up hot girls rather humorous.

Tauntaun · « **Reply #20 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:40:26 AM »

Quote from: Raoul Duke on June 11, 2007, 03:49:38 AM

Quote from: Viz on June 11, 2007, 03:23:59 AM
Quote from: Michelle the Fibber on June 11, 2007, 03:10:49 AM
Forget about women and they'll come to you. It's what I call Conquistador Karma. The less effort you put into finding something, the more likely you will find it

i suggest no effort

never leave the home

playa

That's how I roll.

Can't keep the bitches away- bill collectors and shit.

I'm all like "AY! Form an orderly line and approach on your knees and shit."

And they're all like "lol we only want to repossess your car"

So I'm all like "yo shit don't run anyway bitch! commence to slobbin on the knob!"

And they're all like "tee hee ok"

And I'm like "word".

lol, u sound

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Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #21 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:45:55 AM »

Quote from: Willco on June 11, 2007, 10:03:18 AM

See, you need to try to seduce some UGLY chicks first to build up your confidence. You can't go around asking any female out, of course they'll reject you!

Not everyone can be a Drinky Crow out the womb, son.

well, even if you are this "Drinky Crow" they'll still reject you, but there's no self-esteem impact!

...

...

:'(

Tauntaun · « **Reply #22 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:46:39 AM »

^

wub

The Fake Shemp · « **Reply #23 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:48:30 AM »

CNN NEWS ALERT: TEENAGE MALE SUICIDE LINKED TO INTERNET FORUM

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #24 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:54:21 AM »

lol I was right.

Ichirou · « **Reply #25 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:54:30 AM »

BlackMage, don't worry. If worse comes to worse, always remember...

AUTOBOTS ARE WATCHING OVER YOUUUUUUUUU

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #26 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:55:45 AM »

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on June 11, 2007, 10:35:42 AM

I find the prospect of Drinky Crow picking up hot girls rather humorous.

i used to be pretty ripped -- note the "used to be", tracer, 'cuz i'm ten years' married at this point -- and i do in fact have a great deal of self-confidence. in your face!

Cyanista · « **Reply #27 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:57:21 AM »

Man, why hos always gotta be lettin theyselves go when they gets married? Shiiiiiiiiiiit.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #28 on:** June 11, 2007, 10:58:04 AM »

my wife asks the same question

i am lazy and women are forgiving

Flannel Boy · « **Reply #29 on:** June 11, 2007, 11:01:48 AM »

His wife has a sayin', "more cushin for the pushin!"

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #30 on:** June 11, 2007, 11:02:38 AM »

Im awesome rockstar chicks everynight passed out on my bed from too much awesome *censored by echelon*

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #31 on:** June 11, 2007, 11:11:38 AM »

Quote from: Professor Prole on June 11, 2007, 10:55:45 AM

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on June 11, 2007, 10:35:42 AM
I find the prospect of Drinky Crow picking up hot girls rather humorous.

i used to be pretty ripped -- note the "used to be", tracer, 'cuz i'm ten years' married at this point -- and i do in fact have a great deal of self-confidence. in your face!

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #32 on:** June 11, 2007, 11:13:42 AM »

When I worked at Staples I was in good shape because of all the walking and lifting and general activity. Now that I sit at a desk the relentless force of Gravity pulls my body-fat towards the center of this planet we call Earth.

tiesto · « **Reply #33 on:** June 11, 2007, 11:19:23 AM »

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on June 11, 2007, 10:35:42 AM

I find the prospect of Drinky Crow picking up hot girls rather humorous.

Why...? He gives some of the best advice out of anyone in all these dating threads. Plus, he's married... which is a guarantee single women will flock all over him

Tauntaun · « **Reply #34 on:** June 11, 2007, 01:34:38 PM »

Quote from: Malek: King of Kings on June 11, 2007, 11:01:48 AM

His wife has a sayin', "more cushin for the pushin!"

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demi · « **Reply #35 on:** June 11, 2007, 01:51:41 PM »

I told you from the start, go gay, it's muuuuuuuuuuch easier

futami · « **Reply #36 on:** June 11, 2007, 02:51:16 PM »

Quote from: BlackMage on June 10, 2007, 10:09:09 PM

As you know I was rejected by a girl yesterday. Today was a new day, though, and I had another girl in mind. We get along great and we seem to have a lot in common. She always smiles at me etc. So I work up the courage to ask her out, and when I do, her body language changed drastically, like she was no longer comfortable in my presence. She stiffened up and said, "Maybe, I'll have to see what I'm doing." Keep in mind, she always complains about never having anything to do. This brings up something I want to talk about. I HATE when a girl says maybe over no/yes. It's like I work up all this courage to actually ask her out and that should let me off the hook. Now what, I have to call her and see when she's available and it might all be for nothing because a maybe could mean so many different things. I already know what this maybe means, though. She was just being nice.

I need to figure out why I keep striking out. I must not be doing something right. :'(

if she said maybe, do not call her to see if she's arrived at a decision.

she's not interested.

Himu · « **Reply #37 on:** June 11, 2007, 03:08:22 PM »

BM, how are you asking these girls out? Talk them casually and act like you aren't intersted in hooking up, and in the middle of the conversation, ask if she wants to do anything. You're a handsome guy man, you can do this shit.

If you walk around stalkingly, as if asking them out is your sole goal chances are you'll freak them out. Trust me, I know.

BlackMage · « **Reply #38 on:** June 11, 2007, 04:28:18 PM »

another day, and I'm back to my happy self. I'm gonna take a break from the womens and focus on other things for a while. Like my golf game, which has gone to shit.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #39 on:** June 11, 2007, 04:35:52 PM »

golf

demi · « **Reply #40 on:** June 11, 2007, 04:40:00 PM »

Quote from: BlackMage on June 11, 2007, 04:28:18 PM

another day, and I'm back to my happy self. I'm gonna take a break from the womens and focus on other things for a while. Like my golf game, which has gone to shit.

Fuck a melon, that works too

BlackMage · « **Reply #41 on:** June 11, 2007, 04:41:07 PM »

Quote from: Professor Prole on June 11, 2007, 04:35:52 PM

golf

nothing greater then hitting the course, or driving range, after a stressful day.

Tauntaun · « **Reply #42 on:** June 11, 2007, 05:13:50 PM »

Quote from: BlackMage on June 11, 2007, 04:41:07 PM

Quote from: Professor Prole on June 11, 2007, 04:35:52 PM
golf

nothing greater then hitting the woman, or bitch, after a stressful day.

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BlackMage · « **Reply #43 on:** June 11, 2007, 05:21:26 PM »

I would never hit a woman!

Cheebs · « **Reply #44 on:** June 11, 2007, 05:34:35 PM »

Quote from: BlackMage on June 11, 2007, 05:21:26 PM

I would never hit a woman!

Boogie · « **Reply #45 on:** June 12, 2007, 03:13:22 AM »

Speaking as the former poster child for hopelessness:

Don't give up trying. It's cliche and unconvincing, but you can't really tell when a woman is going to take interest in you. You just gotta plug away at it.

Also, nice Fedor avatar.

FatalT · « **Reply #46 on:** June 12, 2007, 06:07:14 AM »

Quote from: Boogie on June 12, 2007, 03:13:22 AM

You just gotta plug away at it.

Heeheehee...

Prost · « **Reply #47 on:** June 12, 2007, 06:12:11 AM »

man just smile be confident and dress nice. if she thinks she's outta your league she will NOT say yes. Everything besides "sure" or "yes" means no.

MrAngryFace · « **Reply #48 on:** June 12, 2007, 09:43:20 AM »

What about "nope"?!??!

Prost · « **Reply #49 on:** June 12, 2007, 11:36:32 AM »

Quote from: Bubblicious Panda on June 12, 2007, 09:43:20 AM

What about "nope"?!??!

:'(

Tauntaun · « **Reply #50 on:** June 12, 2007, 11:53:07 AM »

this is what it takes to get true wub

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tiesto · « **Reply #51 on:** June 12, 2007, 12:11:04 PM »

Quote from: Boogie on June 12, 2007, 03:13:22 AM

Speaking as the former poster child for hopelessness:

Don't give up trying. It's cliche and unconvincing, but you can't really tell when a woman is going to take interest in you. You just gotta plug away at it.

Also, nice Fedor avatar.

QFT, but it really can be disheartening, especially if you are like me and have been batting 0/50 with women since breaking up with their last g/f (who wasn't exactly a quality catch, either =P) in '05.

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Author Topic: well, my self-esteem is at an all time low :( (Read 2454 times)