dawg, if you're black and people call you racist shit all the time, that's being targeted for your race. if you're a chick and you talk on mic and guys go "shut up bitch get in the kitchen" all the time they're being targeted for being women. i actually don't get constantly called a distinguished black fellow or told to die of breast cancer constantly for some strange reason, and coincidentally i'm a white dude.
How the hell does anyone know you're a white dude when you're playing online?

i guess maybe your experience vastly differs from mine or maybe you're just being obtuse for some dumb reason
Clearly- I don't even use a mic most of the time and have gotten some pretty bad hate messages back calling me the n-word, telling me to die, go get raped, whatever. This is from playing fighting games, BTW. I don't think I've even ever gotten hate messages when playing other kinds of games. Doesn't even matter anymore since on the consoles I play on, there are no messages on Switch and you can just block all messages from non-friends on PSN.
I usually only save the dumber or more clever messages, like this one, so I don't have any examples to post.
