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[I'm a Puppy!]

"I'm really nice, I promise" and "Do you like being choked during sex?" This thread would have gotten me so laid while I was single.

[I'm a Puppy!]

As an aside, pick up lines have the same relationship to creepy vs wanted in direct relation to the looks/desirability of who is saying it.

My bro is one those guys who can get away with anything. I literally saw him walk up to a woman he'd never met before and said, "Wow! Are those real?!" And not only got away with it, he got her number.  Any one else would've gotten a slap at best. But, eh, it don't matter if you got the looks to pull it off. So in retrospect, Kramit's failure wasn't one of ineptitude, it was just not being good looking enough to pull it off.
 

[Valkyrie]

My best friend loves scummy dudes, and complained to me how tame her newest boyfriend is just because he doesn’t treat her like shit. She says it makes the sex too vanilla.

[Oblivion]

This 5'10" nicca acting like he's a manlet. I'd say women only wanting 6' dudes is a lonely dude hyperbole. But they're certainly more reluctant to date below their height.

Well, i didn't think that was the main cause, and I'm pretty comfortable where I am, and don't think it's had much of an impact overall for me. I just did it as a curiosity thing more than anything.

So as an experiment to see if women do value height as much as the liberal media would have you believe, I changed my height on Hinge to 6'3" (my actual height is 5'10". After "liking" about 100 or so females, it seems that this particular modification didn't seem to effect my rate of response whatsoever. I mean, I might have gotten like one or two more than I did previously, but that doesn't mean anything.

On the plus side, I guess now I know the X-factor in my situation isn't height.

So you dating pool isn't likely to be that much larger:
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That's a pretty big jump, yo! You go from 77% to near 100%!

So as an experiment to see if women do value height as much as the liberal media would have you believe, I changed my height on Hinge to 6'3" (my actual height is 5'10". After "liking" about 100 or so females, it seems that this particular modification didn't seem to effect my rate of response whatsoever. I mean, I might have gotten like one or two more than I did previously, but that doesn't mean anything.

On the plus side, I guess now I know the X-factor in my situation isn't height.

Change it to 5' 5" and then report back.

So I go from a 99% no response rate to 100%? 

[Nabbis]

As an aside, pick up lines have the same relationship to creepy vs wanted in direct relation to the looks/desirability of who is saying it.

My bro is one those guys who can get away with anything. I literally saw him walk up to a woman he'd never met before and said, "Wow! Are those real?!" And not only got away with it, he got her number.  Any one else would've gotten a slap at best. But, eh, it don't matter if you got the looks to pull it off. So in retrospect, Kramit's failure wasn't one of ineptitude, it was just not being good looking enough to pull it off.
 

Yeah, women go bananas over extremely hot guys even more than dudes go for women. The bar is just much more higher for guys, most decent(basic) women are deemed disproportionately attractive for some reason.

[Rufus]

Yeah, women go bananas over extremely hot guys even more than dudes go for women. The bar is just much more higher for guys, most decent(basic) women are deemed disproportionately attractive for some reason.

For women, sex can result in a 9 month pregnancy and a potentially fatal birth. Men could, theoretically, impregnate several women a day, then duck the responsibility. Let's ignore STDs for the minute.

Given the conditions we were handed, one sex being more choosey than the other only makes sense.

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

One of my good friends from college did modeling work and it was interesting to see how women interacted with him on a daily basis.

Very nice guy, married his beautiful college girlfriend, makes fat bank, and has three kids.  Pretty much a perfect person.

[Mupepe]

My best friend loves scummy dudes, and complained to me how tame her newest boyfriend is just because he doesn’t treat her like shit. She says it makes the sex too vanilla.

Your best friend sounds awesome

[Assimilate]

I don't know which is dumber - females that fall for stupid shit or dudes that don't do what is necessary for females to fall for stupid shit.

Had a talk with two guys at the gym today. Guy pulls out his phone and shows us his crazy tinder matches. Like tons. This guy is not even a decent looking guy, he's slightly below average at best. Yet, all these great matches. What gives?

He perfected taking pictures. And his selection of pics is top notch stuff.

1. pic with dog on the beach
2. pic with grandparents
3. dressed up pic with his bros from work (suit and tie)
4. Athletic pic with shirt off not looking at the camera (he may have been playing volleyball or something)

I mean the dude nailed it. But I cannot imagine girls not arriving at their date and saying "oh god ehhhh"

Girls fall for the dumbest fucking crap. They don't know what a guy will look like in person. They go more for the "look" and manipulation then what the guy may actually be like.

[BlueTsunami]

My best friend loves scummy dudes, and complained to me how tame her newest boyfriend is just because he doesn’t treat her like shit. She says it makes the sex too vanilla.

Oh nooo, shes just gonna get hurt again and again. Mannnn. I'm sorry for my gender. Can I get her digits?

[Assimilate]

Interesting that 5'9" is the tipping point. I thought 5'8" would be fine, but you're still under 50% there.

I'm 5'10" barefoot, but can claim 5'11" in shoes, so I'm looking at 90%? Seems about right.

A fit build can probably make up for a couple inches at the margins too.

Yeah I can claim solid 6ft with sneakers.

Sometimes being too fit, or in my case a bit too bulky looking, tends to make you look shorter than what you are.

[Rahxephon91]

Well good to know my hopeless situation is backed up by science.

Pretty funny how most of you talk about how height isn’t important, but when the stats are postered are quick to post your relief of being in the upper echelon.

[BlueTsunami]

Well good to know my hopeless situation is backed up by science.

Pretty funny how most of you talk about how height isn’t important, but when the stats are postered are quick to post your relief of being in the upper echelon.

I'm 5'4 and was banging a 5'7 woman with big ol giantess titties for a while

[Assimilate]

I'm 5'4

you lie

[BlueTsunami]

Nope, but being Puerto Rican I get an innate +4" to percieved height charm advantage

[brawndolicious]

It seems the only ones who have happy relationships in this thread are those who know how to fuck and how to make a buck.

I'm not saying that's all you need but Tinder, height, and everything else can be thrown away until you focus on those things.

[I'm a Puppy!]

If you can't get the pussy without the money then you shouldn't have it

[Rahxephon91]

Well good to know my hopeless situation is backed up by science.

Pretty funny how most of you talk about how height isn’t important, but when the stats are postered are quick to post your relief of being in the upper echelon.

I'm 5'4 and was banging a 5'7 woman with big ol giantess titties for a while

Yeah But did you meet this girl online?

[Rahxephon91]

Maybe, but I’m not the one posting graphs and subscribing to the height stufff.

I don’t think it’s true.

But I do think online dating is shit for people who don’t fit into a particular look. People are picky and think in a narrow specific way.

You’ll probably do a lot better outside of online dating.

[Kara]

Gonna send you a sweet wedding gift someday, Rah.

[Assimilate]

Maybe, but I’m not the one posting graphs and subscribing to the height stufff.

I don’t think it’s true.

But I do think online dating is shit for people who don’t fit into a particular look. People are picky and think in a narrow specific way.

You’ll probably do a lot better outside of online dating.

You're not wrong.

However, if you adjust a few things here and there it doesn't mean you can't meet someone cool.

[BlueTsunami]

Well good to know my hopeless situation is backed up by science.

Pretty funny how most of you talk about how height isn’t important, but when the stats are postered are quick to post your relief of being in the upper echelon.

I'm 5'4 and was banging a 5'7 woman with big ol giantess titties for a while

Yeah But did you meet this girl online?

Of course not but offline we're not made up purely of our physical stats splashed across a screen like a scarlet letter. That's why a bunch of us in here tell you to disconnect and get out in the world. Not necessarily to meet someone either but just exist in a place where it can happen.

[Rahxephon91]

Ok?

[BlueTsunami]

I'm starting to think Rahx is just lazy. If he really wanted it he'd be out there finding a way instead of lamenting the injustices of e-dating. Blame yourself or God.

The hilarious thing is I'm obviously way shorter than you and I still fuck. Throw down the crutches and walk already.

[Rahxephon91]

What the fuck are you people talking about? I’m the one saying the height stuff is whatever and online dating is shitty.

[Rahxephon91]

Rahx.. why the fuck are you arguing with someone who manages to get action despite not being all the things you think is necessary to get action.

Your negativity is getting ridiculous at this point.

Yes you have problems. But problems are for solving, yo.

Bless the fuck up.

Eh....I don't really know what you're talking about here. I'm not the one really arguing, nor did I say "you have to be this to get action". Again, I didn't post the graph stuff and make posts about "how thank god I'm this height and have this percentage of the dating pool open to me". So I really don't know why this is aimed at me. I did'nt post anything negative beyond pointing out how members here like to say "oh height dosen't matter while quickly pointing out how tall they are when stats like that get posted.

[brawndolicious]

If you can't get the pussy without the money then you shouldn't have it

I'm not talking about using money to attract someone. I'm saying that it seems those who have a relationship where they feel sexually open but also have a career or duty that they dedicated a lot of time and effort to seems to be the combination that lets a couple find balance.

[Rahxephon91]

I'm starting to think Rahx is just lazy. If he really wanted it he'd be out there finding a way instead of lamenting the injustices of e-dating. Blame yourself or God.

Lazy? Maybe. But if I was I don't think I would keep trying these things out. I don't know what I'm being lazy about though. I could probably find a way to take better pictures for my online profiles. I mean yes thats something I need to do and would maybe help. But at the end of the day I really don't like online dating. I feel it's pretty hard to vibe with and get to know someone. It's not a good way to get a feel and make a connection. At least not for someone with my personality. I like to slowly get comfortable with a person. Online dating throws them right at you and I feel you burn out of excitement with people much easier.

In real life there's currently no one who interests me, but I'm not really looking either so I guess I'm lazy. But upon reflection I know I've had some opportunties that I screwed up, but that dosen't mean eventually more wont show up. But I guess my problem is I'm just waiting, but I also don't know how you don't wait.

But it's hard to find a way out when you keep getting contradictory info, which was pretty much my point in this thread. Plenty of people are "oh height dosen't matter", but then quickly negate that by basically saying height is'nt an issue for them anyway because they are tall. It's why I find dating advice here beyond I guess "be a decent person" to be kind of useless. But even that advice can become messy.

I mean you have people like Assi giving advice here and most of it's pretty shitty, coated in some shitty women hating bro shit, but not 100% wrong.

But I don't think my lamenting of e-dating is wrong. Most of the posts here about height confirm that. Online dating is harder if you don't hit certain points. People are very checklist and specific about what they want. I don't think people are as discriminating about height as that okcupid graph would lead you to believe.

The hilarious thing is I'm obviously way shorter than you and I still fuck. Throw down the crutches and walk already.

Joking or not, you yourself said your ethnicity helped with your appeal giving you some advantage, just like those who are tall. So even you agree that physical aspects help with your appeal.

[Kara]

It confirms that people who use online dating are shallow, which is a "no shit" kind of thing, yeah.

[Rahxephon91]

Yeah it’s a no shit thing. But man online dating has been pretty shitty for me.

[Assimilate]

Lazy? Maybe. But if I was I don't think I would keep trying these things out. I don't know what I'm being lazy about though. I could probably find a way to take better pictures for my online profiles. I mean yes thats something I need to do and would maybe help. But at the end of the day I really don't like online dating. I feel it's pretty hard to vibe with and get to know someone. It's not a good way to get a feel and make a connection\

Everyone has given you different advice. You haven't chosen to take any of them.

Play with the cards you have been dealt with. It's that simple. Make it work. You have no other choice. Online dating is stacked against men, all men, not just you. So either you play the game correctly or lose. I'm not sure what you want.

Pictures matter a great deal on that shit. Thinking back to the pics I had on there when I was on it a few years ago...  like UGH wtf was I thinking!? . Take the right kind of pictures and it will go a long way. You'll already be above most dudes because guys hate taking pictures, and they are BAD AT IT.

Use online apps as a side thing. Entertain yourself. Don't take it too seriously. if you happen to get a random match you feel like going on a date with, awesome, if not, don't take it as a personal slap in the face from these women.

[Rahxephon91]

I’ve taken and used plenty of advice from here. Some of it was good. Some of it was bad. Most of the bad comes from Assimilate which can be summed up as “hur hur women are stupid”

[Assimilate]

I’ve taken and used plenty of advice from here. Some of it was good. Some of it was bad. Most of the bad comes from Assimilate which can be summed up as “hur hur women are stupid”

Sigh, go fuck yourself then you goofy twerp.

Enjoy being an incel. I'm done.

[Rahxephon91]

[Assimilate]

 

guys help me women don't like me I can't get the women I want wahhh wahhhh wahhh wahh

[I'm a Puppy!]

If you can't get the pussy without the money then you shouldn't have it

I'm not talking about using money to attract someone. I'm saying that it seems those who have a relationship where they feel sexually open but also have a career or duty that they dedicated a lot of time and effort to seems to be the combination that lets a couple find balance.

So what you're saying is that people that are mentally healthy tend to have healthy relationships?

[Rahxephon91]

guys help me women don't like me I can't get the women I want wahhh wahhhh wahhh wahh

I don’t recall asking for your help.

[Assimilate]

guys help me women don't like me I can't get the women I want wahhh wahhhh wahhh wahh

I don’t recall asking for your help.

You cry In here all the time you fucking incel. My mistake was not listening to Atra and entertaining your tears.

You don't get women you want because you're a little bitchboy. Once a girl sees you she thinks "I can kick this dudes ass" her pussy probably dries up instantly.

Sorry, scratch that, most girls probably get turned off simply by all your crying via text. They're probably sitting there thinking  "this guy needs a mommy, not a girlfriend"

[Atramental]

When I was high as a kite last night I got smacked with the realization that I am the main obstacle to my own happiness and success.   

edit: I mean, that's kinda obvious but it became crystal clear to me last night.

Mainly, it's my fear of being judged/fear of failure/perfectionism that keeps me anchored to the "safe path".

Posting this here because it seems relevant.

[I'm a Puppy!]

When I was high as a kite last night I got smacked with the realization that I am the main obstacle to my own happiness and success.   

edit: I mean, that's kinda obvious but it became crystal clear to me last night.

Mainly, it's my fear of being judged/fear of failure/perfectionism that keeps me anchored to the "safe path".

Posting this here because it seems relevant.

And you think you're special or somehow broken because of this? EVERYONE is the biggest obstacle to their own success.

[Assimilate]

When I was high as a kite last night I got smacked with the realization that I am the main obstacle to my own happiness and success.   

edit: I mean, that's kinda obvious but it became crystal clear to me last night.

Mainly, it's my fear of being judged/fear of failure/perfectionism that keeps me anchored to the "safe path".

Posting this here because it seems relevant.

And you think you're special or somehow broken because of this? EVERYONE is the biggest obstacle to their own success.

This is true but you know it's something that most of us don't realize until you start talking about it with others. I wish I knew this was normal 10 years ago.

[Atramental]

Weed makes me feel like a big child. So yes, I am "special" (when I'm high).    And broken when I'm not.

[Rahxephon91]

guys help me women don't like me I can't get the women I want wahhh wahhhh wahhh wahh

I don’t recall asking for your help.

You cry In here all the time you fucking incel. My mistake was not listening to Atra and entertaining your tears.

You don't get women you want because you're a little bitchboy. Once a girl sees you she thinks "I can kick this dudes ass" her pussy probably dries up instantly.

Sorry, scratch that, most girls probably get turned off simply by all your crying via text. They're probably sitting there thinking  "this guy needs a mommy, not a girlfriend"

Its too bad filler isn’t here to like your douchebag posts. I know you’ll need the validation that your a big manly bro man soon

[Assimilate]

Its too bad filler isn’t here to like your douchebag posts. I know you’ll need the validation that your a big manly bro man soon

  Uh huh. Apparently you've been whining and crying about not being liked for years.

No need to step on you further.

[Flannel Boy]

A fit build can probably make up for a couple inches at the margins too.

You're not alone:

A fit build can probably make up for a couple inches at the margins too.

Depends where the inches are coming from.

[Rahxephon91]

Yeah I use to shit up this forum and be the most disliked poster here.

Then you showed up.

[Atramental]

Have you smoked pot before Rahx?

[Assimilate]

Yeah I use to shit up this forum and be the most disliked poster here.

Then you showed up.

oh noooooossssssss people on the bore dislike me oh noooooo

now women won't like me 

edit: I have a present for the bore coming up shortly. I'll know next week.

[Assimilate]

When you tell people your height, it's.. your height.. not your height in shoes.

stfu riotous! we'll do what we want!

 


plus, bitches wear high heels to perk up their legs and ass, and wear makeup.

[Rahxephon91]

Whatever Assi. You’re trash and pathetic piece of shit human. You post here to flex some lame bravado that probably isn’t taken care of in real life because people there know you’re trash for fact. You post here in condescending ways to jack off your fragile and childish ego and you do it on a gaf spin off form where no one cares and you still come off as sad. The fact that your even engaging in a dumb argument with me when you said you were done is proof of how little you are.

I’m done and now I’ll join most of the bore and add you to ignore.
 

[Assimilate]

Whatever Assi. You’re trash and pathetic piece of shit human. You post here to flex some lame bravado that probably isn’t taken care of in real life because people there know you’re trash for fact. You post here in condescending ways to jack off your fragile and childish ego and you do it on a gaf spin off form where no one cares and you still come off as sad. The fact that your even engaging in a dumb argument with me when you said you were done is proof of how little you are.

I’m done and now I’ll join most of the bore and add you to ignore.

Exactly.

[Kara]

Women say "I'm X foot Y in heels."

[Rahxephon91]

Whatever Assi. You’re trash and pathetic piece of shit human. You post here to flex some lame bravado that probably isn’t taken care of in real life because people there know you’re trash for fact. You post here in condescending ways to jack off your fragile and childish ego and you do it on a gaf spin off form where no one cares and you still come off as sad. The fact that your even engaging in a dumb argument with me when you said you were done is proof of how little you are.

I’m done and now I’ll join most of the bore and add you to ignore.

Exactly.

 

People cared enough here to single you out as pretty shitty...

Pretty sad how easily your zen and nice guy crap falls apart. Almost as if it’s as much hot air as you are.

[Assimilate]

Whatever Assi. You’re trash and pathetic piece of shit human. You post here to flex some lame bravado that probably isn’t taken care of in real life because people there know you’re trash for fact. You post here in condescending ways to jack off your fragile and childish ego and you do it on a gaf spin off form where no one cares and you still come off as sad. The fact that your even engaging in a dumb argument with me when you said you were done is proof of how little you are.

I’m done and now I’ll join most of the bore and add you to ignore.

Exactly.

 

People cared enough here to single you out as pretty shitty...

Pretty sad how easily your zen and nice guy crap falls apart. Almost as if it’s as much hot air as you are.

I was trying to help you. You just took a dump on my help and you want me to be nice?

Da faq.

[BlueTsunami]

Less fighting more fucking

[Rahxephon91]

I’m sorry man, a lot of your advice comes off as “women are stupid, irrational, crazy, whatever” . All your posts always have a tinge if “don’t treat women like people. Treat them like the other, or this odd thing you’ve got to trick and trap”.

Like what was your one post about clothing. You couldn’t just leave it at “dress nice so you look like you care about yourself. Which is of course a good showing of confidence/self worth, caring about your appreance. You had to frame it as “man women are stupid and will easily fall for a nicely dressed guy”.

It’s like huh? And it ignores that men are no different. No matter how hot the girl is if she dresses like a slob and seems to not give a shit about herself I’m going to be turned off.

Or I guess maybe that kind of feminine thought doesn’t match with your worldview and I’m just a snowflake, but that’s what your posts come off as and they are of no value to me.

[Kara]

A man of honor or a fucking samurai (as enforcers of feudal rule samurai are ex officio honorless) wouldn't stoop to something so base as "I'm this tall when I'm wearing shoes because that sounds better."

[CatsCatsCats]

I always put 6’1” even tho I’m 6’1.6” barefoot. It’s better to surpass expectations

[Atramental]

I'm 5'11.5" (not joking) but I round up to 6' and just wear shoes all the time. 

[Kara]

If you want to lie about your height then go ahead and lie about your height. I think GS wants to be better than that kind of person is all.

A split the baby option is always, "I'm X foot Y in shoes." Some women won't give a shit and leave it at that. Some will press him for his actual height because that's Very Important  to them for whatever reason. Could even see it being read as a cheeky yet ally riff on women saying "I'm X foot Y in heels."