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Broseidon

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28380 on: October 15, 2015, 08:27:59 PM »
Wanting to eat and drink things that you think taste nice :heh
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Kara

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« Reply #28381 on: October 15, 2015, 08:49:38 PM »
Wanting to eat and drink things that you think taste nice :heh

She Who Thirsts gives us treats of all types. :lawd

Kara

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« Reply #28382 on: October 15, 2015, 10:53:24 PM »
Today I watched an obscene amount of money (metaphorically) put in a bag and lit on fire because a grown-ass adult did their best impression of that kid on the playground who thinks offering lopsided deals is good business. Big ups to the other person for going Howard Roark on that shit. See you either in hell or in communism, chief. (But they are the same.)

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« Reply #28383 on: October 15, 2015, 11:48:58 PM »
feels good not being the laughing stock of an alcohol discussion  :doge
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Kara

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« Reply #28384 on: October 16, 2015, 01:06:54 AM »
feels good not being the laughing stock of an alcohol discussion  :doge

Fuck, this forum is a disgrace. *sips fernet, spits it out*

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« Reply #28385 on: October 16, 2015, 01:54:43 AM »
WHO YOU CALLING A DISGRACE I'M DRINKING STAGG (NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH THAT RED STAG BULLSHIT) JR TONITE BECAUSE PATRICK TOWLES WON'T THROW DA BALL










ONE HUNDRED THIRTY-PLUS PROOF BOURBON BITCHES
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« Reply #28386 on: October 16, 2015, 02:33:50 AM »
I fucks with Strongbow and Angry Orchard. :doge

Angry Orchard is basically apple juice. Enjoy your apple juice.

There are really good ciders out there, AO is just crazy sweet.

SMITH AND FORGE is utter crap though. It's not particularly sweet, but it tastes like Mott's apple juice. :yuck

Kara

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« Reply #28387 on: October 16, 2015, 02:55:35 AM »
WHO YOU CALLING A DISGRACE I'M DRINKING STAGG (NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH THAT RED STAG BULLSHIT) JR TONITE BECAUSE PATRICK TOWLES WON'T THROW DA BALL


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ONE HUNDRED THIRTY-PLUS PROOF BOURBON BITCHES

Not bad. :phil

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« Reply #28388 on: October 16, 2015, 02:15:25 PM »
When experiencing random crashes it is always good to check temperatures and memory. I've had to replace RAM several times.

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« Reply #28389 on: October 16, 2015, 02:18:46 PM »
PC cases that don't have easily removable dust filters are unacceptable at this point.

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« Reply #28390 on: October 16, 2015, 03:29:24 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=181912721&postcount=12

Oh snap... I've only tried to learn Japanese a few years ago but I read this sentence phonetically and understood it. :gladbron

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« Reply #28391 on: October 16, 2015, 04:59:19 PM »
I'm at the airport and this poor lady has 2 kids under three are running everywhere and she's trying to keep them entertained. I'd offer to help, but that whole "men with other people's kids = creeps" thing. No thanks. Poor lady though. I've been there. It sucks.
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« Reply #28392 on: October 18, 2015, 06:05:32 AM »
It's weird how I like/favorite posts on Instagram/FB/Twitter from both people that I know well and people I don't know at all.

But there's a weird middle group of acquaintances that I only know in passing where it feels the slightest bit creepy to me.

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« Reply #28393 on: October 18, 2015, 06:21:20 AM »
In the end, storming out of a presentation isn't quite as embarrassing as shitting yourself

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« Reply #28394 on: October 18, 2015, 09:35:37 AM »
Obligatory bore post when I should be working.

I'm supposed to watch this presentation but my ass is about to explode. Help!

Johnny Sasaki outchea.

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« Reply #28395 on: October 18, 2015, 12:23:19 PM »
Will you be my Meryl? :uguu

I do hate my dad. :ohhh

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« Reply #28396 on: October 18, 2015, 08:20:01 PM »
oh god

I've made the mistake of googling Lea Thompson and came across pics of her when she was younger

I've never felt so thirsty in my life (Image removed from quote.) (Image removed from quote.) (Image removed from quote.)
If you do manage to go back in time and nail her, you could end up being Marty McFly's dad.

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« Reply #28397 on: October 18, 2015, 08:24:21 PM »
I've realized that I can't tell the difference between Orlando Bloom and Justin Timberlake.

They might be the same person. :ohhh

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« Reply #28398 on: October 20, 2015, 09:08:28 AM »
I'm now that guy who browses videogame forums at work.

You made it, breh. :mynicca
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« Reply #28399 on: October 20, 2015, 02:48:22 PM »
My GP said I was in great physical health. My only hope is something that would show up in a blood panel but somehow not affect me on a day to day basis. Fuck the tryhard ovum and / or spermatozoon responsible for everything being tip top except for the whole brutal episodic depression thing.

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« Reply #28400 on: October 20, 2015, 03:24:20 PM »
My GP said I was in great physical health. My only hope is something that would show up in a blood panel but somehow not affect me on a day to day basis. Fuck the tryhard ovum and / or spermatozoon responsible for everything being tip top except for the whole brutal episodic depression thing.

You're gonna die no matter what, so don't sweat it too hard. What's another 80 years compared to eternity?  :)

Kara

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« Reply #28401 on: October 21, 2015, 04:08:23 AM »
I had been stressed out about being late (thanks I-5) and blasting the Misfits on the drive and my blood pressure (which of course they took right away) tested just outside cac levels. I felt like a disgrace to my partial heritage. :brazilcry

Nailed my EKG later doe. :mynicca

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« Reply #28402 on: October 21, 2015, 01:20:37 PM »
It's high but a lot of that is because I use it to aid hydration on rides.

Listened to TSOL today. Felt like Arvie when I sang along to "Code Blue."

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« Reply #28403 on: October 21, 2015, 01:23:10 PM »
That's a good song.  I like it.  I believe it's on punk-o-rama 2, which a shark dude on the cover. 

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« Reply #28404 on: October 21, 2015, 11:39:54 PM »
Sometimes I can't tell if some of my facebook friends just live inordinately entertaining lives or if they're just gay.
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« Reply #28405 on: October 22, 2015, 12:07:23 AM »
My sodium intake has been pretty low this year. I've been sticking to various spices instead of salt, such as Ms. Dash. I use garlic, ginger, pepper, red peppers, etc depending on what I'm cooking. I use some Cajun seasoning too which has less sodium than regular salt.

Basically the only thing I put salt on is eggs. The GOAT unhealthy meal :lawd
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« Reply #28406 on: October 22, 2015, 01:18:01 AM »
It's high but a lot of that is because I use it to aid hydration on rides.

Listened to TSOL today. Felt like Arvie when I sang along to "Code Blue."

It's okay your alma mater thinks punk rock came from optimists:

http://www.ucla.edu/optimists/biographies/graffin
http://www.ucla.edu/optimists/biographies/ginn

My GP said I was in great physical health. My only hope is something that would show up in a blood panel but somehow not affect me on a day to day basis. Fuck the tryhard ovum and / or spermatozoon responsible for everything being tip top except for the whole brutal episodic depression thing.

I don't think I've ever been to a doctor for some kind of checkup on my overall health as an adult. Should I? :doge

I'm guessing my health is okay other than a chronic lack of Vitamin D. :expert

I actually had blood work come back one time that said I needed to get more sun.

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« Reply #28407 on: October 22, 2015, 12:25:37 PM »
My sodium intake has been pretty low this year. I've been sticking to various spices instead of salt, such as Ms. Dash. I use garlic, ginger, pepper, red peppers, etc depending on what I'm cooking. I use some Cajun seasoning too which has less sodium than regular salt.

Basically the only thing I put salt on is eggs. The GOAT unhealthy meal :lawd

Eggs are healthy though. Even if you don't believe me, the FDA finally came out and reversed their decades-long position on limiting dietary cholesterol because it does not correlate to blood cholesterol.

Phoenix Dark

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« Reply #28408 on: October 22, 2015, 12:27:18 PM »
My sodium intake has been pretty low this year. I've been sticking to various spices instead of salt, such as Ms. Dash. I use garlic, ginger, pepper, red peppers, etc depending on what I'm cooking. I use some Cajun seasoning too which has less sodium than regular salt.

Basically the only thing I put salt on is eggs. The GOAT unhealthy meal :lawd

Eggs are healthy though. Even if you don't believe me, the FDA finally came out and reversed their decades-long position on limiting dietary cholesterol because it does not correlate to blood cholesterol.

oh shit?
:rejoice
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« Reply #28409 on: October 22, 2015, 12:31:57 PM »
Walkin around my property last night, I had to have seen 10+ varieties of wild mushroom, I gotta take a mycology course

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« Reply #28410 on: October 22, 2015, 01:23:17 PM »
My sodium intake has been pretty low this year. I've been sticking to various spices instead of salt, such as Ms. Dash. I use garlic, ginger, pepper, red peppers, etc depending on what I'm cooking. I use some Cajun seasoning too which has less sodium than regular salt.

Basically the only thing I put salt on is eggs. The GOAT unhealthy meal :lawd

Eggs are healthy though. Even if you don't believe me, the FDA finally came out and reversed their decades-long position on limiting dietary cholesterol because it does not correlate to blood cholesterol.
The Simpsons covered this years ago...

Quote from: Lenny
Pfft, forget it, Homer. While it has been established that eggs contain cholesterol, it has not yet been proven conclusively that they actually raise the level of serum cholesterol in the human blood stream.

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« Reply #28411 on: October 22, 2015, 02:14:03 PM »
Aren't you supposed to eat egg whites if you eat meat but yolked eggs if you don't? I'm still pretty entrenched in my egg white habbit.

E: feel like we should have a nutrition megathread.

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« Reply #28412 on: October 22, 2015, 02:20:42 PM »
Usually I just eat eggs before my workouts. Either eggs or oatmeal, sometimes a protein shake thrown in somewhere. Or I'll have some beans.  :doge
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« Reply #28413 on: October 22, 2015, 02:25:02 PM »
Aren't you supposed to eat egg whites if you eat meat but yolked eggs if you don't? I'm still pretty entrenched in my egg white habbit.

E: feel like we should have a nutrition megathread.
The bolded doesn't really make much sense from a nutritional standpoint. 

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« Reply #28414 on: October 22, 2015, 02:29:47 PM »
Aren't you supposed to eat egg whites if you eat meat but yolked eggs if you don't? I'm still pretty entrenched in my egg white habbit.

E: feel like we should have a nutrition megathread.

Feel free to bump this one:
http://www.thebore.com/forum/index.php?topic=37533.0
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« Reply #28415 on: October 22, 2015, 02:31:01 PM »
 :lol
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« Reply #28416 on: October 22, 2015, 02:34:12 PM »
Aren't you supposed to eat egg whites if you eat meat but yolked eggs if you don't? I'm still pretty entrenched in my egg white habbit.

E: feel like we should have a nutrition megathread.
The bolded doesn't really make much sense from a nutritional standpoint.

That's why I asked, I encounter lots of :trash and :hans1 dietary info these days. :)

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« Reply #28417 on: October 22, 2015, 02:38:56 PM »
In that case, eat your egg yolks and your meat.  Live.  Laugh.  Love.

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« Reply #28418 on: October 22, 2015, 04:10:26 PM »
Egg yolk has fat, protein and lots of nutritional stuff. Egg white has only protein (and less per gram then yolk, although still a lot). Basically yolk is the good stuff, unless you're on some crazy no fat diet it would never make sense to omit it.
Gulp

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« Reply #28419 on: October 22, 2015, 04:33:23 PM »
I try to answer people's questions in the GAF techsupport and build a PC threads, but all I can do is mop up easy shit because I'm not nearly as knowledgeable as some of the other guys.

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« Reply #28420 on: October 22, 2015, 05:15:38 PM »
You know what's been making me really sad lately.

Internet commenters that asked a question that never got a response back. It doesn't really matter what the topic is. If I google something and I come upon some type of computer help thread with a bunch of posts and I see the last post of the thread was someone asking for help and date is like 4/3/2013 and never got a response back I'm like :fbm Or a cooking/recipe website where someone asks for help with a certain step of the recipe never got any responses :brazilcry
This shit depresses me. Especially I'm looking for help on an issue and find some poor soul who asked the same question 3 years ago to no avail. No response, just digital death.
:tocry
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« Reply #28421 on: October 22, 2015, 06:04:41 PM »
In that case, eat your egg yolks and your meat.  Live.  Laugh.  Love.

The man who assisted me at the tobacconist was so rotund that he had to waddle and said it was too early in the morning while fumbling with the cash register even though it was ~14:00. I used to be that cool. :brazilcry

He also talked me into buying some locally rolled product that will probably be bad. :shaq2

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« Reply #28422 on: October 23, 2015, 02:24:01 PM »


Jessica Jones does IR, Phoenix Dark to become the Slayven of this show.
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« Reply #28423 on: October 23, 2015, 02:27:38 PM »
Wow that looks great

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« Reply #28424 on: October 23, 2015, 02:44:17 PM »
Between this and the Adele video I'm feeling pretty good about myself today.
:lawd

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« Reply #28427 on: October 24, 2015, 02:41:51 AM »
Agree unironically.

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« Reply #28428 on: October 25, 2015, 03:05:12 PM »
If it's a wire issue you can try to permanently solve it by replacing the entire thing with a heavier gauge wire, but that would make the stiffer and you have to solder, open up a possibly tiny earphone not made to be opened, etc. There are probably expensive earbuds you can buy that are sturdier out of the box, but I don't know that market at all. Head-fi.org will have plenty of recommendations though, I'm sure.

To expand a bit: You can extend their life by being really anal about storage, but they all eventually break just from use. Anal meaning: loosely loop the wire around your palm, no tight loops or bending, ever. Don't wrap them around your phone. Never tug on the wire, ever, only pull directly on the earbud or the connector, never the wire. Don't carry them in the front pockets of your pants or anywhere else where they are likely to get scrunched up. A hard case like for glasses would be best, but a small ziploc bag will do so long as you don't bend them.
Basically, treat them as delicately as possible. When they break it's usually the wire itself or the connections on either end. The last earbuds I owned (Sennheiser CX300) lasted almost two years until I moved on to clip-ons (Koss KSC75). I don't wear them for extended periods (and they start to hurt anyway), but they've yet to break after four or five years. Not sure when I bought them.
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« Reply #28429 on: October 26, 2015, 01:53:54 AM »
How do you guys feel about hanging with your pal and thier GFS? Being a third wheel basicly.

I don't find it particularly enjoyable most of the time, because it usually seems like the dynamic changes and the other dude feels the need to show off or the girl needs the attention or control. I have one friend who's gf fits in pretty damn well and she's cool so it's no problem.

Anyway, I think I've talked about this before but a friend of mine who is basically my brother is back on leave from the Air Force. He decided to bring his GF. Now this sounds fine until it becomes clear this girl is a psychopath.

Now I've never met her before, so really I get this from him. Talk of her being controlling to the point yelling at him for basicly playing video games online with another girl. He makes her sound terrible and pretty much emtionally fragile to a ridiclous extreme. He's not allowed to interact with another fmelae, have female friends, he has to have set time with her, when they interact he has to drop everything and pay attention to her, he has to finiancly support her, and so on. If she dosen't she'll kill herself.

I was told about this in the first few months when you know it's all supposed to be sugar and raindbows and it's been consitent stressfull and terrible stories for the past year.

Either way she sounds terrible and I already have a negative impression.

And on a shallow level she dosen't sound like my kind of person when it comes to intrest or personality, which is fine because well none of my friends are like me. Still, at first I'm pretty uncomfortable with people I don't know and don't know if they will respond well to me. Add in that I already have ane xtrmley negative impresson of her and it's not good.

Then again, my friend's mom thinks she's bad news. She brought up to me at the most random time, when I went to pick up a thing for my friend from his house.

But I get it. He's a dude who needs to be in a relationship. No mater the quality or anything. He needs the concept of being loved and wanted regardless if it's actually bad. He's vindicated by being in a relationship and thats his life goal. I know that he has a dedication to that and really in the end we'll probably stop being friends because he won't have time for anyone else but his family.

It sucks but thats life I guess. It would just be nice if it wasn't also with an extremely needey and controlling person.

Either way, all I wanted to was to hang out with my friend/brother who I haven't seen in person in over a year. but with this person not only do I doubt I will, but it for sure won't be the same. it can't be and at this point I kind of just want to cut my ties. Does that make me sound like  a bad person?

Of course it sucks because I took off a couple of days from work next week for this.

Because he already spent two weeks before with her. I would have thought that was enough.

Yet, before I would have begurdingly met this person until she sent me 50 million facebook messages blaming me for thier "break up".

A lot of shit here.
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Why are you trying to hurt me and get Dale to leave me? He told me about it. I did nothing wrong to you. I did nothing but like you as someone Dale knows. I am going through a lot and my dad is dying. I am a good person and a good girlfriend to Dale, and I love him very much. I have done nothing but care about him and be there for him, even at times when he has been mean to me. Why would you get involved in our relationship and tell him to be horrible to me? That is not right. Why are you doing this?

He told me you like me. Why would you do that to me?

You acted like you liked me. I have been nothing but nice to you.

You don't even know me


I just don't understand why you would do that?
September 26th, 1:50pm
Because I only have his perspective on things and regardless if your telling the truth or not, he makes you sound like a terrible person who is overly dependent and unrealstic with your demands
You're right, I don't know you.
I only know what Dale tells me
and what he tells me is'nt very good
and so as his friend and a sane person my advice would be "leave this person"
Is he telling me the truth?
I don't know
but I also don't care, because of course I'm going to belive what he says
so you should'nt be coming at me like this
you should be talking to dale
but if your demands to Dale or things like "don't talk to other people" or anything that basicly slides into the territory of " I'm controlling, don't have a life"
then yeah, I'm going to suggest he leave you
because pretty much everything he says about you is'nt good
and thats the truth
I mean why else do you think I'd say "yeah Dale, this GF sounds bad"
if he was saying extremley postive things or nothing at all, I'd have nothing to say
Why would I get inovled? Thats kind of a dumb question. Dale is my best friend and he talks to me about these things.. Is he not supposed to? That sounds like something you;d demand honestly
I never acted like anything by the way
September 26th, 3:01pm

I am not a terrible person and I do tell the truth. I am really good to him. I don't see how he would say anything bad about me. You don't have the whole story and all the facts and no you shouldn't get involved in someone else's relationship, especially when you don't know the other person or the whole story. I am not a bad GF. Try to get to know someone before you pass judgment on them.

And no it's not a dumb question. If you have an issue about something you talk to the person you're in a relationship with about it, not someone else.

And no it's not something I would demand. I am not overly dependent or unrealistic. You obviously have the wrong idea and if he said something to you like that then he needs to address it with me first.

I have a lot going on. My dad is dying. Any issues are bc of the distance and I am always there for him. I am not controlling. He is happy with me, especially when we are in person.

I never told him don't have a life or anything. And I never came at you. I wanted to know why you would even say that abour me and try to hurt me when I'm a good person and I am good to Dale.

About* me

What does he say about me? Why doesn't he say things to me about any of this or talk to me about it then?

I didn't say don't talk to other people. There are certain things that are wrong to do and not ok and he told me he would never do, but I didn't say don't talk to anyone at all and I didn't say anything about you so that doesn't concern you.

There are things that happened that are not ok to do and make it especially not ok to do and it involves other girls and he told me he would never do that. That doesn't concern you.

You don't even know me to pass judgment on me or to say something sounds like what I would demand bc you don't know me. I am someone who really cares about and loves Dale bc I care I was asking you why you would say such things about me when you don't even know me.

And you don't tell them to leave me bc of anything going on bc of the distance. You tell them to talk to me about it and work it out and make it better. I obviously care about Dale a lot. I was also looking forward to meeting you and being friends with you too.

Especially when it's something that can be easily worked out with a good conversation with me.
look I don't care. I don't know you. Honestly I don't want to know you. I really don't want you to come back home with him when he comes home. All I know is what he tells me and what he tells me is bad. He makes you sound like a person he needs to get away from. Maybe you should talk to him about that not me

Why would you even say that? You don't even know me. I am not someone he needs to get away from. That's really messed up. I was hoping to know you and be friends with you.
Well maybe you should talk to dale as to why he makes you sound awful
And not me since I'm only going off what he says
September 26th, 7:25pm
If this is about you guys breaking up, you should talk to him. That's not on me
September 26th, 11:08pm

We're not breaking up. That is on you though. Then tell him to talk to me

About everything
Excuse me your relationship is not my job. If someone tells me they are in a controlling and terrible relationship to the point that they never say anything positive my advice won't be to hang in there
You aren't broken up? That's what he told me. If you aren't and your trying to salvage it that's your business
I didn't tell him to do anything I just gave advice. Anything he did is his own choice
So yeah I'm done here. Again this is not my fault at all, maybe think of your own faults and stop looking for a way out
September 27th, 2:02am

I didn't do anything wrong. I'm not looking for a way out. You think of your own faults. Because all I've done is been nice to you and I don't deserve you to be mean to me. It is on you though. Apparently you have decided things for him and influenced me without even knowing me and how much it hurts me. I did nothing wrong to you or him. I am a good person with a good heart and he knows that.

Apparently you have decided things for him and influenced him about*** me without even knowing me and how much it hurts me.

I really don't deserve you to be mean to me. I even would tell him to call you at times. I even tried to be a friend to you and tell you I would like to be. I did nothing wrong.

I'm sorry if you feel that way, but know that I was always nice to you and I just tried to be your friend also.

You don't know me at all so please do not judge me. I never judged you.

I have been honest, loyal, and faithful to Dale and I have been a good person to him, and I have done a lot for him. It really hurts that you would tell him to leave me. I did nothing wrong to you or him. I never wronged him. I was always there for him and I have cared for him and supported him any way I could.

That is wrong of you to say those things. You do not know me, and I honestly only tried to be nice to you and be friends with you also, because Dale has been ok with that, and if you actually got to know me, you would know that.

You seem to have taken everything away from me and taken away the person I love the most, and that is Dale. And I didn't do anything wrong. He has been my everything. And I'm sorry to say that, but I am so upset.

It is not right. And I am sorry to say that, but again, I am so upset.
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Yeah after I got that randomly one day, I was like "eh I'd rather not meet her ever".

I mean all I did was say "hey this girl sounds kind of bad, maybe you should just end the relationship", which I don't think is insane when your friend is talking to you about their bad relationship.

Then again, I'm not an expert on such things.

I don't know, I'm pretty sure if I decide never too meet up with my friend it will be very damaging, but end the end what is the point? it's pointless to meet up if that girl is around.

brawndolicious

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« Reply #28430 on: October 26, 2015, 02:31:54 AM »
That exchange is hilarious. Honestly, usually when someone is very controlling/paranoid about their partner it's because they're trying to cheat on them. She probably just thinks your friend is good enough/the best bf she's gotten so far but that she wants someone who is better or at least around more. It doesn't sound to me like she's just ranting but that she's trying to justify her predictions for how other people were supposed to act and feel. You should stay away from her by saying it would cause drama in their relationship and you don't want to do that but still keep in touch with your friend and be ready to help him when they break up.

How are you doing as far as therapy/self-image and so on?

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28431 on: October 26, 2015, 03:48:53 AM »
Honestly, she's your friend's problem. Your friend might be great for you, and with you, but anyone who stays in that kind of relationship has their own set of emotional baggage. Also note that he's told you all kinds of crap about her, and how bad the relationship is, but when it gets down to why they should break up, he puts it on you. Dude needs to be braver about his own life decisions.

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28432 on: October 26, 2015, 09:21:10 AM »
Oh I know the entire thing stems from emotional baggage. Which is why I feel it's kind of a bad relationship. The dude is probably as emotionally messed up as myself and to have someone who is even more self dependent and seven years older put even more pressure, stress, and responsibility on them sounds like a bad mix. The guy is only in the Air Force because he messed up.

Either way I think they got engaged in the two week interval where he went to visit her and didn't contact me. How you go from "Im breaking up with this girl because I know she's bad" to engaged I don't know. I'm not sure if I shouldn't be offended that he didn't at least ask my opinion. He claims she is better in person and not as controlling. Yet I don't know about that.

So yeah I guess it doesn't much matter. Friends get married, have families, and have commitments to them. Nothing wrong with that I guess, I kind of just wish it didn't have to be at the expense of pretty close friendships.

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28433 on: October 26, 2015, 10:08:13 AM »
Sadly, your friend has made his choice. Probably best to let him know you'll be there for him if he ever regains his senses.

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28434 on: October 26, 2015, 11:29:08 AM »
So my daughter dropped a chicken egg and the chicken started eating it. Shit was metal as fuck.
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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28435 on: October 26, 2015, 11:41:26 AM »
Did you bite the head of the chicken then?

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28436 on: October 26, 2015, 12:02:10 PM »
So my daughter dropped a chicken egg and the chicken started eating it. Shit was metal as fuck.
The fowl equivalent of sucking on a tampon.

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nudemacusers

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28437 on: October 26, 2015, 12:32:44 PM »
Did you bite the head of the chicken then?
she's not ozzy tier yet
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« Reply #28438 on: October 26, 2015, 12:55:59 PM »
And she will never be with an attitude like that.

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #28439 on: October 26, 2015, 01:32:44 PM »
daughters are a mistake, nothing but trash
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