^ I'm not really sure how I deal with overthink... since I tend to think too hard and get all nervous and flustered when I'm out on a date or meeting with a girl.
mojo, have you ever done any paysites? I'm wondering whether or not the girls on a paysite would be more serious... my experience with Match seemed like there were less flakers and more girls willing to go out on multiple dates. While I've only gotten a few second dates from OKC, I actually entered into a few relationships with Match back in the day. I'm wondering if I should go on a paysite (not sure if I can handle eHarmony, I don't like their whole 'system' setup). My friend argues that only desperate girls will be on the paysites, but I'd like to think that the girls on paysites are more serious about getting into a relationship.
Anyways, I was at Otakon last weekend and it was a good time, but most of the girls there looked way too young. Like, HS young... and who I talked to that were older were all from out of town (of course).