Random talk thread: It just keeps happening

[Himu]

she's white.

and no, stop acting like black (american) women are like are all other women.

[Fresh Prince]

well I'm not in America so yeah I guess I can't talk

Anyway to answer your question most women are brought up with dolls in their hand. As they grow up it becomes finding the perfect man, having the dream wedding, their own home and the two children.  I mean how can they not see it as their ultimate goal? How can they fight all that conditioning?

For men the answer is more complicated. I think men come to the realisation that they will never really achieve the career aspirations so they place their worth in society as a husband and a father. A provider that other people depend on. There is a bit of a cultural element too.

I think it ultimately comes to a sense of safety and comfort in a world that can be frightening.

[Phoenix Dark]

well I'm not in America so yeah I guess I can't talk

Yes, please leave racial commentary to the people who live in country's with racial diversity.

[Mupepe]

or it might just have to do with values and what feels rewarding (making a family is extremely rewarding on a personal level).  IME, people who grow up in a really close, non-dysfunctional (relatively speaking, because we're all fucked up) family tend to place a lot of value on creating the same atmosphere.  There's nothing wrong with it.  Dreams and aspirations are deeply personal and yours probably seem stupid and wasteful to a good amount of people too.  

Edit: And IMO, people who aspire only to be rich and successful with nothing else in mind are living a more wasted existence.  But to each his own.

[Himu]

And IMO, people who aspire only to be rich and successful with nothing else in mind are living a more wasted existence.  But to each his own.

agreed

i'm not saying living such a life is bad, as its only natural. But surely people who feel like that think there's more to life than reproducing? I dunno, I just find that sad for some reason. It feels so...animalistic.

[Fresh Prince]

Yes, please leave racial commentary to the people who live in country's with racial diversity.

smh PD, I live in Australia. Here it is racially diverse and despite what ethnicity women are (except maybe white women) they act similarly.

[Phoenix Dark]

It's not a race issue Himu, but in my experience I've met so many black church going chicks who's main interest in the future is getting married and having multiple kids. One time my grandma introduced me to some girl at her church, and after a bit of meaningless banter she said "what's your favorite food?" I said macaroni and cheese, and she smiled, perked up and said "I know how to cook that"

I pretended to get a phonecall and left

[Fresh Prince]

Personally I don't really see the difference between somebody who places their self worth in their career or a person who places their self worth in marriage and children. To me it is the same thing. They seek to define who they are by what they have.

The same things goes for the enjoyment they get out of them. If it makes them happy then good luck to them.

BUT I see a lot of people 'settling down' because of some fear I really can't put into words.

[Phoenix Dark]

Yes, please leave racial commentary to the people who live in country's with racial diversity.

smh PD, I live in Australia. Here it is racially diverse and despite what ethnicity women are (except maybe white women) they act similarly.

thought you lived in India my nicca 

[Mupepe]

And IMO, people who aspire only to be rich and successful with nothing else in mind are living a more wasted existence.  But to each his own.

agreed

i'm not saying living such a life is bad, as its only natural. But surely people who feel like that think there's more to life than reproducing? I dunno, I just find that sad for some reason. It feels so...animalistic.

Does to me too.  But one of my dreams is to restore old cars and I'm sure if I made a thread on GAF about it, all the Prius drivers would come in asking me why?  I'll never make the money back that I spent to restore the car and cars are utilities I should drive one until it breaks down blah blah blah.  So I try not to judge.

Personally I don't really see the difference between somebody who places their self worth in their career or a person who places their self worth in marriage and children. To me it is the same thing. They seek to define who they are by what they have.

This.  Personally I find one (career) less fulfilling but that's just me.

[Diunx]

Women dream about marriage and children, men dream about taping dat ass and balling.

[Fresh Prince]

Nah man from what I've when you approach your 30's it seems to change.

[Himu]

Personally I don't really see the difference between somebody who places their self worth in their career or a person who places their self worth in marriage and children. To me it is the same thing. They seek to define who they are by what they have.

The same things goes for the enjoyment they get out of them. If it makes them happy then good luck to them.

BUT I see a lot of people 'settling down' because of some fear I really can't put into words.

What about people who just want to know what's what and continue seeking information to find whatever answer lies out there no matter the obstacle and just want to do what's "true to their heart" or whatever cheesy Disney shit?

[demi]

New job is so awesome.

[Phoenix Dark]

what is it?

[demi]

Cleaning up trash on the side of the road for county

[Raban]

Cleaning up trash on the side of the road for county

I misread this as "for country"

[Fresh Prince]

What about people who just want to know what's what and continue seeking information to find whatever answer lies out there no matter the obstacle and just want to do what's "true to their heart" or whatever cheesy Disney shit?

People would argue that within their career\family\hobby\whatever always gives them challenges and teaches them about themselves etc.
Also the 'answer that lies out there' and staying 'true to you're heart' are not neccessarily the same thing himu.

People need a treadmill to run. If you keep on jumping off and on treadmills you're eventually going to fall.

[Positive Touch]

It's not a race issue Himu, but in my experience I've met so many black church going chicks who's main interest in the future is getting married and having multiple kids. One time my grandma introduced me to some girl at her church, and after a bit of meaningless banter she said "what's your favorite food?" I said macaroni and cheese, and she smiled, perked up and said "I know how to cook that"

I pretended to get a phonecall and left

well durrrrrr

also way to fuck up getting a potentially awesome bowl of mac & cheese

[Fresh Prince]

You know, I can't even hate that atleast they're honest about what they want. What gets me are the women are the women who don't know what the fuck they want or they want everything.

[T234]

Living in the poor white hood is as strange as you make it.

"Get the fuck outta here."
*I pull my knife and shout*
"THE LADIES' ROOM IS ONLY OPEN ON LADIES' NIGHT!"

[Positive Touch]

kentucky is a hillbilly shithole; stop trying to make it sound interesting

[Positive Touch]

sorry that came off more negative than i intended

[T234]

kentucky is a hillbilly shithole; stop trying to make it sound interesting

I'll bet money that where you live isn't any better.

[Fresh Prince]

If I was going to go by the internet for boring areas in the usa I'd say it'd be michigan

[Himu]

sorry that came off more negative than i intended

you are such a sweet heart

[Positive Touch]

kentucky is a hillbilly shithole; stop trying to make it sound interesting

I'll bet money that where you live isn't any better.

  missouri

sorry that came off more negative than i intended

you are such a sweet heart

love you too boo

[Groogrux]

In Kentucky, we like to get drunk and find terrorists.

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/documents/college/meet-star-subway-taser-video

Fucking awesome.

[fistfulofmetal]

i just want to be rich and successful and nothing else.

[Reb]

nvm

[Groogrux]

WKU always has been the brown mark on the state of Kentucky's underpants.

[Joe Molotov]

In Kentucky, we like to get drunk and find terrorists.

http://www.thesmokinggun.com/documents/college/meet-star-subway-taser-video

Fucking awesome.

WKU’s football team lost its homecoming game to the University of North Texas, 33-6.

what a shit team

The Mean Green, bitches.

[drew]

If you used the guns to shoot your family you'd never hear blabbing again

yeah, too bad im not a fucking PSYCHO

actually we talked about guns the entire fucking dinner, he just got back from some all day tactical clinic and was all pumped up, he invited me out to his gun club on saturday morning, hes gonna teach me how to clean a gun for when i get mine soon (the first cleaning of a gun's life is the most important)

[Groogrux]

I was friend requested this evening by a really attractive (okay, sweet sexy smoking fuck-her hot) girl on Facebook.  Curious to know why somebody of her species would friend request a married non-attractive male of my species, I checked out her page.  She ended up being a girl that lived down the street from me when I was a child living in Ohio.  She's almost 3-4 years younger than me, and her sister was 2 years younger than me.  We were really young at the time so it was before that age that boys and girls thought each other had cooties.

Long story short, I look into her sister's profile since I hadn't heard or seen from them in over 16 years to find that she's incredibly attractive.  It also appears that she went on to become a Ohio Buckeye cheerleader and apparently went to a Blake Shelton (country music singer) concert and gang-banged him on his tour bus afterwards.

How do you like those apples?

[lennedsay]

  wow!

[Phoenix Dark]

Buckeyes

[Robo]

If you used the guns to shoot your family you'd never hear blabbing again

yeah, too bad im not a fucking PSYCHO

actually we talked about guns the entire fucking dinner, he just got back from some all day tactical clinic and was all pumped up, he invited me out to his gun club on saturday morning, hes gonna teach me how to clean a gun for when i get mine soon (the first cleaning of a gun's life is the most important)

That is so romantic. 

[lennedsay]

I hear that cleaning your gun really hurts the first time if you're not.... snipsnip

[etiolate]

Hallmark needs to make cards for people who marry and sprout kids by 20 and then run to tell you about it. Something like "Congratulations on your impending second marriage!"

[Mr. Gundam]

^ Yes, yes they do.

[lennedsay]

Sympathy cards?

[Mr. Gundam]

More like "Way to go, you just fucked up your life" cards.

[Fresh Prince]

So sad but true. I think the marriage part is worse than the kids part.

[Mupepe]

So sad but true. I think the marriage part is worse than the kids part.

definitely is

[Himu]

yes

[Phoenix Dark]

 

What does she look like?

[Raban]

like a hot girl and there is nothing that gives away that she's a shemale, her voice is a girls voice.

Sounds like you're making up a story for attention. Shit/bin.

[Robo]

She told you she's a trans so you'll leave her the fuck alone.  Little did she know...

[Mupepe]

Himu and PD first to respond, anyone surprised???

[Brehvolution]

So some hot chick wants me to fuck her, then she tells me shes trans.

[BlueTsunami]

like a hot girl and there is nothing that gives away that she's a shemale, her voice is a girls voice.

[Raban]

like a hot girl and there is nothing that gives away that she's a shemale, her voice is a girls voice.

(Image removed from quote.)

This is probably the best .gif ever.

[Bacchus7]

Pretty sure I just aced my Micro midterm! Good news!

[Phoenix Dark]

like a hot girl and there is nothing that gives away that she's a shemale, her voice is a girls voice.

pics?

How/where did you meet her? I'm kinda doubting your story here, considering how rare one finds trans individuals who started hormone therapy early enough for them to look/sound as feminine as possible. And in Montana? Nahhh

[Diunx]

Yeah I'm not believing it, sorry Wrath but you gonna have to post some pics with the cheeseburger.

[Mupepe]

preferably of you sucking its dick

[Fresh Prince]

What's the problem? I though you liked guy and girls. Now you have one who was a guy and is now a girl.

[Mupepe]

i don't think wrath is bi.

[bud]

got a new showerhead. the pressure on this thing is so awesome.

spreading your cheeks and letting that powerful stream of water do its thing... feels good, man

i had forgotten showers could be this good.

[drew]

just got off the phone from the NRA, theyve been calling our house for a couple months because i sub'd to guns n ammo magazine, didnt promise anything over the phone but theyre gonna mail stuff to my house - fuckers are RELENTLESS