I don't get it.
Went out of town for a college buddy's stag and doe party.
Met one of the bride's friends. Shy, but really cute. I chat with her for much of the evening, she seems to dig me. Repeatedly casting glances at me, laughing at my lame jokes, following me to my group, and mild flirting back and forth. Can't get her on to the dance floor though, she just doesn't dance.
Anyway, close to the end of the night, I tell her that since she doesn't dance, she should give me her number and we can find something she would like to do.
aaaand she say that I seem like a good guy, but she's had some bad experiences. Her last boyfriend is in prison. So she's taking a "break." But I seem like a good guy.
What. The. Fuck.Okay, you've had some bad experiences. Maybe you've been hurt. And you've picked poorly in choice of partners in the past.
But I'm a fucking
Mountie. I'm not going to end up in fucking prison! And I'm good friends with your lifelong friend to boot! If I'm not someone worth taking a chance on, then who the fuck is?!
Argh. Where are all the forward/assured/sexually confident women that some of you meet, who if you actually put a straightforward and confident effort toward will actually meet you halfway and indicate and reciprocate her own interest?
I swear, my non-dating/sex life is certifiably farcical at this point.