I made some overly salted blackened chicken alfredo one of her favorites. The meat was too salty, probably due to the solution they use to plump the chicken's up with and the seasoning mix I used.
This is the first time such a thing has happened. I've had to buy 2 new monitors and I have to back up my 360 saves regularly cause she'll delete them from my HDD. Anger issues run deep! I know better than to hit her, but she doesn't know better than to hit me. Just cause I'm huge doesn't mean I can take beatings like that on a daily basis. We've had the cops come out a few times but I've never called them.
On one such occasion they saw she was bruised but that was to keep her from throwing our coffee table at me. So they threatened us both with going to jail. I was just trying to restrain her, and in most occasions I have to leave my own home for a while. God forbid I take the car during this time though, she's tracked me down and continued fighting in public too!
I've been trying to get her to see a doctor for a long time so she can get on some anti-depressants and get the help she needs. I've recorded many of these instances to show her after the fact what she is like when she is mad. She just says that's normal, now I know how it is to be angry. I used to hurt my mom and act out a lot cause of how I was feeling. But I got the help I needed and it took me years to fix myself up to where I wasn't so damn angry.
I just wondered if it was normal for such things to happen and be so nonchalantly shrugged off.
I know a lot of how she's feeling is cause she is frustrated about her life situation, but you can't take that out on others around you. You have to want to fix the issues. I have no problems helping her out, but I can't if she doesn't want me to. It seems like I'm the easy target cause I'm always around her. Even when I take myself out of the equation the minute I'm back into it she'll start up.
Just last week she took a piece of broken pyrex bakeware that I broke due to thermal shock to my knee. And once it broke in her hand she took my meat tenderizer to my knee. She was fine 5 minutes later like it didn't even happen.