RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011

[I'm a Puppy!]

Rahx, you just need to move somewhere else and get away from your current group. When you're no one, you can be whomever you want to be.

[nachobro]

atra blaze it with that girl Iz and then stick it in her

I'll message her tonight after I get done with work. 

Well...?

[Nabbis]

Rahx, do you think what you are experiencing in terms of confidence is normal? Therapy is such a overused term but at least look up some coaching or uplifting material. If not women then at least get some friends(that are not incels) to hang out with. This honestly looks like a trainwreck but nothing unfixable if you are up for it.

[Atramental]

atra blaze it with that girl Iz and then stick it in her

I'll message her tonight after I get done with work. 

Well...?

Crickets.

A girl as beautiful as her is probably getting bombarded by dozens of messages every minute if she's liberally swiping right on profiles.

Plus, (she's bi) so she's getting guys and gals pining for her attention.

[Rahxephon91]

I’ve been condescended to since I started on the bore.

Now I get to be condescended to by Atra who parades around as some success story. I guess I should workshoped every aspect of my dating with the bore like he did.

Rahx, you just need to move somewhere else and get away from your current group. When you're no one, you can be whomever you want to be.

But I like Chicago. I have a good friend/support group. But yes I had thought about moving to Minneapolis after I was done with school here.

It's only on this forum that people think I'm a loser creep. I'm not a creep and at this point I would like to see how great most of you do since you think I'm pathetic and creepy. I read you people's post here and most of you come off as depressed psychotics whose live revolves around lambasting another forum. Ridiculing its own people who are far too up thier own ass, but the irony is most of you are up your own ass to realize who annoying cynical you are.

[Assimilate]

Rahx have you tried working out? Seriously, the desire to lift, the sound of barbells clashing and sweat running down your face is therapeutic as fuck. Not only that but it will boost your confidence every time you start increasing the weight and seeing results.

[Nabbis]

I mean, since you have good friends why not ask them to babysit you instead of some basement dwellers on a forum.

[Flannel Boy]

This is creepy I know and eventually I just had to skip around the texts, because we texted a lot and this is after being on tinder.

I guess it's in order.

I don't really care if people here think I'm lame at this point.

https://imgur.com/a/W2Eh03o

https://imgur.com/a/0ILYtMo

https://imgur.com/a/klNhCq0

But I did actually like talking to this chick.

I guess maybe I was too eager or maybe her life is actually messed up or maybe she just did'nt like me after we meet up. But I do believe our date went really well.

That's a lot of text. Did not read.

I believe this is how Tinder interactions are supposed to go.

[MMaRsu]

Well today I responded probably way to fucking late to her message, I told her I had a friend of mine over and asker her what she's doing

No response 

mmarsu is sad again

[Rahxephon91]

Rahx have you tried working out? Seriously, the desire to lift, the sound of barbells clashing and sweat running down your face is therapeutic as fuck. Not only that but it will boost your confidence every time you start increasing the weight and seeing results.

Yes I have. No one here will give me credit and you said I was being delusional(so i guess you were right), but I had been following the bore's advice for the last year and been a better person. I don't know why I fell off.

[MMaRsu]

welp I suggested we go swimming but that I don't think she has the guts to go

[Atramental]

That's a lot of text. Did not read.

I believe this is how Tinder interactions are supposed to go.
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There’s some truth to this.

Eventually you need to escalate from normal everyday talk to sexy/flirty topics just to make it clear to the girl you’re not trying to be her platonic pal.

[Atramental]

welp I suggested we go swimming but that I don't think she has the guts to go

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She’s probably self conscious about her makeup washing off and being in a bathing suit in front of you.

Also, imo, swimming is too intimate too soon. You gotta gradually work up to that point.

[Nabbis]

Rahx have you tried working out? Seriously, the desire to lift, the sound of barbells clashing and sweat running down your face is therapeutic as fuck. Not only that but it will boost your confidence every time you start increasing the weight and seeing results.

Yes I have. No one here will give me credit and you said I was being delusional(so i guess you were right), but I had been following the bore's advice for the last year and been a better person. I don't know why I fell off.

You say that you have a good crew, why are you following Bores advice then? It's generally good, aside from buying roses to someone you never met in 2018, but it's stuff that your friends could tell you as well with additional specific advice and actual help(like having a wingman etc).

[MMaRsu]

welp I suggested we go swimming but that I don't think she has the guts to go

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She’s probably self conscious about her makeup washing off and being in a bathing suit in front of you.

Also, imo, swimming is too intimate too soon. You gotta gradually work up to that point.

Yea yea I know, i don't think she's gonna go for it but that's cool.

I might have fucked up by not responding sooner tho, she came online and didn't even open my msg'es  she could also be busy

[Rahxephon91]

Rahx have you tried working out? Seriously, the desire to lift, the sound of barbells clashing and sweat running down your face is therapeutic as fuck. Not only that but it will boost your confidence every time you start increasing the weight and seeing results.

Yes I have. No one here will give me credit and you said I was being delusional(so i guess you were right), but I had been following the bore's advice for the last year and been a better person. I don't know why I fell off.

You say that you have a good crew, why are you following Bores advice then? It's generally good, aside from buying roses to someone you never met in 2018, but it's stuff that your friends could tell you as well with additional specific advice and actual help(like having a wingman etc).

I do. Now I'm probably not as obnoxious when I talk among people I know, but I do talk to my friends in real life about this. It's pretty much the same advice without of course them telling me I'm creepy and pathetic.

I guess I just got pissed at Atra of all people telling me about my matches and what my problems are.

[studyguy]

lmao so my girlfriend's sister who is getting us to pay our own hotel to stay at this fancy wedding is insisting we take her mother and sister too along with us for the drive. We're staying a couple days over an entire weekend for a wedding so we'll have some luggage, 4 people fitting in either of our tiny sedan won't make it there unless we pack it hard for 5hrs with that giant ass luggage they're expected to carry on the road. Was going to borrow my parent's SUV to head out there but my parents got into an accident.

They're all good thank fuck, but like that car is totaled.

First call my girlfriend gets is a 'hope your boyfriend's parents are okay, also you can probably still make it in a sedan, can't you rent a car'
Like bitch, this is your mom and sister that need a ride, not mine. I already fronted a bill for a hotel room, not fronting one for a fucking rental foh.

[tiesto]

Rahx behind his computer like

"I wish someone would pee on me..." 

no that’s disgusting.

Anyway, I think I’m just going to go back to my old hermit like lifestyle. I was much happier and less concerned with this stuff when I wasn’t very social. And I guess that fit me more than this. Like toxic Adam said I have to find other things to focus on and I don’t want to actually become some incel pos. It’s a shame chemicalncastruation isn’t offered to normal people and since I’m not a pedo that’s not an option, but I did spend last night reading about it. I would probably be able to focus on other things if I didn’t have a libdo. At least I’ll be saving money and whatnot. I deleted bumble after getting just the worse match ever. I might as well wait until tinder gold runs out before deleting that.

I wanna hear about this "worst match ever"...

But don't fret, I didn't have very much luck with Bumble. Only one frumpy girl who was nice enough but got pretty weird as we were ending the date and parting ways (asked me if I was following her as I walked from the restaurant to my car which was parked in the nearby lot).

Match required more effort than blindly swiping, but if you are willing to actually read profiles and tailor your messages to them in legible English, that'll give you a big leg up.

[I'm a Puppy!]

No one would give you credit.



I called you a sexy beast (which you were) when you posted pics.

[Assimilate]

I wanna hear about this "worst match ever"...

But don't fret, I didn't have very much luck with Bumble. Only one frumpy girl who was nice enough but got pretty weird as we were ending the date and parting ways (asked me if I was following her as I walked from the restaurant to my car which was parked in the nearby lot).

Maybe she thought you were going to rape her?

I once met a girl from Tinder and asked her to watch a UFC fight with me at a bar. Soon as we got there and i found out she didn't drink i was bored and turned off. To her credit she stayed with me until the very final fight, the main event, which ended at like 1:45am. Total sport she was, especially considering i got shit faced and the only thing i ordered to eat were fries lol. She fucking ate fries after sitting there for hours lol. At the end she even thought she was going to get a kiss but had to settle for a kiss on the cheek.  Now imagine her telling that Tinder meetup story 

[MMaRsu]

damngit still unread :<

[BlueTsunami]

nicca you need a hobby. Stop tryna watch water boil.

[skullstorm]

I think one thing that really doesn't help Rahx is that he uses the same username everywhere. Not trying to dox here but out of interest I googled his username, found his real name right away and googling that lead me back to his username very easily. And people (or women at least) always google their dates or possible dates so if they have his name it'll be real easy to find all of his online profiles and possibly this thread too. The stuff they could find here isn't exactly something that will make a girl want to date him.

I know a lot of people aren't even aware how much they share online and how easy it is to find even their online profiles that don't mention their real names, if someone is just willing to dig around for a bit. But there was zero digging involved with finding Rahx's profiles so even a lazy dummy can find everything.

Sorry Rahx if that's creepy but maybe you should think about changing your username here and any other places you might be talking about women at   

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Or I dunno, maybe it's best that it's all there for women to find 

[close]

[Assimilate]

I think one thing that really doesn't help Rahx is that he uses the same username everywhere. Not trying to dox here but out of interest I googled his username, found his real name right away and googling that lead me back to his username very easily. And people (or women at least) always google their dates or possible dates so if they have his name it'll be real easy to find all of his online profiles and possibly this thread too. The stuff they could find here isn't exactly something that will make a girl want to date him.

I know a lot of people aren't even aware how much they share online and how easy it is to find even their online profiles that don't mention their real names, if someone is just willing to dig around for a bit. But there was zero digging involved with finding Rahx's profiles so even a lazy dummy can find everything.

Sorry Rahx if that's creepy but maybe you should think about changing your username here and any other places you might be talking about women at   

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Or I dunno, maybe it's best that it's all there for women to find 

[close]

Come on you're giving women too much credit. 99% of them wouldn't think to do that.   

[skullstorm]

Well they need to find out if a) he's a rapist or b) has nudes online so yes they would

[I'm a Puppy!]

I think one thing that really doesn't help Rahx is that he uses the same username everywhere. Not trying to dox here but out of interest I googled his username, found his real name right away and googling that lead me back to his username very easily. And people (or women at least) always google their dates or possible dates so if they have his name it'll be real easy to find all of his online profiles and possibly this thread too. The stuff they could find here isn't exactly something that will make a girl want to date him.

I know a lot of people aren't even aware how much they share online and how easy it is to find even their online profiles that don't mention their real names, if someone is just willing to dig around for a bit. But there was zero digging involved with finding Rahx's profiles so even a lazy dummy can find everything.

Sorry Rahx if that's creepy but maybe you should think about changing your username here and any other places you might be talking about women at   

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Or I dunno, maybe it's best that it's all there for women to find 

[close]

Come on you're giving women too much credit. 99% of them wouldn't think to do that.   

Cause they don't know how to use modern technology! AMIRITE?!!   

[Assimilate]

I think one thing that really doesn't help Rahx is that he uses the same username everywhere. Not trying to dox here but out of interest I googled his username, found his real name right away and googling that lead me back to his username very easily. And people (or women at least) always google their dates or possible dates so if they have his name it'll be real easy to find all of his online profiles and possibly this thread too. The stuff they could find here isn't exactly something that will make a girl want to date him.

I know a lot of people aren't even aware how much they share online and how easy it is to find even their online profiles that don't mention their real names, if someone is just willing to dig around for a bit. But there was zero digging involved with finding Rahx's profiles so even a lazy dummy can find everything.

Sorry Rahx if that's creepy but maybe you should think about changing your username here and any other places you might be talking about women at   

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Or I dunno, maybe it's best that it's all there for women to find 

[close]

Come on you're giving women too much credit. 99% of them wouldn't think to do that.   

Cause they don't know how to use modern technology! AMIRITE?!!   

Most of them? No they don't lol.

[I'm a Puppy!]

That moment when you're trolling someone and they're just like "Yup. You're right"

[Assimilate]

That moment when you're trolling someone and they're just like "Yup. You're right"

The moment you trigger the white knighties

 

[team filler]

Yeah google that username and on the first page is a post on Restera banbot basically saying he's an incel and him looking for prostitutes on reddit lol

 

[Assimilate]

Rahx gets creepier and creepier the more you search. Maybe you're asexual dude?  I think it's best you accept that and move on with your life.

Also, this edges me closer to the conclusion that males past a certain age that continue to watch anime, enjoy superhero movies, and pop culture in general tend to have halted psychological growth.

They are essentially in a way a "manchild". I just don't know if said things above causes this or if this is just a byproduct of being that way.

[Rahxephon91]

Assimilate.

You just agreed that women can’t use the computer and agree with incel like chad statements.

You’re the last person who should comment on manchilds and psychological growth.

You’re entire persona here is so pathetic that it would have to be a troll job to be serious, but since it’s not it becomes even worse.

[MMaRsu]

/read but no response 

[Assimilate]

Assimilate.

You just agreed that women can’t use the computer and agree with incel like chad statements.

You’re the last person who should comment on manchilds and psychological growth.

Pick 10 random girls out of a shopping mall. I bet you no more than 2 or 3 know how to decently use a computer.

 

[BisMarckie]

Time to escalate the situation dude, you know where she works. Go there every day and leave some letters written with blood.

[Assimilate]

You’re entire persona here is so pathetic that it would have to be a troll job to be serious, but since it’s not it becomes even worse.

My persona here is actually pretty amazing. Not sure what you're talking about.

[Rahxephon91]

You’re persona here is obnoxious internet tough guy.

Which is pretty sad to do an a small neogaf spin off thread.

You’re a low rent version of AiA but without anything that comes off as not try hard.

[MMaRsu]

/read but no response 

Haha lol maybe I shouldnt have asker her to go swimming 

[Rahxephon91]

Assimilate.

You just agreed that women can’t use the computer and agree with incel like chad statements.

You’re the last person who should comment on manchilds and psychological growth.

Pick 10 random girls out of a shopping mall. I bet you no more than 2 or 3 know how to decently use a computer.

 

Why would a grown man be at a shopping mall annoying teenagers?

But since you have such a small scale of vision I know you chose it because you think that’s the only place women could possibly be.

[Assimilate]

Assimilate.

You just agreed that women can’t use the computer and agree with incel like chad statements.

You’re the last person who should comment on manchilds and psychological growth.

Pick 10 random girls out of a shopping mall. I bet you no more than 2 or 3 know how to decently use a computer.

 

Why would a grown man be at a shopping mall annoying teenagers?

But since you have such a small scale of vision I know you chose it because you think that’s the only place women could possibly be.

I saw a post of you at a mall holding up anime toys or some shit so i figured you'd be familiar with that type of environment.

You’re persona here is obnoxious internet tough guy.

  bet you won't say that to my face

[Rahxephon91]

I saw a post of you at a mall holding up anime toys or some shit so i figured you'd be familiar with that type of environment.

No you did'nt.

bet you won't say that to my face

And yes I would. This kind of posturing of the internet is pretty lame, but I don't know what you look like anyway. Because unlike most people here you don't post anything about you. Making your whole act pretty suspect and probably made up.

[team filler]

 

[I'm a Puppy!]

Assi vs. Rahx MMA fight!

My money's on Rahx easily.

[Assimilate]

And yes I would. This kind of posturing of the internet is pretty lame, but I don't know what you look like anyway. Because unlike most people here you don't post anything about you. Making your whole act pretty suspect and probably made up.

What's my act? I say it how i see it. You were applauding me for it a few days ago now it's an 'act'?

You weirdo.

[BisMarckie]

Assi "The Barber" Beefcake vs. Rahx Horowitz

That's a PPV that would have made Ted Turner win

[Assimilate]

Assi "The Barber"

 

hey. shut up. the beard is back to normal.

fuck that barber.

[BlueTsunami]

The student has become the teacher

[I'm a Puppy!]

who's the internet tough guy now?

[Rahxephon91]

And yes I would. This kind of posturing of the internet is pretty lame, but I don't know what you look like anyway. Because unlike most people here you don't post anything about you. Making your whole act pretty suspect and probably made up.

What's my act? I say it how i see it. You were applauding me for it a few days ago now it's an 'act'?

You weirdo.

You're "act" is that internet forum poster who acts like they are some real world badass, who just knows everything about life. Who comes into threads to talk down to "internet dwellers" who just don't know.

You're post here are just to stroke your fragile ego.

And when people point out your bullshit.

You pull out some idiotic joke to deflect it.

But then why is someone who is so cool and so world weary able to spend so much time in a relationship thread on thebore.com?

I may be a crazy person, but at least I'm honest about what I am and I'm not going to allow you to keep calling me a creep, manchild, or an asexual person.

[Assimilate]

You're "act" is that internet forum poster who acts like they are some real world badass, who just knows everything about life. Who comes into threads to talk down to "internet dwellers" who just don't know.

First off life experiences emcompasses both the good and the bad. And i've had and stilll do have my fair share of failures, and mishaps, problems etc. I've ranted plenty of my relationship problems around this thread.

You're post here are just to stroke your fragile ego.

No, my posts here in the last few pages was an attempt to try and understand wtf kind of person has the issues you have and trying to find a way to help. But i'm thinking Atra was right about this. This is for attention.

And when people point out your bullshit.

.

What bullshit?

But then why is someone who is so cool and so world weary able to spend so much time in a relationship thread on thebore.com?

i ask myself this same question 

I may be a crazy person, but at least I'm honest about what I am and I'm not going to allow you to keep calling me a creep, manchild, or an asexual person.

So you're crazy then? Maybe seek professional help before you hurt someone like one of these unsuspecting Tinder matches.

[Rahxephon91]

Well whatever. I need to take Molly again.

[Atramental]

No, my posts here in the last few pages was an attempt to try and understand wtf kind of person has the issues you have and trying to find a way to help. But i'm thinking Atra was right about this. This is for attention.

Again, I’m not entirely sure what sort of pathology Rahx has but it’s there.

Borderline personality disorder would be my guess but I’m not a psychologist.

Behavioral: antisocial behavior, compulsive behavior, hostility, impulsivity, irritability, risk taking behaviors, self-destructive behavior, self-harm, social isolation, or lack of restraint
Mood: anger, anxiety, general discontent, guilt, loneliness, mood swings, or sadness
Psychological: depression, distorted self-image, grandiosity, or narcissism
Also common: thoughts of suicide

[benjipwns]

I've always read Rahx as more venting honestly about frustrations with a process that does take time and is easy to overthink, whereas Assi is serious about whatever has got his goat for the moment until he moves onto the next thing he's ready to "losing in Tekken" his basement over.

[benjipwns]

But the main takeaway I got from reading the recent pages is that I should be posting watersport porn videos under my real name if I want to get into internet dating finally.

Unless I'm misread something, apologies.

[Raist]

The Mmarsu cycle.


*send*

Welp, maybe I shouldn't have.

It's been 10mins. No reply. I dun goofed.

Fuck, she was online and didn't read my msg. RIP in pieces me.

Well she's read it but hasn't replied. I had a good run.

Oh shit, she replied. I'm in brehs.

*send*

Welp, maybe...

[MMaRsu]

Yup thats pretty much how it goes 

Now im debating wether to tell her my swimming inv was just playing and then quote her msg about going to the museum and asking if she's free on sunday. Ive gotten no response yet to my daring her to go swimming

But I dont know what to do . I really like this girl. I know thats stupid but its true.

[Atramental]

How long has it been since your last message?

[MMaRsu]

How long has it been since your last message?

my last msg was light night at 9.30 and she read it after 1am sometime. Im sure shes at work.now tho

[Atramental]

I say wait a bit longer until she’s done with work and has had some time to get home & collect herself.

If she doesn’t respond back to you today send her something tomorrow saying you were joking/not entirely serious about the swim date.

Also, your big mistake was shifting plans around from the museum to a swim. It makes you seem impulsive/indecisive. Especially since she already seemed eager to go to the museum with you.

[MMaRsu]

Yea I know it was a dumb fucking question

But I might still be able to tell her, that we should go to the museum first..

What I said was " Talking about swimming  We could also take a dip in the pool here..  Something tells me you wouldnt dare to though  "

So maybe I could say something like, well after our succesful museum date anyway.. Can I assume you're free on sunday?

Also, I AM inpulsive and indecisive :p