Author Topic: Do you want kids? (Read 13052 times)

Prost · « **Reply #120 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:49:25 PM »

what you can be selfish there's nothing wrong with that.... yeah if you don't have kids you are being more selfish than someone who doesn't.... and what you take offense to it? it's true you're being more selfish, but why would you care what other people think?

i dont think there's anything wrong with people deciding to not have kids and have more time to themselves and I actually want kids.

for some reason i feel a strong obligation to have kids, like i can inspire happiness into my child, and have them go out and do good things to the world. help people and be happy themselves. that's and overall general feeling that's really strong for me, and i feel would basically give me a "i can die happy.. feeling complete" type of feeling.

you got people who want to see every part of the world, and that's what will give them the "i can die happy" complete feeling. or some guys want to sleep with 5,000 women and that's what will make them happy. hell there's a fuckin ton of things a person can do. kids is just one.... most common one sure, but just one.. just so happens it's mine

CajoleJuice · « **Reply #121 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:52:10 PM »

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:43:24 PM

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:32:27 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:30:13 PM
don't player hate, just because i get more ass than you guys!

Not all of us can be stalkers that travel to other continents to get laid.

come visit me, cajole

To travel that far, I need to see a written contract that guarantees I will get the opportunity to put that birth control to the test.

Prost · « **Reply #122 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:52:54 PM »

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:52:10 PM

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:43:24 PM
Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:32:27 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:30:13 PM
don't player hate, just because i get more ass than you guys!

Not all of us can be stalkers that travel to other continents to get laid.

come visit me, cajole

To travel that far, I need to see a written contract that guarantees I will get the opportunity to put that birth control to the test.

Mupepe · « **Reply #123 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:53:56 PM »

i get to see cloud this summer.

cloudwalking · « **Reply #124 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:54:03 PM »

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:52:10 PM

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:43:24 PM
Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:32:27 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:30:13 PM
don't player hate, just because i get more ass than you guys!

Not all of us can be stalkers that travel to other continents to get laid.

come visit me, cajole

To travel that far, I need to see a written contract that guarantees I will get the opportunity to put that birth control to the test.

we might be able to arrange this.

Mupepe · « **Reply #125 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:54:54 PM »

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:54:03 PM

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:52:10 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:43:24 PM
Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:32:27 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:30:13 PM
don't player hate, just because i get more ass than you guys!

Not all of us can be stalkers that travel to other continents to get laid.

come visit me, cajole

To travel that far, I need to see a written contract that guarantees I will get the opportunity to put that birth control to the test.

we might be able to arrange this.

write me in on that contract please. or just tell me that you and I can still hold hands and watch tv. I'll be fine with that. i like holding hands.

CajoleJuice · « **Reply #126 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:57:19 PM »

Quote from: Mupepe on April 10, 2007, 04:54:54 PM

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:54:03 PM
Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:52:10 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:43:24 PM
Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 04:32:27 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 04:30:13 PM
don't player hate, just because i get more ass than you guys!

Not all of us can be stalkers that travel to other continents to get laid.

come visit me, cajole

To travel that far, I need to see a written contract that guarantees I will get the opportunity to put that birth control to the test.

we might be able to arrange this.
write me in on that contract please. or just tell me that you and I can still hold hands and watch tv. I'll be fine with that. i like holding hands.

You don't know how to haggle.

Mupepe · « **Reply #127 on:** April 10, 2007, 04:58:58 PM »

i'm not haggling. we agreed to the hands thing months ago. i'm just making sure it's still good. i'm sexually satisfied by my girlfriend.

DJ_Tet · « **Reply #128 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:00:12 PM »

Is this where we sign to try and get around the new diaphragm? I'm in, my boys can't swim straight

edit: I don't particularly want kids, but I'm not morally opposed to it either. It would have to be with a loving and attentive mother, I don't really want to be bothered with them too much. A kid would be rewarding on a personal level, but there are many other things one can accomplish that would lead to rewards as well. The one fear I have is not having someone to help take care of me as I age, but hell, there's worse things.

CajoleJuice · « **Reply #129 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:02:53 PM »

Quote from: Mupepe on April 10, 2007, 04:58:58 PM

i'm not haggling. we agreed to the hands thing months ago. i'm just making sure it's still good. i'm sexually satisfied by my girlfriend.

I wonder if she feels the same!

Mupepe · « **Reply #130 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:07:11 PM »

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 05:02:53 PM

Quote from: Mupepe on April 10, 2007, 04:58:58 PM
i'm not haggling. we agreed to the hands thing months ago. i'm just making sure it's still good. i'm sexually satisfied by my girlfriend.

I wonder if she feels the same!

She better

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #131 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:45:30 PM »

you have kids for completely selfish reasons -- you're egotistical enough to think that your genetic material is worth passing on and to live vicariously through them when your youth is lost. you want them to succeed where you failed. or you're trying to intellectually justify a primitive need. either way, it's all utterly selfish.

my wife and i had a daughter because we were curious and naive -- could we actually raise a kid? that got answered pretty quick -- yes, we can -- and now we have a good 16 years (probably more, if some of you are anything to go by) of utterly decimated free time, additional financial obligations, and a whole new source of pure razor-in-the-guts stress. i love my daughter dearly -- she is super smart and super cute and i see a lot potential in her -- but did we have her out of some sort of enlightened rationale? no, we had her out of ignorance. we're living with the consequences of that ignorance, and refactoring our lives to make sure our selfishness doesn't impede her, but until you've had a child, you'll never know the high cost of that refactoring.

Mupepe · « **Reply #132 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:47:03 PM »

i had my daughter out of stupidity and learned a valuable lesson...

use birth control moran.

Prost · « **Reply #133 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:49:05 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on April 10, 2007, 05:45:30 PM

you have kids for completely selfish reasons -- you're egotistical enough to think that your genetic material is worth passing on and to live vicariously through them when your youth is lost. you want them to succeed where you failed. or you're trying to intellectual justify a primitive need. either wat, it's all utterly selfish.

my wife and i had a daughter because we were curious and naive -- could we actually raise a kid? that got answered pretty quick -- yes, we can -- and now we have a good 16 years (probably more, if some of you are anything to go by) of utterly decimated free time, additional financial obligations, and a whole new source of pure razor-in-the-guts stress. i love my daughter dearly -- she is super smart and super cute and i see a lot potential in her -- but did we have her out of some sort of enlightened rationale? no, we had her out of ignorance. we're living with the consequences of that ignorance, and refactoring our lives to make sure our selfishness doesn't impede her, but until you've had a child, you'll never know the high cost of that refactoring.

I just completely disagree with that...
but to each his own!

demi · « **Reply #134 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:49:38 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on April 10, 2007, 05:45:30 PM

you have kids for completely selfish reasons -- you're egotistical enough to think that your genetic material is worth passing on and to live vicariously through them when your youth is lost. you want them to succeed where you failed. or you're trying to intellectual justify a primitive need. either wat, it's all utterly selfish.

my wife and i had a daughter because we were curious and naive -- could we actually raise a kid? that got answered pretty quick -- yes, we can -- and now we have a good 16 years (probably more, if some of you are anything to go by) of utterly decimated free time, additional financial obligations, and a whole new source of pure razor-in-the-guts stress. i love my daughter dearly -- she is super smart and super cute and i see a lot potential in her -- but did we have her out of some sort of enlightened rationale? no, we had her out of ignorance. we're living with the consequences of that ignorance, and refactoring our lives to make sure our selfishness doesn't impede her, but until you've had a child, you'll never know the high cost of that refactoring.

I'm sure your daughter won't appreciate being called a mistake.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #135 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:51:37 PM »

prost, you yourself said you wanted to have a kid so you can "die happy" and "complete". sounds pretty selfish to me!

kids will never thank you for having them. raising them well? maybe. but that's hardly a factor at the time you choose to have them, eh?

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #136 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:52:42 PM »

Quote from: demi on April 10, 2007, 05:49:38 PM

I'm sure your daughter won't appreciate being called a mistake.

i don't think she was a mistake. read for comprehension, moody man!

demi · « **Reply #137 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:53:28 PM »

Ok, my mistake. A child born from ignorance. Sounds like a Phoenix Dark scenario.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #138 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:59:05 PM »

yeeeeeeah, i'm gonna say i think you have absolutely zero insight, here.

demi · « **Reply #139 on:** April 10, 2007, 05:59:29 PM »

More reason to have a kid, then.

Beezy · « **Reply #140 on:** April 10, 2007, 06:00:48 PM »

Quote from: demi on April 10, 2007, 05:59:29 PM

More reason to have a kid, then.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #141 on:** April 10, 2007, 06:26:16 PM »

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #142 on:** April 10, 2007, 07:24:11 PM »

Quote from: Ruzbeh on April 10, 2007, 07:20:26 PM

Ok, so about the people who don't want kids:

Where do you think you'll see yourself in 20, 30 years? When you're 50 or 60 or something. Will you still be having the wild lifestyle you're enjoying now? Going out, meeting people? Having unlimited, unprotected, hot steaming SEX? No. So what will you have left? Nothing. Your husband/wife will be old and unattractive, you can't make friends easily. But if you made some babies, you would have these loving people that you would call your son or daughter. And they will nearly always cuddle up to you and say

I love you mommy/daddy

Come the fuck on.

Listening to them at this age is useless. I'm sure the 20 year old Drinky thought he'd never have children, much less ever consentually feel the touch of a woman.

Cloud will be preggers in 6 years write it down. At the most I'd say 10 years. She falls in love far too easily

etiolate · « **Reply #143 on:** April 10, 2007, 07:51:34 PM »

Quote from: CajoleJuice on April 10, 2007, 03:16:59 PM

cloud needs the super birth control.

Who needs birth control when you date far away gay men?

SpeedRazor · « **Reply #144 on:** April 10, 2007, 07:56:22 PM »

Nope, none at all. I had to go to a few doctors in Minnesota, but I finally found one that would let me get a Vasectomy while single.

Glad I had it done, don't regret it at all. Fragamemnon hit a lot of the key points to why I did it as well.

Ichirou · « **Reply #145 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:09:02 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on April 10, 2007, 05:45:30 PM

you have kids for completely selfish reasons -- you're egotistical enough to think that your genetic material is worth passing on and to live vicariously through them when your youth is lost. you want them to succeed where you failed. or you're trying to intellectual justify a primitive need. either way, it's all utterly selfish.

my wife and i had a daughter because we were curious and naive -- could we actually raise a kid? that got answered pretty quick -- yes, we can -- and now we have a good 16 years (probably more, if some of you are anything to go by) of utterly decimated free time, additional financial obligations, and a whole new source of pure razor-in-the-guts stress. i love my daughter dearly -- she is super smart and super cute and i see a lot potential in her -- but did we have her out of some sort of enlightened rationale? no, we had her out of ignorance. we're living with the consequences of that ignorance, and refactoring our lives to make sure our selfishness doesn't impede her, but until you've had a child, you'll never know the high cost of that refactoring.

Show her this post when she's like ten years old to make her cry.

cloudwalking · « **Reply #146 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:12:47 PM »

how am i gonna get pregnant in 6 years if i get an IUD which can stay inside of me for up to 10 years? you guys are dumb.

Ichirou · « **Reply #147 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:14:23 PM »

What's an IUD?

cloudwalking · « **Reply #148 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:15:37 PM »

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IUD

Ichirou · « **Reply #149 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:16:53 PM »

Are there pictures of genitalia on that link? 'Cuz I'm at work...

DJ_Tet · « **Reply #150 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:17:17 PM »

Sweet. I'll get a test if that's all that's needed, I love bareback.

cloudwalking · « **Reply #151 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:18:37 PM »

Quote from: Ichirou on April 10, 2007, 08:16:53 PM

Are there pictures of genitalia on that link? 'Cuz I'm at work...

no

Bacon · « **Reply #152 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:18:58 PM »

The IUD doesn't look very comfortable.

cloudwalking · « **Reply #153 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:19:33 PM »

Quote from: Bacon on April 10, 2007, 08:18:58 PM

The IUD doesn't look very comfortable.

neither do tampons, but millions of women use them

Ichirou · « **Reply #154 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:20:13 PM »

Yeah, but you don't leave a tampon in yourself for up to ten years. :/

cloudwalking · « **Reply #155 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:23:14 PM »

Quote from: Ichirou on April 10, 2007, 08:20:13 PM

Yeah, but you don't leave a tampon in yourself for up to ten years. :/

that sounds like a challenge!

Ichirou · « **Reply #156 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:25:59 PM »

Don't you get toxic shock or something from leaving tampons in too long? Don't do it, cloud!

cloudwalking · « **Reply #157 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:26:32 PM »

i laugh in the face of death

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #158 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:27:09 PM »

Yeah Ichirou, toxic shock sydrom usually happens if you leave the tampon in for too long.

Bacon · « **Reply #159 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:28:03 PM »

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:19:33 PM

Quote from: Bacon on April 10, 2007, 08:18:58 PM
The IUD doesn't look very comfortable.

neither do tampons, but millions of women use them

Tampons looks snug and comfy. The IUD looks like a fishhook.

demi · « **Reply #160 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:28:46 PM »

Have you ever sucked the blood out of one of Roxy's tampons?

cloudwalking · « **Reply #161 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:29:27 PM »

looks can be deceiving bacon $:-\$

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #162 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:29:52 PM »

Straight from the milks teet nudge nudge.

MMMMM iron.

Bacon · « **Reply #163 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:39:33 PM »

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:29:27 PM

looks can be deceiving bacon $:-\$

Oh I know. I say that to girls all the time when my pants come off.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #164 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:57:44 PM »

WTF? Cloud has turned this into some kind of Hellish womans-unmentionables dinner * theater. $:-\$

* Note: I'm eating right now.

cloudwalking · « **Reply #165 on:** April 10, 2007, 08:59:53 PM »

Quote from: Ruzbeh on April 10, 2007, 08:49:18 PM

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:12:47 PM
how am i gonna get pregnant in 6 years if i get an IUD which can stay inside of me for up to 10 years? you guys are dumb.

It's not fullproof. It says so on that wikipedia page. 0.6% is very high. The chance of getting Asperger Syndrome is only at 0.4%, AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TO ME

0.6 percent is hardly high. i was on the pill with perfect use for ages and it has a higher failure rate. no problems whatsoever.

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #166 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:01:11 PM »

Quote from: Ruzbeh on April 10, 2007, 08:49:18 PM

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:12:47 PM
how am i gonna get pregnant in 6 years if i get an IUD which can stay inside of me for up to 10 years? you guys are dumb.

It's not fullproof. It says so on that wikipedia page. 0.6% is very high. The chance of getting Asperger Syndrome is only at 0.4%, AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TO ME

Hey your autism's is getting old just like me getting fat. Stop using it as a crutch.

So cloud likes the cum in her cooch what girl doesnt want to feel a hot load shot inside them?

DJ_Tet · « **Reply #167 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:04:04 PM »

I thought you were losing weight G?

And I want to hear more about how many guys tested out Cloud's pill failure rate

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #168 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:08:08 PM »

why is it that I hate it when any girl talks about guys shes been with? Its disturbing, and I feel unmanly for feeling like I do. :'(

Maybe I'm just a gentlemen.

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #169 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:11:21 PM »

Quote from: DJ_Tet on April 10, 2007, 09:04:04 PM

I thought you were losing weight G?

And I want to hear more about how many guys tested out Cloud's pill failure rate

I hit a plataue so i have to change it up and work out harder. My body is changing a lot lately not in good ways right now but in a month or two i'll be good.

DJ_Tet · « **Reply #170 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:24:22 PM »

Quote from: Father_Mike on April 10, 2007, 09:08:08 PM

why is it that I hate it when any girl talks about guys shes been with? Its disturbing, and I feel unmanly for feeling like I do. :'(

Maybe I'm just a gentlemen.

I only hate hearing about guys a girl I'm going to get with has fucked. Since I'll never have cloud, I have no qualms about hearing about her apparently active sex life. It's a turn on

demi · « **Reply #171 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:26:20 PM »

Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:59:53 PM

Quote from: Ruzbeh on April 10, 2007, 08:49:18 PM
Quote from: cloudwalking on April 10, 2007, 08:12:47 PM
how am i gonna get pregnant in 6 years if i get an IUD which can stay inside of me for up to 10 years? you guys are dumb.

It's not fullproof. It says so on that wikipedia page. 0.6% is very high. The chance of getting Asperger Syndrome is only at 0.4%, AND LOOK WHAT HAPPENED TO ME

0.6 percent is hardly high. i was on the pill with perfect use for ages and it has a higher failure rate. no problems whatsoever.

That's because you were using the wrong hole.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #172 on:** April 10, 2007, 09:26:31 PM »

Quote from: DJ_Tet on April 10, 2007, 09:24:22 PM

Quote from: Father_Mike on April 10, 2007, 09:08:08 PM
why is it that I hate it when any girl talks about guys shes been with? Its disturbing, and I feel unmanly for feeling like I do. :'(

Maybe I'm just a gentlemen.

I only hate hearing about guys a girl I'm going to get with has fucked. Since I'll never have cloud, I have no qualms about hearing about her apparently active sex life. It's a turn on

See I use to be like that but now its every girl. maybe I'm just jealous other people get something and i get nothing $:-\$