some non-era drama:
one of the more prominent repositories online for LBGT+ information is fandom wiki (formerly wikia), a common search result under many major search engines, especially for more fringe sexuality concepts
fandom wiki staff realized that with such prominence, there was some level of rigor and responsibility which was not being properly honored, and a week ago they decided they were going to merge all LGBT+ related wikis into one, with an emphasis on accuracy and
citing reliable, verifiable sources. to quote their post, "The main LGBTQIA+ Wiki will have a page on xenogenders (with examples), but not the thousands of pages as on other wikis." (read: glittergender confuses normies and/or makes us look like
the alliance of magicians so we're done hosting all of those)
predictably, everyone lost their shit
https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/User_blog:Sannse/A_new_combined_wikiTW: Swearing and Caps, please read with caution
...Yeah, no. Screw you and the rest of your moderators. I do not support this decision in the slightest. This is completely disrespectful to the authors of the LGBTA and Ezgender wiki that have put their time and energy into creating a SAFE and ACCEPTING space for every queer individual. WE DO NOT NEED TO MERGE BECAUSE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR WEBSITE "Clean and pretty and exclusionist UWU". You have REFUSED TO LISTEN to and consider the THOUSANDS of people who are saying that they DON'T FUCKING WANT THIS. Identities that "only exist on the internet" are VALID. By separating the two you are inherently implying that those identities do not matter to the LGBTQIA community. If you actually go through with this I will have to stop supporting FANDOM. If this can happen to the LGBTQIA community, it can happen to any community as evolving on here. Once again, screw you. Start listening to us and stop this bullshit before I have to delete my account on here.
Our identities our official. Our identities are real and are not "fictional". Your merging of these wikis was uncalled for, and you did it in the most transphobic, intersexist, and whatever-else-phobic way possible. I will not be using your websites anymore. You are nothing but queer gatekeepers and I will not stand for this.
Down with the cishets.
this person objects to the decision using no less than 20 of their individual headmates, which include multiple characters from paper mario: thousand year door and undertalethis fandom staff member Sannse is
enduring a lot of personally targeted abuse on their wallStop the merge, exclusionist.
Or else. Do you realize how many people your may hurt, devastate, and even drive to su1c1de with this decision?? Answer me, you coward. Stop it before the entire LGBTQ community rains hellfire upon this company.
JUST MAKE A NEW WIKI AND LEAVE THIS ONE UP, EXCLUSIONIST CORPORATE PIG
nevertheless, fandom wiki was undeterred, and the merge is ongoing
this post from admins was intensely problematic:Hi, I'm one of the admins here. Please read this as serious and sincere in tone.
This wiki documents terms that are in use or have historically been used in multiple settings, which is not a good fit for introducing terms newly coined online to see if they catch on. Many xenogender coinings are posted and then never used by anyone as an identity term, meaning they do not have a history of use. Our wiki will operate differently from those that collect every coined term as soon as it is coined. This means we aren't the right place to bring every xenogender identity into the spotlight with its own page.
"Uncommon" and "rare" does not mean they are not valid!
Based on results from the Gender Census, an annual survey of non-binary individuals, less than 2% of those survey respondents identified as xenogender. It can be assumed that for individual xenogender identities under the umbrella, the percentage is even smaller. Xenogender is of course part of the LGBTQIA+/MOGAI community, and we have a page inclusive of it as a standalone identity and an umbrella term. Thus far, the term xenogender itself is just beginning to break out of Tumblr and other online communities and into print. Individual xenogender-related terms and identities are just beginning that process.
The many xenogender pages that have been created on other Fandom wikis will not disappear forever. Although LGBTA Wiki and others will be going offline, all pages are archived. Fandom can assist wikis with taking those archived contents and giving them a new home, whether it's on Ezgender or on a non-Fandom host.
wiki admins and mods seem to conclude that the xenogender authors of these wikis were more or less participating in an SCP foundation-style mass creative writing/
vexillology exercise, which has been brought to an end
there is no longer a home for the likes of
dreamsexuality, whose pride flag incorporated the Microsoft Paint default thought bubble
Dreamsexual, also known as Sognaresexual and Yumesexual, is when someone only feels sexual attraction during dreams, but rarely or never feels sexual attraction when awake. It is on the asexual spectrum, and the aromantic counterpart is dreamromantic or sognareromantic.
History
The term appears to have been coined by an anomynous user on January 24, 2021; however, its origins are unknown.
Flag
The flag was created by FANDOM user Clear.Skyes on January 26, 2021.
The alternate flag was created by FANDOM user Squiddydee on January 31, 2021.[1] The pink gradient represents the soft, vague, misty, sweet side of dreams and the blue-gray gradient represents the more turbulent, bizarre, and darker side of dreams. The black stripe represents the night.
The second alternate flag was created by FANDOM user Reign of the breadsticcs on or before April 2, 2021.
which has been consistently at the top of their "popular" sidebar, because:
For a second I thought they were talking about the minecraft youtuber Dream.
same
Kids are so stupid to think that this means Dream (the youtuber) like what?
I thought it was gonna be the OTHER dreamsexual lol
can you guys shut up in the comments and focus on this sexuality instead. i absolutely LOVE the flag and think its a very cool and unique sexuality and valid!
of course, refugees are already moving on to other pastures, like miraheze, which now helpfully hosts
the definition of Neptunic for us
User strwbryfemme on Twitter made an alternate neptunic flag on or before July 4, 2021. The flag was created to have a higher contrast for art, the same designer made a 4 stripe version for the same reason.[5] @strwbryfemme's flags should be used with caution as fawn has a history of exclusionism against m-spec lesbians.[6][7]
I also discovered this
https://lgbta.fandom.com/wiki/Apantigenders