Very true mandark, but most libertarians, like most ANYTHING, aren't really worth talking to. I really believe much of the apathy, irrationality, and irresponsibility of todays society stems from the fact, that no matter what dumb shit we do, the government will bail us out. Someone else will take the fall, or more realistically, we'll all take the fall, a fraction of a penny at a time. I think if we are to side with morals, these people need some tough fuckin' love. If we are to side with practicality, we should just kill off all the dumbs and poors and arabs and replace them with robots. Socialism is a pretty little compromise between them both. But if we keep going at the rate we are going, tyranny is the only conclusion I can envision. LEFT vs RIGHT is nothing more than a congame to disenfranchise people and make them hate politics, so the brainwashed and dogmatic can keep the powerful in power. No one is going to be around to defend rationality when theres no need for it anymore. That is the logical conclusion of socialism. Of wealth equality. Of no man or woman left behind, no matter how stupid and useless they are. If people can leech, they will, that is a simple fact of life. If people can choose between the easy nonthinking path and the hard path they will choose the easy every time. There isn't going to be any moderation or any reasoning when you have politicians appealling to the mob and a mob that can't reason. Eventually the system will bankrupt itself.
As for independence from societies influence, the human mind has the potential to create thought and values independently of such things. We don't all have the ability. But should we treat everyone as sheep, or everyone as individuals?
I wouldn't say I'm idealistic, I believe I'm very realistic about the future and people in general. Human nature is flawed, and whatever course of action we take is going to be flawed. But what is right is right, regardless of any of that.
I'm possibly rambling, I haven't slept and I'm on cold medicine. Thats the general idea though.