Hmm, all this talk about virgins and shit remind me that my coworker, who is 25 and a short, 300+ pound dude with aspbergers and all that goes along with it (really intelligent, monotone voice, tendency to get into long winded discussions about obscure technical details, immaturity and goofiness at inappropriate times) is getting married this weekend. To his second wife.
He puts himself out there, and doesn't give a shit. And if someone like him can do it, you can too. Really the hardest thing for me to deal with was confidence and learning to be comfortable in my own skin (and it's something that takes a while to get over), so I can relate to those who have trouble with dating.