imagine you're just going along living your life and you're out eating lunch with your mother and you casually check your phone and it sends you reeling in shock, and you say "OH GOD I'm sorry mother, we're going to have to cut this meal short, Robert Downey Jr. has 'come out as trans' on twitter in a disingenuous way so I'm going to have to spend the next 24 hours monitoring a thread for no pay, oh this is so harrowing, I need to do some research" tap tap tap