Closed FB account. FB makes me depressed and unhappy.
Good for you. While I lived in the USA, my wife got a really unrealistic picture of my "separated" life from Facebook pictures. It's not a realistic lens through which to view life.
Too many big dikku jokes?
To be honest, it was pictures of me with all my college and work friends, hanging out and enjoying barbecue every weekend, drinking beer I could NEVER find in Japan, and enjoying a supportive and creative work environment. So all the parts where I was busy, those
were great.
All the parts where I wasn't with friends and wasn't at work were pretty miserable. Not having my family with me at the end of each day was depressing. Going to bed and waking up alone in a house after 15 years of marriage (then) was sad. My sister threw a huge birthday part for her daughter, while I had not even seen my kids for either of their birthdays that year; that depressed me so badly that I excused myself from the party for the first 3/4ths of it.
I never post that kind of stuff to Facebook, so the picture was pretty unbalanced.