I also just read that thread and want to HarrisonFordWhoGivesAShit.gif it so hard.
Both her family and my family wants this kid baptized at an really age and being and active participant in my GF’s church. This gives her a bit of an unfair advantage BUT that is not the reason I want to keep the conversation between me and her.
I dunno why
his family is on her side outside of "what is the big fuckin' deal?" but that seems kinda scuzzy to me.
As for the whole issue: I'd say let her take her to the baptism. Kid won't even remember it if she's still a baby so the wife "wins" in a sense of having the child baptized,
but I'd put my foot down on her taking the child to church. As it is, the wife's offer of holidays and the baptism is the most reasonable thing and he's being a dick in trying to make it about the child (admirable but really... kid won't even remember this)'s right.
However:
The situation takes a drastic turn, she threatens our relationship. Not out front right away but this little comments like “I think this can make or break us” “I view you differently” “I will hate you if we don’t baptize her.”
Bitch be cray with just that line.
Frankly, they're both fucking stupid. Him for not letting her do it, her for not seeing his point of view that it should be the daughters decision and she should be baptized only for
her soul to be at ease. But really the most important lesson in that thread is:
don't stick your dick in crazy and then have a kid with crazy. Or better phrased: Don't have a kid if you both aren't on the same ground/mind-views of important things such as religion.