So I forgot which of y'all were using and talking about SA last year, but how does this work? If someone messages you and wants to set up a date somewhere but in their profile they say given the nature of the site it should be mutually beneficial, like what are they expecting? Buying things for them on a date? Taking them to a nice restaurant and taking care of the bill? The latter seems pretty normal to me in dating, but the former isn't really something I've ever done and I don't want to be taken advantage of. Not sure how to approach this. I'm getting a looot of messages and there's been a couple nice messages from women with cool profiles.
I haven't replied to anyone yet, and had a couple people rage quit, but I wanna figure things out so I don't waste anyone's time before replying.