I don't usually say when something bad happens but almost everyone has something going on tonight so I can finally get it out of the way that in March, I finally broke up with my GF of 2 years (the toxic relationship) and am still hitting waves of relief, sadness, and confusion from the guilt that comes from breaking up with someone who felt they were too old to try again. She was 34. She did not act it. I don't think she really truly wanted a relationship other than to prove she could have one.
Glen, it's a lot easier to raise a child together when you don't divorce the person. By that, I mean view your love for your child and your love for the mother as different things rather than marriage being something you automatically do.
Rahx, I don't know your first name but the best thing you can do is to write off the money/phone and at least now you have a story to tell. I think I have a GSM Nexus 5 somewhere that still holds a charge if you need a phone.