Uh oh. Psycho alert -
" So first of all apologies for a somewhat long thread. I’ve no one else to speak to.
Just last month, my life was pretty great; awesome actually. I was in a job that I really loved. First job I’ve ever had where I enjoyed going in everyday. The pay was great and it was actually a career where I was doing extra training to boost my skills.
Then suddenly out of nowhere my boss turned on me. Till this day I have no idea what I did to her for this to happen as we had a fantastic working relationship before. I asked her if there was anything I did but she said it was nothing I had done but her attitude towards me was pretty much nasty. I went from looking forward to going to work to completely dreading it. because it’s a small lab any tension there becomes unbearable.
I spoke to the owner of the company and he said he’ll have a word with her but it was pretty obvious there was no way they were going to sack her, as she’s extremely valuable to the company compared to me.
Our working relationship deteriorated to the point that eventually I had to leave if I wanted to keep mental health.
The whole experience has made me incredibly angry, bitter and resentful that my future has been taken away from me not because of my incompetence(I was constantly praised as the best worker there) but my someone else’s whim which I had no control over. I keep thinking violent thoughts. (I have no intention of acting on it) but it’s consuming me. It’s an industry that’s hard to get into and now I’ve got to start all over again. Turns out this woman is like this and lots of people had left the company because of her but the owner will never get rid of her.
I just want to know how to get over it and get over her but I feel like this anger and resentment will be there for a while."
https://www.resetera.com/threads/how-do-you-deal-with-anger-and-resentment.175841/#post-30017675