Ever since I started posting on Resetera, the site just resonated strongly with me. And I don't mean in the same sense as the average person might enjoy conversing with the community, I mean it feels like the spirit of the site is an integral part of me. Not just that I feel like the site, but it feels like I AM the forum itself. Replying to a post sends a satisfying tingle through my spine, almost like...message sent and summarily received. Further reinforcing this abiding sense is that when I sleep, I continue seeing the thread titles scrolling past in my mind. In fact as silly as it might sound I once received an actual premonition this way, in my dreams I saw a thread that broke the news that Aziz Ansari was a sexual abuser, and remember thinking "no, not him!" but there it was, spelled out, now a part of my being. The next day I awoke to see that it was true. Sure the site has its bad elements, but likewise I must admit so do I; and just like the excellent moderation here, I do my best to "ban" those dark thoughts from myself, and "warn" myself when I begin to slip.
Being in the presence of this site makes me feel something I've never felt before. It feels like...home. Therefore I feel confident in declaring that I have in actuality found my gender, I now know what I identify is. I am resetgender.
In light of this revelation I would ask that everyone please do your best to treat me well, and with respect. Please try to refrain from problematic conversations as they can, and will, influence who I am accordingly. Please keep the funny pics thread full of images that elicit a smile (the gifs actually tickle) and do your best to promote the flourishing of this site here and abroad. I...no, we, appreciate your presence here.