Pallando will return in "Never Say Never Again"

[Himu]

this is discovery green. it's @ night





it's one of the best places in the city.

[chronovore]

It was a joke post. The woman was my wife, and everything's cool. I should have put that in spoilers.

Even so:  :'(

[Kara]

I'm actually going through Meditations right now but it kinda makes me feel like some neckbeard mra =/

When I read Epictetus' Discourses for the first time I kept thinking to myself, "I've heard of slave morality but this is ridiculous. "

[nudemacusers]

making sweet love in the shower

having your three year old son pop the lock, tear the curtain open and say HELLOOOOOO

[nudemacusers]

he didn't see anything, early-adult counseling averted

[Phoenix Dark]

thank god for premature ejaculation or else he would have seen something huh

[nudemacusers]

nah it was the second go around

[Kara]

Illegal use of , #9 on the offense. -15 likes, repeat first post.

[TakingBackSunday]

Second date with second girl today was enlightening.  Found out she's kinda religious, and she found out I was kinda not.  We both talked about liking each other but realizing things wouldn't work.  No big deal!  Ended civilly, and in fact she wants to play trivia with a big group soon.  Don't think we'll stop hanging out, she really is a cool gal.  No sex occurred, so a friendship is viable.

Back to the first one!  We're having a date on Tuesday or Wednesday, I'm cooking for her.  We're watching Evil Dead together.  Should be fun!

[Shadow Mod]

Hey wrath, for once, stop acting like you know what you're talking about.  Do you know what my situation is?  No.  Am I looking for sage advice about dating from you?  No. So while I appreciate you being a bro for me, stop acting high and mighty with this shit.

I find myself in a pickle because she never dumped me. She just said she wanted to take things slow a few weeks ago. We had a really really great time tonight. The pickle I'm in is trying to express to one of these girls that I'm interested in the other. It's my fault for being in this situation, and I realize that the first girl is wanting to be more casual with things.  I have to identify which person I envision myself having more fun with, and letting her know I'm interested in someone else.

Old but I tend to see "taking it slow" as "I don't really think I'm all that into you but I have no other prospects atm." I dunno. I just think about when I was really interested in my beaus, taking it slow was never on the table. Not like "marriage" or any of that stuff was on the table but I wasn't like "hol' up I dunno about this here." I was like "can't wait to do stuff and hang outs weeee!"

 

[TakingBackSunday]

Well, that very well might be the case.  But we enjoy hanging out together, and we see each other often now.  I don't know, I'm having fun, and I'm happy.  It's all I care about at the moment.

[Kara]

That gal I went on some dates with and I decided to part ways.

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[toku]

=/

[Mr. Gundam]

Oh god. Facebook. Again. Why did I have to see that.

Smh.

[Phoenix Dark]

Oh god. Facebook. Again. Why did I have to see that.

Smh.

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[Mr. Gundam]

Oh god. Facebook. Again. Why did I have to see that.

Smh.

?

I think someone got back together with someone.

[Phoenix Dark]

Oh. I'm not checking Facebook. I have a feeling I know who it is but I don't want to know.

[Himu]

The next time bebpo makes a post about his ex-now-fiancee-I-don't-know-anymore every one just ignore it.

[toku]

y'all just jealous her pussy game too strong

[TakingBackSunday]

Her pussy's haunted

[demi]

I don't know, I'm having fun, and I'm happy.  It's all I care about at the moment.

[Human Snorenado]

At this point, this is really the only appropriate reaction.

[Cerveza mas fina]

I'm not claiming any of us got some winning recipe for success in relationships, but god-damn Beps

[Kara]

Meh, I had a Vietnam War War in Afghanistan relationship myself once.

[Kara]

The only people who give me advice are people I pay to give me advice. Everyone else knew I was a lost cause in early adolescence and stopped proffering it.

[toku]

This whole forum is kind of a depressing place. I don't think anyone who is actually happy or healthy actually posts here. At least I refuse to believe it.

[Cerveza mas fina]

Hmm I'm pretty damn healthy and happy now, just got married, little baby on the way, got a new job 

Think the people that are happy just post less cause there is less to talk about.

[Mupepe]

I just celebrated 5 years married, went on vacation and bought a new motorcycle because my wife kept telling me to go ahead and do it while we were at the dealership.  I'm pretty sure I'm happy.  Healthy?  Dunno.  Don't care.

[nudemacusers]

This whole forum is kind of a depressing place. I don't think anyone who is actually happy or healthy actually posts here. At least I refuse to believe it.

I have two children and am quite happy 

[Atramental]

Eh, things could be worse. 

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But they also could be a lot better. 

[close]

[Kara]

This whole forum is kind of a depressing place. I don't think anyone who is actually happy or healthy actually posts here. At least I refuse to believe it.

You got smoked pretty good on this one.

[toku]

I eat my Ls.

[Kara]

But are they......... Cheery L's.

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Sorry y'all.

[close]

[fistfulofmetal]

getting all this prep work in this weekend to have this girl over this week


get sick on monday

[toku]

But are they......... Cheery L's.

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Sorry y'all.

[close]

[Mr. Gundam]

Married eight years, got a 2 1/2 year old daughter, very very happy.

And I genuinely want what's best for Bebs. I saw that on Facebook and my heart just sank. I was in a toxic relationship when I was younger (high school/college). We'd break up and get back together so many times when we both knew that it was a terrible idea. Things never got better, we weren't good for each other, and it took forever for us realize it.

Maybe I'm wrong and just being a jerk, but there are so many red flags that give me flashbacks to my own relationship that it scares me.

[Howard Alan Treesong]

Meh, I had a Vietnam War War in Afghanistan relationship myself once.

You went back 3 times over several years because hey, why not?

[Phoenix Dark]

Married eight years, got a 2 1/2 year old daughter, very very happy.

And I genuinely want what's best for Bebs. I saw that on Facebook and my heart just sank. I was in a toxic relationship when I was younger (high school/college). We'd break up and get back together so many times when we both knew that it was a terrible idea. Things never got better, we weren't good for each other, and it took forever for us realize it.

Maybe I'm wrong and just being a jerk, but there are so many red flags that give me flashbacks to my own relationship that it scares me.

Cho Chang?

[Brehvolution]

[Mr. Gundam]

Only if Cho was bipolar, cut herself regularly and sucked the enjoyment out of things that I really liked doing.

It was a bad, co-dependent relationship that lasted for 6 years. Fortunately we both moved on and are in happy relationships with others. She's actually an "auntie" to my daughter now.

[Brehvolution]

I'm pretty happy. Been married 14 years, have 3 kids, house, 2 cars, a dog, and good health. Since no one cares if you are unhappy, why bother? 

[Phoenix Dark]

I was about to say I thought Brehvolution was a new black poster in his 20s all this time, then I clicked his username and realized it's Zero Hero.
 

[Van Cruncheon]

At this point, this is really the only appropriate reaction.

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it's so demonic, friends.

[Van Cruncheon]

and for the record, i'm in decent shape, well into the 17th year of marriage with a kid, and i gots a strong career, a house, and SO MANY MOTORCYCLES WOWOWOWOW. all my L's are 100% self-inflicted.

[chronovore]

Yeah, I'm married 17 years, two kids who are amazing and wonderful and have even inspired other kid-questioning couples to reconsider and procreate. Wife and I are still finding new things to talk about after all these years. We're each other's biggest source of support. Good stuff.

[Steve Contra]

Yeah, 8 years of marriage here, just bought a house, own my own business.  For an internet forum this place is pretty well adjusted.

[Shadow Mod]

Going on three years this December with the beau, my how time flies. Finished up my degree finally this past summer. Working a couple different jobs at once, volunteering, having a love/hate relationship with Destiny.

On the subject of screwy relationships if I ever have kids I want to encourage them to socialize and get that teenage angst dating out of the way before they hit adulthood where it just becomes sad.

[Reb]

The fuck is going on in this thread? This is sickening.

Limp wristed circle-jerk.

[Human Snorenado]

Well, I'm crazy and unhappy, but that's par for the course.

I've had some relatively successful dates recently, if you define success as ending in meaningless sex. I think my problem on that front is two fold: 1) looking in the wrong places and 2) seriously trying to pursue a relationship before I'm happy with myself.

But, you know, whatever man. That's just like my opinion and shit.

[Kara]

Thanks for making me hand out WTG likes like this is a fucking self-improvement thread, toku.

[king of the internet]

Ewwwww positivity 

[Kara]

You went back 3 times over several years because hey, why not?

I was too callow to sustain multi-year relationships then, I think this one was maybe 18 months? But yes, hey why not? was definitely a key player.

Also poor impulse control.

So much drama crammed into so little time brehs.

[Phoenix Dark]

mods, delete this page.

too much positivity.

who's gonna write the Bore Couples erotic novel though. We just need one black couple to qualify for placement in the African American literature section of Barnes And Noble.

sup Himu

[lennedsay]

Just here to deliver more L's.

8 years together, 6 married. Still head over heels in love. Amazing baby girl.

The only bad thing about our relationship is that it's so great and easy that we routinely find ourselves in these conversations with friends who are upset they can't find the same strong relationship. We always feel bad.

[Howard Alan Treesong]

5 years together, EXACTLY  2 years married (today is our anniversary!), have a 3mo old daughter, two hilarious cats, and a house so nice I can hardly understand it. my life will be awesome if I can just learn to stay off Twitter.  (the ultimate self inflicted L)

[Human Snorenado]

5 years together, EXACTLY  2 years married (today is our anniversary!), have a 3mo old daughter, two hilarious cats, and a house so nice I can hardly understand it. my life will be awesome if I can just learn to stop caring about video games and the video games industry.  (the ultimate self inflicted L)

ftfy

[Himu]

mods, delete this page.

too much positivity.

who's gonna write the Bore Couples erotic novel though. We just need one black couple to qualify for placement in the African American literature section of Barnes And Noble.

sup Himu

I'm blushing.

[MrAngryFace]

Probably happy. I think my particular collection of neuroses will keep me from really feeling/saying it with confidence. Sometimes though- with enough beer im almost there.

[Kara]

OK that one isn't getting a like.

[toku]

How did I start a happy spiral? I'm sick.