Not everyone deserves sympathy.
Benjipwns is definitely on that list. He hasn't really affected me at all, but you gotta be going through life with massive blinders if you think he's an okay (not even good mind you, just okay) person or hasn't massively hurt a metric ton of people with his positions.
And if you are aware of all of that and still choose to have sympathy for the man, regardless of how that will make those metric ton of other people feel and have no sympathy for them, well, says a lot about you, don't it?