the other side wants us to be as flamboyant as can be with our sexuality which makes children think it's okay to be sexual at such a young age.
uh, what side would that be? There's two sides, sure, but they are:
1. People who think kids will avoid or reduce having sex if we pretend it's a taboo and don't talk about it, or even worse, punish it. Christians, paranoiacs, and resentful adults populate this category.
2. People who accept that kids are gonna make fuck no matter what because they're wired to do so, and want them to do it armed with enough information to at least attempt to make informed decisions. Rational and secure folks populate this category.