Doxxing Files |OT| Do not use a pandemic to make a platform wars thread

[benjipwns]

Further proof to me that 98% of Hamilton fans are dopey lib-center morons who would happily eat minorities alive if it meant maintaining the status quo.

what

[Coitus]

Remember when Tyler thought he had enough industry clout to shit on Major Nelson in an obviously embellished self-aggrandizing story.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Today the red faced dregs are butthurt because industry insiders, developers and Major Nelson post on Ree -

https://www.neogaf.com/threads/microsoft-is-courting-the-opinion-of-resetera-to-ban-people-in-real-life.1555377/


I seem to remember a time when Gaf couldn't stop bragging about all the industry types who posted on there. Wonder what changed

not sure if serious, but #handshakegate is always worth a repost

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Great article. I feel like a lot of white men won’t call out black/lgbtq folk or women who say shit like that because, consciously or not, they don’t want to be accused of being racist/sexist/trans/homophobic.

Calling out minority posters on reseteradotcomellellsee gets you shut down with deflecting accusations of bigotry against their minority credentials?

[benjipwns]

I'm more triggered by people referring to Kareem as KAJ in that thread

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

I think what we need to realize is that the history of all fights against oppression are intertwined. While for example the desire for an anti-black society is primarily carried by black people, other minorities who can empathize with the struggle through their own pursuits for a society that would allow them to live in peace have always lent a hand or have made use of opportunities for mutual aid. Our fights are not perpendicular; they intersect constantly and always have. Even beyond the purview of just being a good human being, we owe it to our allies to rid ourselves of our own biases and bigotry.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

A lot of people don't give a fuck about antisemitism for a lot of reasons. Part of it's that it's viewed as an "old" problem, because it is, in the sense that it's as old as the hills. The holocaust helps and hurts that perception, since it gives a clear defining "and then it was over!" point, a little like the way the civil rights act does (or did) for white people. After we beat the nazis and discovered the horrors of the camps, everybody definitely stopped being antisemitic, right? Well, no, of course not. Antisemitism is as old as the hills. It'll be here long after everybody posting in this thread is dead.

It's also got a lot of really unfortunate intersectional fault points specific to it. Like, being woke means, to some extent, being anticapitalist, right? Even if you're not a full-bore socialist, nobody can deny the way the excesses of capitalism feed into other systems of prejudice. Buuuuut when you start chanting about the banks controlling everything you start picking up some pretty fucking unfortunate agreement. Because hey, you know who definitely agrees with that? Nazis, because they think the banks are all run by Jews. This is not to say you can't critique or even want to demolish capitalism - go nuts. It's just that it's really, really easy to pick up on a thread of real oppression and get diverted into millennia-old conspiracy theories instead. The people with all the money have all the power, you say, and the guy next to you goes yes, they do, like those Rothschilds, and then you're off to the races. That's what people mean when they say that anti-semitism is bi-partisan. The left has antisemites and the right has antisemites and even though they might very well hate everything else about their opposite they will agree on that. That's not me drawing an equivalency, mind - the right's the one that built Auschwitz. But it gets tiring, hearing excuses from supposed allies.

This is kinda all rooted in the the religious oppression, which is like, it's own kettle of fish. Antisemitism being both a racial and religious prejudice means it crops up across demographics that you wouldn't expect. And the way that Jews are variably white to most people (in NA, at least) and very much not white to the white supremacists puts us on the outs with everybody, it sometimes feels.

hey, era mods, maybe if you stopped boiling things down to idpol checkboxes and perpetuating obvious falshoods like 'you can't be racist against white people', maybe it wouldn't be so hard to reconcile the idea that wealthy cishet white men can also be subjected to bigotry

[benjipwns]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/era-my-husband-and-i-have-decided-to-become-poly.248230/

After 2 years of marriage, we decided to open up our relationship to looking for fwb/poly sex/relationship with a third party. We downloaded the latest apps and started meeting people. We hooked up and had a threesome last night and it was awesome. It’s absolutely thrilling to discover and explore sex and attraction and flirting with new people together. We’re working with a couples counselor to make sure trust, communication, and jealousy are all kept under control during this discovery process for us as a couple. Our ground rules are that we are only allowed to have an encounter or relationship with someone or a couple together. It’s kinda scary and new, but we’re excited. It was so exciting to explore a new body together, new personalities, and to flirt again, but this time together, with the sanctity and structure of our secure intimacy as our foundation. Our individual therapists equipped us with psychological literature and books on starting poly relationships and sex and we are looking forward to discovering this new phase of our marriage. They explained to us that polyamorous relationships and sex can be beneficial to certain couples if it is handled carefully because it can relieve the pressure that builds for a two-person relationship to exclusively meet each other’s needs, when in fact we were biologically evolved to be social, sexual creatures.

Anyone else here poly or have experience with this? What has been your experience?

[VomKriege]

DURING A PANDEMIC THO ? 

hot on the heels of the black, asian and trans threads, it might be time for the "we need to talk about how this forum discusses polyamorous people" thread. since gaf this shit has popped up in every non monogamy thread.

SUMMIT NOW !

[VomKriege]

One time I was close, plan was I'd require my friend to have her windows open 30mins before I got there... have her wear a mask during the whole time... maybe have her face toward the window lol... sounds fucked up right? But I ain't taking chances. So I just said forget it that's too much to ask/bring up.

So maybe in a few weeks, I'll get in touch with long time childhood crushes and maybe start/head towards a relationship.

Why doesn't the 3rd party get a therapist?

[Transhuman]

LGBTQP+

[benjipwns]

One therapist for OP, one therapist for the partner, one therapist for the couple

Why doesn't the 3rd party get a therapist?

And each of the therapists needs a therapist.

 

[VomKriege]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/lorne-lanning-oddworld-creater-twitter-feed.133153/post-39698401

Lorne Lanning thread closed.
If one was a bit cheeky, he would remark that it seemed ZeoVGM was a bit overwhelmed by the currposts of that guy going into excruciating & polite details to explain that "you can't be racist against whites" didn't make sense to him.

[VomKriege]

One therapist for OP, one therapist for the partner, one therapist for the couple

Why doesn't the 3rd party get a therapist?

And each of the therapists needs a therapist.

 

The three therapist thing is  but honestly that's far from the worst "I'm in a poly relationship !" discussion we saw on ERA.

Though as someone remarked, it sounds like "old fashioned" swingers stuff, really.

[Transhuman]

Marriage is weird man. Why not just legalise polygamy. If that kind of stuff can "tarnish the institution of marriage", then maybe marriage was a weak instutution to begin with.

And they should legalise sex cults too. I mean honestly, besides being cult leaders what did David Koresh or R Kelly do that was so horrible? As far as i'm concerned, the only thing they are guilty of is running a sex cult. And the only "crime" committed by Alison Mack was the crime of luring young girls into a sex cult. One you get rid of the sex cult stuff, suddenly they don't seem so guilty

[Cauliflower Of Love]

Marriage is weird man. Why not just legalise polygamy. If that kind of stuff can "tarnish the institution of marriage", then maybe marriage was a weak instutution to begin with.

And they should legalise sex cults too. I mean honestly, besides being cult leaders what did David Koresh or R Kelly do that was so horrible? As far as i'm concerned, the only thing they are guilty of is running a sex cult. And the only "crime" committed by Alison Mack was the crime of luring young girls into a sex cult. One you get rid of the sex cult stuff, suddenly they don't seem so guilty

sicko

[tuna_love]

they changed the title of the weeb game review thread to add the famitsu score 

[VomKriege]

And the world was better off.

 

[joeboy101]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/lorne-lanning-oddworld-creater-twitter-feed.133153/post-39698401

Lorne Lanning thread closed.
If one was a bit cheeky, he would remark that it seemed ZeoVGM was a bit overwhelmed by the currposts of that guy going into excruciating & polite details to explain that "you can't be racist against whites" didn't make sense to him.

White people don’t experience institutionalized racism in the Western world, but you can still, like, walk up to a guy and punch him just for being white if you’re so inclined and that’s an action motivated by racism.

You're describing a virtually non-existent scenario so is it really worth anyone bringing up as if a point is being made?

 

Yeaaaah, 'virtually non-existent'.

[VomKriege]

I'm going poly. Also here's a complete situation status regarding COVID in my county.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/era-my-husband-and-i-have-decided-to-become-poly.248230/post-39733300

[VomKriege]

Some people really at that guy having sex.

[Straight Edge]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/lorne-lanning-oddworld-creater-twitter-feed.133153/post-39698401

Lorne Lanning thread closed.
If one was a bit cheeky, he would remark that it seemed ZeoVGM was a bit overwhelmed by the currposts of that guy going into excruciating & polite details to explain that "you can't be racist against whites" didn't make sense to him.

White people don’t experience institutionalized racism in the Western world, but you can still, like, walk up to a guy and punch him just for being white if you’re so inclined and that’s an action motivated by racism.

You're describing a virtually non-existent scenario so is it really worth anyone bringing up as if a point is being made?

 

Yeaaaah, 'virtually non-existent'.

Obviously they are unfamiliar with years I spent walking home from work through East Cleveland as a teenager.

[Snoopycat_]

Look at this homophobe making sure everyone knows how straight he is

Look I’m a straight male and don’t have any problem with gays at all but this guy makes gay jokes towards me every fucking day and it’s getting tiresome.

Everyday he’s telling me how I would like to kiss men, that I have secret boyfriends and blah blah blah.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-coworker-and-his-everyday-gay-jokes.248341/

[Switters]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/lorne-lanning-oddworld-creater-twitter-feed.133153/post-39698401

Lorne Lanning thread closed.
If one was a bit cheeky, he would remark that it seemed ZeoVGM was a bit overwhelmed by the currposts of that guy going into excruciating & polite details to explain that "you can't be racist against whites" didn't make sense to him.

White people don’t experience institutionalized racism in the Western world, but you can still, like, walk up to a guy and punch him just for being white if you’re so inclined and that’s an action motivated by racism.

You're describing a virtually non-existent scenario so is it really worth anyone bringing up as if a point is being made?

 

Yeaaaah, 'virtually non-existent'.

I attended a backwoods Florida middle school for wayward cutthroats and horse thieves that had an established annual race war day. White people were punched.

I wasn't. I could dance, sing and perform Bel Biv Devo's Poison front to back on command. Now that I think about it I was more of a mascot. Also, the black kids were way cooler.

[HaughtyFrank]

Great article. I feel like a lot of white men won’t call out black/lgbtq folk or women who say shit like that because, consciously or not, they don’t want to be accused of being racist/sexist/trans/homophobic.

Calling out minority posters on reseteradotcomellellsee gets you shut down with deflecting accusations of bigotry against their minority credentials?

I was told minorities can't be racist so logically there's no antisemitism problem here

[Hermit]

lmao poly threads and posts have NEVER gone well on GAF or Era

[Straight Edge]

Because they end in disaster most of the time. Go to r/polyamory for tale after tale about how letting someone bang your spouse fucked up the marriage.

[BisMarckie]

[BisMarckie]

Who cares though
none of my business

[HaughtyFrank]

A couple getting it on together is something I can see working. It's those where both fuck around on their own that I have my doubts about.

[Hermit]

Several years back I called open relationships stupid on GAF and was promptly quoted over 50 times with a lot of people agreeing with me, plus quite a few very angry responses.

My opinion hasn't really changed much, but like BisMarckie said above, who really cares. Let people fuck.

[HaughtyFrank]

I’ve only seen Amber Heard in Pineapple Express and in that movie you can definitely see her temper come out in the character she plays and how aggressive she acts towards Seth Rogen.

 

[james]

The fact that hes sharing the news with video game virgins makes me think its not a good idea

[Joe Molotov]

And almost every 5th post is "but universal is doing it too!"

This thread is muuuuah.

This systemic racism has to stop!

[HaughtyFrank]

I’ve only seen Amber Heard in Pineapple Express and in that movie you can definitely see her temper come out in the character she plays and how aggressive she acts towards Seth Rogen.

 

What is acting

"As you can see your honor the accused is clearly deranged. In this footage she is using her hydrokinetic powers to crush five atlantian soldiers with a swipe of her hand. These are the actions of a psychopath!"

[Pissy F Benny]

she might be cray, but

[Transhuman]

Normally i'd agree but from the sound of it she is Basic Instinct level crazy

[Pissy F Benny]

i'd fuck her and chuck her

[Cauliflower Of Love]

The vast majority of monogamous relationships eventually fail for a myriad of reasons.   That's not even counting the ones that don't technically "fail" but involve people being unhappy most of their relationship until "death do us part" (or being "monogamous", but cheating throughout).

I really just don't get what high horse monogamous people sit on where they judge open relationships so harshly.   

I get that there is some logic to the criticism;  but that same criticism ignores the logic of open relationships.   People are different, there are pluses and minuses to any different "way" to act in a relationship and it's all subjective.

they wan to fuck other people but are chastised by a spouse that's probably has a side piece.

[Pissy F Benny]

its alright if you're a cuck riotous, we won't judge you

[Hermit]

riotus if u need a bull lmk

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

And the world was better off.

 

he was no angel

[Pissy F Benny]

My wife is the cuck.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Look at this homophobe making sure everyone knows how straight he is

Look I’m a straight male and don’t have any problem with gays at all but this guy makes gay jokes towards me every fucking day and it’s getting tiresome.

Everyday he’s telling me how I would like to kiss men, that I have secret boyfriends and blah blah blah.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-coworker-and-his-everyday-gay-jokes.248341/

He has nothing against the gays notgay, but for some reason hotwings sports he just gets really bothered big titties about his coworker sex with women making jokes straight about him being gay not gay I guess

[VomKriege]

The vast majority of monogamous relationships eventually fail for a myriad of reasons.   That's not even counting the ones that don't technically "fail" but involve people being unhappy most of their relationship until "death do us part" (or being "monogamous", but cheating throughout).

I really just don't get what high horse monogamous people sit on where they judge open relationships so harshly.   

I get that there is some logic to the criticism;  but that same criticism ignores the logic of open relationships.   People are different, there are pluses and minuses to any different "way" to act in a relationship and it's all subjective.

All relationships have a tendency to fail.
For lack of a better term, poly relationships have more moving parts, so more points of failure. I think it also sounds a lot sexier as a concept than the work and communication it requires, and it's not unheard of couples will try that to save themselves without putting much thought in it.

As long as everything is done transparently, with consent and no ambiguity between partners, good for them.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Aren’t a lot of these people pushing Jewish conspiracy theories black celebrities?

Nick Cannon, Desean Jackson, Kevin Durant, Ice Cube etc.

what am I missing?

black people can't be racist, silly

So you mean to tell me racism isn't exclusive to white people. Who would've thunk.

[porkbun]

The vast majority of monogamous relationships eventually fail for a myriad of reasons.   That's not even counting the ones that don't technically "fail" but involve people being unhappy most of their relationship until "death do us part" (or being "monogamous", but cheating throughout).

I really just don't get what high horse monogamous people sit on where they judge open relationships so harshly.   

I get that there is some logic to the criticism;  but that same criticism ignores the logic of open relationships.   People are different, there are pluses and minuses to any different "way" to act in a relationship and it's all subjective.

What's your thoughts on the thread referenced, where the OP is in a marriage for two years and they have a couples therapist and both partners have their own therapist?  It just seems like "going" poly at that point is kind of a band aid.

But whatever anyway.  On the REE/GAF scale of cringy relationship threads, two people in a marriage bringing in a third one for sex is really meh.  I bet most of the people casting judgement in the REE thread are incel/permavirgin nreds anyway.

[VomKriege]

Why is it that people "need" to relax? Are masks like...taxing? Face mask break? Is it really like smoking?

I mean, not that it's an excuse but they can be ? The rubber band can get uncomfortable. I never felt oppressed but you feel the difference. I could imagine some people needing a break from time to time. Also you need to remove them to drink and eat.

The audacity to call it a “relaxation station.” With a name like that it sounds like they’re taking advantage of the people who are anti mask. Letting them relax from the oppressive government forcing them to wear these damn masks.

 

The park shouldn't be open in the first place, I think, and break zones should comply so that social distancing can be respected but

[Joe Molotov]

The park shouldn't be open in the first place

BUT UNIVERSAL STUDIOS PARK IS OPEN, HOW DARE YOU!!

[Transhuman]

My wife is the cuck.

I've never been in an open relationship myself. 

But dated multiple girls legit be into the idea of me fucking someone else, including when they weren't around (three to be exact).  But a key part of that is it's a sexual thing;  the turn on partly being that they are sharing something, not giving something away fully.   So I don't think that even relates very well to "open relationships", more of just a kink thing.

Were any of them bi-girls who were turned on by the thought of you fucking a girl they think is cute?

[BisMarckie]

I only cheat on my wife by looking at scantily clad anime girls

[VomKriege]

That poly thread got locked. 

[Hermit]

Transhuman please don't masturbate to his posts

[BisMarckie]

Were any of them bi-girls who were turned on by the thought of you fucking a girl they think is cute?

Having trouble unpacking this question... yes they were all bi, and yes they were only interested in me fucking attractive girls lol

That’s what I get for only dating tradwife material women

[VomKriege]

My very first initial thought at seeing the title was pretty much "good, don't be stupid and break lockdown" but then I thought that some people might be in a situation where they have to so I'm mixed on this :/

Colombian cartels are killing civilians who don't obey Covid lockdowns.

[GreatSageEqualOfHeaven]

Ellx no eran angeles

[Joe Molotov]

My very first initial thought at seeing the title was pretty much "good, don't be stupid and break lockdown" but then I thought that some people might be in a situation where they have to so I'm mixed on this :/

Colombian cartels are killing civilians who don't obey Covid lockdowns.

Good thing I live in America, where we have Wal-Mart to enforce the mask requirements.

[HaughtyFrank]

My very first initial thought at seeing the title was pretty much "good, don't be stupid and break lockdown" but then I thought that some people might be in a situation where they have to so I'm mixed on this :/

Colombian cartels are killing civilians who don't obey Covid lockdowns.

Mafia/cartels/gangs will always take care of the neighborhood when the government fails to do so.

Edit : never mind they are out of line.

"On second thought, murder is bad"

[Joe Molotov]

Murder is just their way of policing their community.

[Transhuman]

Were any of them bi-girls who were turned on by the thought of you fucking a girl they think is cute?

Having trouble unpacking this question... yes they were all bi, and yes they were only interested in me fucking attractive girls lol

Yeah so it wasn't about sharing your dick, it was just so they could get dick and pussy (and in return you get twice as much pussy).

Love is giving without expecting anything in return. If she let you fuck girls she thought were ugly, then it would be about "sharing".